Rick Thomas | Your Daily Drive

Which is more important to you? To receive a leader's attention or receive their care? What if you turned the question around and looked at it from your leader’s perspective? "What is possible: to give each person all your attention or to give them your care?" Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/do-you-want-my-attention-or-my-care-2/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the...

During the IABC National Conference, I saw a creature slithering around the conference area, and since I had my mics set up for recording, I snagged him for this brief interview. If you're interested in my friend doing voiceover work for you, contact us at support@rickthomas.net Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickth...

Receiving counseling can be a good idea, which is one reason that we provide it with our ministry. But if you place the weight of your long-term change on a brief season of counseling, you will be sorely disappointed. Counseling office success should never shoulder the primary responsibility of transformation for anyone. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/counseling-is-not-the-best-option-if-you-wa...

How you listen and respond to someone will determine the kind of help you provide. Everybody does not problem-solve biblically, and you must know how to come alongside the hurting so you can bring the best care to them. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/is-it-necessary-to-use-biblical-categories-to-problem-solve/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can bec...

Does your wife show concern about what you do? Does she check up on you? Is she mostly aware or unaware of your thoughts and activities? Which of the following three categories best describe your wife’s attention to the details of your life? Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/there-is-a-blessing-to-be-found-in-an-unconcerned-wife/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the w...

Divorce is the worse thing that can happen in a marriage because it never ends. Death is final, but divorce has another life. And in that life, the ex-spouse can continue to complicate matters, which in many cases has something to do with the children. Read Here: Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurri...

I had a conversation with two counselees, and the issue of lying came up. I mentioned to them that telling falsehoods is a regular part of my profession. It was a sad, but true statement. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/counseling-is-a-lying-profession/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membe...

Being married and being a Christian does not automatically mean you will connect and relate to your spouse at the most secret part of your soul, which is your intimate knowledge of and experience with God. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/cant-tell-spouse-everything-im-thinking/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickt...

A counselee asked why I won’t counsel another way. She discerned a death feel to my counseling, and she was struggling. Though she does not disagree with my counseling approach, she did feel compelled to share her internal angst with me. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/rick-why-wont-you-counsel-another-way/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become...

Individuals within every group are guilty of making every person within a specific demographic or category the same. E.g., all whites are the same. All blacks are the same. All right is alt-right and all left is alt-left. It just is not true. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/let-tell-white-privilege/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a suppor...

To understand someone effectively, you have to listen on two levels. You listen to what they are saying, and you must listen at the heart level. There are two reasons you want to do this. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/a-good-listener-listens-on-two-levels-are-you-a-good-listener/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here r...

The question is, “Do I need to be certified to be a counselor?” The answer is, “No, not necessarily. You are already certified.” Let me explain, speaking from a Christian worldview. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/do-i-need-to-be-certified-to-be-a-counselor/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-...

A desire to be understood can create a false continuum with some individuals. It happens this way: a person is so impressed with how someone understands them that they accept their solution for their problem without reservation. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/have-you-fallen-for-the-being-understood-trap/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a...

Homosexuality is one of the more sensitive issues today, which should cause heightened awareness for Christians to guard their attitudes regarding how we respond to this problem. Following Paul's advice would be wise when it comes to interacting with the gay culture. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/the-gay-guy-said-i-was-born-this-way/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content...

As long as there is a sin, there will be divorce. Sin divides, and one of the places where it enjoys carving up relationships is the marriage bond. You could argue that divorcing is at the “head of the class” when cobbled together with all our other cultural blemishes. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/episode-33-are-children-better-off-with-divorced-parents/ Will you help us so we can continue to...

Leading your family should not be a mystery because God has given to us everything that we need for life and godliness. For most Christians, the issue is not a lack of knowledge but an unwillingness to apply the information that they already know. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/the-fallout-of-fatherlessness/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can becom...

What do McDonald’s, Walmart, your local high school, Christian school, any back alley, and your church facility have in common? I suppose there are several ways to answer this question. How about this? You can “make out” or smoke weed in any of those contexts. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/the-upside-to-smoking-weed-and-making-out-at-your-local-church/ Will you help us so we can continue to pr...

Biblical counseling has a place in our community, and as long as we keep it in its place while elevating a better "means of grace" for people to change, we will see more people changing. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/counseling-is-not-the-best-context-for-longterm-effectual-change/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here...

When someone hurts you, the natural thing is to run from it. No person should submit to abuse. The danger is that we can run into another kind of trouble. This marriage storyboard walks you through this predicament. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/storyboarding-marriage-from-dysfunction-to-restoration/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a sup...

Our culture is quite clear: the path to success is through education. No doubt, becoming smarter is essential, but academic equipping is not the most important thing according to God's Word. For all of you students who did not make all A's this year, I want to encourage your heart and refocus your priorities. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/striving-for-character-is-better-than-making-as/ Will y...

Biblical shame is genuine. It was one of the first things that happened to Adam after he sinned against the Lord. His response to shame was to grab a few fig leaves, which began a cover-up process that we all emulate. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/shame-i-dont-want-anyone-to-know-whats-happening/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a support...

Divorce is an awful experience. It is one of the more dreadful events a person could ever have, especially if the person going through the divorce doesn't want it and is unsure how to proceed. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/how-to-divorce-well/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ O...

The phone rang. Lucia picked it up but did not answer the caller. She handed it to me because she knew two things: It was probably about work, and my profession was more important than her and the children. Read Here: Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or r...

In some relationships, the communication is more about winning and losing rather than understanding each other. Guarding hearts and harnessing tongues is hard. Read Here: https://rickthomas.net/competitive-communication-winning-is-all-that-matters/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/...

A proactive plan to care for others assumes that you care for and love people. If you don't love people, your starting point is repentance. But if you do count others more significant than yourself, here are some helpful thoughts to motivate you to care for them well. Read More: https://rickthomas.net/a-proactive-plan-to-care-for-others/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content...