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You can be a heavy hitter in the bed and still use some sex tips. Honestly, it seems like the most experienced individuals are the ones most open to learning MORE. Personally, if you’re good at something, you should always be looking for ways to be better! And that’s where sex tips come in! What’s your best skill in bed? In what area could you use improvement? Do you know, or are you even willing...

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If you know what it’s like to give and receive a great sexual experience, then you most likely know that foreplay is one of the most important parts of sex. But there are so many people who don’t know how essential this is and they end up dropping the ball. Foreplay can be anything you want it to be, as long as it’s not intercourse. “Kissing, hugging, squeezing, touching” or whatever Lil Jon said!...

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Ready? Set? Boundaries. Boundaries are so necessary in every area of our lives. We have to set boundaries within friendships, relationships, companionships in the workplace and even self. The lack of boundaries can leave you in situations that you could have avoided had you stood ten toes on what you were unwilling to accept, or even unwilling to do. Inconsistent boundaries can lead to a toxic sit...

Thanks to social media (as always) applying pressure has been one of the heavier conversations. It seems to have come out of the blue but in reality, it’s just another saying for “courtship and consistency.” Nowadays women say “apply pressure or move around” and men move around because it sounds intimidating. So, press play and let Terry and Kam break it down for y’all in the best way possible so...

Last year, a huge thing happened on social media with red flags! Some of them were funny, some were obviously personal attacks and some were actually quite realistic! In the dating realm, we tend to ignore red flags for whatever reason: you really like this person, you and this person have history or maybe you’re simply just tired of being by yourself. But ignoring red flags rarely ever works out...

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Self-doubt vs Self-belief Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509Tap into Patreon Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_

Have you ever been on a first date from hell? Have you ever had a first date that you still think about sometimes? I think as adults, we can all say we have experienced both. First dates can be tricky! You don’t want to cross any lines but you don’t want to be timid either. Often both parties get caught up in impressing the other person, instead of just being themselves. This creates expectations...

Went to therapy because I wanted to stop cheating but I opened Pandora's box. I had no clue all the things I would learn about myself. I'm a big advocate of therapy so I'm doing to monologue mini series to show how therapy has helped me and hopefully encourage some people to go. Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509Tap into Patreon Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks I...

When it comes to getting to know someone, naturally you want to see all of their best qualities out on display but truthfully, that’s slightly unrealistic. Revealing comes with trust but there are so many ways to find out if you like someone without having to get in their business, or get too personal. It’s called PAYING ATTENTION. This could be on social media, in group settings, even simply watc...

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They say doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results is quite literally insanity. In the dating world, we tend to think that we can visit the same bars, clubs and parties and get a different experience when in reality, if you want different, you gotta make different choices, visit different places, talk to people you usually wouldn’t and do things you told yourself you sh...

When it comes down to what we want, sometimes we ignore what we truly need and it can send us down a rabbit role of toxicity. Knowing yourself means you have to be willing to accept that what you need is much more important. Do you truly know yourself? Do you know your triggers? The things that turn you off? On? And if someone asked you on the spot, “what are your non-negotiables,” would you be ab...

This season on TRP, Terry and Kam take listeners on a joureny from A-Z in the dating realm. This episode starts at the very beginning: MINDSET. Tune-in to see all ways that your mindset can positively or negatively impact your dating life and desried outcomes. Are you really prepared for what your'e asking for? Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509Tap into Patreon Join our Patreon Community Buy...

Lay Up. Slam Dunk. REBOUND. In basketball, we know a rebound is when a player gets the ball after a missed shot! In the dating realm? That definition is not far off. The failed relationship is the missed shot and the person going for thw rebound is the unhealed individual who is trying to move on too fast! We all know somebody, maybe even ourselves, who has tried to move on in order to “help them...

Anyone who has loved knows that love is one of the most abstract emotions that a human can feel. It comes in many forms, sizes and magnitudes. But is every feeling love or are people just tied to that feeling because they deem it to be a positive emotion all the time? On this episode, we will explore the Triangle Theory of Love by Robert Sternberg. This theory claims that the context of interperso...

Whats  typical for a nigga to get your attention on social media? What was the best way someone slid  in your dms? Whats the best/worst  line  you've received? How do you shoot yo shot on social media? Tips for the ladies and men to slide in the dm Leave me a voicemail: 773-340-1509Tap into Patreon Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective...

How did the way you were parented and/or what you saw in your house effect your dating? How is your parenting method different from how you were raised? What methods are the same? Are you looking for someone similar to your MOM or DAD? Do you want a relationship like your parents? What have you had to personally unlearn from your parents, that has shown up in you’re dating? Are some of your views...

"Good guys finish last" a proverb taught to young men since the beginning of time. But what do men do with this proverb? Do they become bad guys to avoid the pain of losing with women? Or do they become good good guys and accpet their demise? Today, Terry and KAM solve one of the oldest equations in the dating world: Why do good girls like bad guys? They also take a deep dive into what m...

Why do men treat their best friends better than they treat their own girlfriends? Why do we hear less about women doing this? Is this because more men would feel a way about being our second to another man? Why do women get upset at the relationship between their boyfriend and his best friend? Is this because she is afraid to be replaced? Does this only apply when the best friends are of opposite...

Why do men treat their best friends better than they treat their own girlfriends? Why do we hear less about women doing this? Is this because more men would feel a way about being our second to another man? Why do women get upset at the relationship between their boyfriend and his best friend? Is this because she is afraid to be replaced? Does this only apply when the best friends are of opposite...