Rock Solid Families

So why this topic of Shame Free parenting? As parents, our job is to help our children meet their physical, cognitive AND emotional needs. Physical abuse or neglect is a lot easier to spot and call out. Even cognitive is easier. If the child isn’t getting to school or learning how to walk, talk, or read or socialize….it shows pretty early. But emotional needs are just as important. They give our k...

As with all our shows, we’re approaching this topic of dating later in life from a Christian perspective. We believe it’s the healthiest way to approach dating. Looking at every date through the lens of a good, good father who is crazy about you and has amazing plans for your life is very different than how the world views dating. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us to guard our heart above all things becaus...

Today’s topic is one we have visited before.  But today, we would like to address the topic from a different angle.  As parents we would never want to intentionally hurt our kids.  We desire the best for them and all of the best opportunities to do well in life.  But, over the years we have lost sight of what “the best” really means for our kids. In many cases we have recognized what we have earne...

Embark with Linda and me on an intimate exploration of the complex tapestry of love, from its passionate beginnings to the profound connections we cherish in friendships and family. We're unwrapping the mystery of love's many forms, starting with a look at 'Eros' - the romantic, fiery love that often gets our hearts racing. But we won't stop there; we're threading thr...

In a perfect world I think we could agree that keeping marriages healthy and two parents in the house raising the children is the optimal situation.  But, we live in a less than optimal world.  As this relates to the home we often have marriages coming apart and children being raised by parents or step parents that often desire little to do with each other.  The result can be a devastating environ...

Should I seek counseling or therapy for my child?   Here are some things to consider Advice -  Before jumping into therapy, have you considered that you, as the parent, are likely to have the greatest influence and support in helping your child through many situations.   Oftentimes we suggest that we spend our counseling sessions with the parents to help give them the tools necessary to tend to th...

Making difficult decisions can be stressful and even paralyzing.  "Should I take the job or not?  "Where should I live?" " How should I spend my money?" "What should I study in school?" "Who should I marry?" As you can see the list can seem to go on and on.  The "right" answer seems to be hidden and rarely appears to give us that definitive st...

Now that the new year is started, have you taken any time to recalibrate your goals? Did you even have any goals?  Often we stop setting goals because we seem to fail at reaching them more than we would like to admit.  This leads us to stop the goal setting process and just let life happen.   How about this year you take a different approach.  How about setting S.M.A.R.T. goals?  In this show Lind...

Here we are, starting a New Year!  It's hard to believe but great to know that we can take some time to re-prioritize and get back on track in areas that we may have strayed.   In particular, how have you been doing with your relationships?  Do you have your priorities straight with them?  Where do you place your kids relative to your spouse?  How about God?  Where does he rank in the priorit...

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Rock Solid Families EP 267: Mean Girls, Drama Queens, What's Up With All This Stuff? Linda Hutchinson and Meredith Scudder Are you tired of getting caught up in drama and conflict? Ready to break free from the toxic triangle that keeps you stuck? Then you need to listen to this episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast. In this eye-opening conversation, hosts Linda Hutchinson and Meredith Sc...

Rock Solid Families - EP266 - Teaching Your Kids the Value of Money Merrill and Linda Are you tired of feeling like an ATM for your kids? Do you want to teach them the value of a dollar and help them become financially responsible adults? Then you need to listen to this episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast. In this eye-opening conversation, hosts Linda and Merrill Hutchinson discuss the impo...

Are you tired of the same old family drama ruining your holiday season? Well, in this episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast, hosts Merrill and Linda Hutchinson dive into the topic of navigating family dynamics during the holidays. They discuss the commercialization and disruption of Christmas, as well as the struggles and broken relationships that often arise. But fear not, because they provi...

How do we, as Christian parents, guide our children through the complex topics of marriage, sex, and homosexuality from a biblical perspective? This challenging question sets the stage for our latest podcast episode. Our hosts delve into the delicate task of educating children about these important subjects, emphasizing the necessity of age-appropriate, biblically grounded discussions. They highli...

Rock Solid Families - EP263  Israel-Hamas War: Talking to Your Kids About Good vs Evil Merrill and Linda Hutchinson “Teach your children to pray so that if their little hearts feel heavy, they can go to God and not the world.” These powerful words from the Rock Solid Families podcast episode on parenting through dark times resonate deeply. As we reflect on war going on between Russia and Ukraine a...

Have you ever felt like counseling is too female-oriented? Well, you're not alone. In the latest episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast, Merrill and Linda Hutchinson delve into the vital role of communication in resolving relationship conflicts. Merrill brings up an interesting point about the counseling field often being skewed towards women, highlighting the importance of communication...

Hosts - Merrill and Linda Hutchinson "Conflict in marriage is not about winning or losing, but about finding a resolution that honors both partners," says Merrill Hutchinson. In this episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast, hosts Merrill and Linda Hutchinson dive into the topic of conflict resolution within marriage. They explore the different points that can lead to impasses in a rel...

Rock Solid Families - EP260 - Should I Home School My Kids? Lisa Cox - certified teacher that chose to bring her craft into her home Considering homeschooling your kids? In today's episode, we're unpacking the world of homeschooling, an educational path that's gaining traction among many Christian families. Lisa Cox, an experienced homeschooling parent, offers a firsthand look into...

Guest Host - Meredith Scudder Waiting is not a passive act, but an opportunity for growth. In this episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast, the hosts delve into the topic of waiting and the challenges it presents in our fast-paced, instant gratification society. They discuss how the younger generations, particularly millennials and Gen Z, struggle with patience due to growing up in a culture of...

Rock Solid Families -  EP258 - Inviting God to School  "Bringing God into our schools and homes is not about pushing an agenda, but about equipping our children with the tools to defend their faith and stand for what they believe. It's about instilling in them a strong identity and purpose in Christ, so that they can navigate the confusion and challenges of the world with confidence and...

"Men are not less than, they are different. Understanding their needs and meeting them where they are is the key to bringing them back into the church and empowering them to lead their families." - Merrill Hutchinson In this episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast, hosts Merrill and Linda Hutchinson discuss the importance of men's involvement in the church and the home. They high...

Rock Solid Families - EP256 - Thanks for 5 Years!  Merrill and Linda Hutchinson In this heartfelt 5 year anniversary episode, Linda and Merrill reflect on half a decade of their dedicated ministry, Rock Solid Families. They recount the myriad of lives they've impacted: from young adults, parents, and teens, to empty nesters and couples facing challenges. They open up about the inspiring tales...

God's truth has the power to shatter the lies we believe about ourselves and replace them with the value and worth He has bestowed upon us. In this episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast, hosts Merrill and Linda Hutchinson delve into the topic of the lies we believe about ourselves, others, and God. They share personal experiences of the lies they believed growing up and how those lies sh...

Rock Solid Families - EP254 - Calming Your Child's Emotional Storms Co-Host - Meredith Scudder - Assistant Director at Rock Solid Families Regulating our emotions is not about suppressing them, but rather about learning to respond instead of react. By modeling calmness and practicing co-regulation, we can create a safe space for our children to navigate the storms of life. In this episode of...

"Stand firm on your values and convictions, even when it's difficult. Show the love of Christ to your young adults, guiding them with truth and grace." - Rock Solid Families In this episode of the Rock Solid Families podcast, hosts Merrill and Linda Hutchinson discuss the topic of parenting young adults in the context of sexuality and relationships. They emphasize the importance of...