Results & Relationships

continuing the talk on Infinite and finite games. game Windows and the dont wait game.   If its a stupid game stop playing it. ignore sunk cost. doesnt matter how long you've been playing it. The ONE thinh that matters is it giving you what you want?

Level up your infinite game with your finite games Some of my ramblings on what is an infinite game and why should you care. What I think is not relevant and doent matter. What matters is what you think, and if this mindset change your behaviour? Some examples of the difference mindset of an infinite … Continue reading Level up your infinite game with your finite games →

Discomfort precede change I struggle alot  with sounding "Energetic" in my voice on my podcast. This episode contains some thoughts around the discomfort that always precedes change. Because change doesn't happen without discomfort. If that would be the case you'd be there already. What discomfort do you struggle with that is worth it for the … Continue reading Discomfort precede →

Who would miss the work you put at their table? Infinite and finite games Who would miss what that you put on their table, in your unique way, your style, your methods? Who would miss you if you were gone? What game are you playing and why? I hope you've got to celebrate a great … Continue reading Who would miss the work you put at their table? Infinite and finite games →

Treat everyone you meet as a volunteer "Accept the fact that you need to treat everyone like a volunteer". Is a quote by Peter Drucker ..if you want to help THEM, thus you, discover and unleash THEIR potential. You cant fully control that process. But you can encourage it. You can direct the energy and … Continue reading Treat everyone you meet as a volunteer →

3 games that matter 3 seats of power   3 Games that matter inner game: the why you play, the words you use in your head. outer game: current game/result you bring others infinite game:   3 seats of power  relationship power knowledge power authority/role power Your Chosen Position And the position from where you … Continue reading 3 games, 3 seats of power →

Are you ready? .. for opportunity when it comes knocking on YOUR door? I surely wasn't, for most of the times when it's been past my door. LINK For example when I was interviewed by John on his EOfire podcast. Having then more than a million downloads that scared me into doing nothing more than … Continue reading Are you ready? →

Learn more – know less   It isn't what you don't know that gets you into trouble, its what you know for sure, that just aint so Quote Mark Twain   Its important to focus on the learning part of ourself. Niches come and go. Business come and are great at first but most markets … Continue reading Learn more – know less →

Dare to ask questions. Dare to question your own worldview. Dare to help others see what you see, still respecting their perspective. Dare to speak out loud to a friend why you might be wrong. Dare to help others by showing your vulnerability in what you know and what you don't. There is power in … Continue reading Dare to ask questions. Dare to question your own worldview. Dare to help others see...

What if you behaved like your manager, client or customer payed you double for your results? Your ability to ask yourself the important questions determines more than you think. Treat your clients, customers, managers like they pay you a lot more than you do. How would you behave differently if that was the case? What's … Continue reading Behave like your manager, client or customer pay you double...

Borrowing Happiness from tomorrow. Making the best of today to enjoy both now and tomorrow Uncomfortable now rather than resentful later – by Brene brown Don't shrink, don't Puff. Brave and vulnerable at the same time. Healthy Boundaries When was the last time you choose to set a boundary by choosing to be uncomfortable now … Continue reading Borrowing Happiness from tomorrow →

Eye of the Beholder Your life is how you perceive it, not how you see it Everything is a projection. Both from you onto others, and others onto you. Like Einstein said "Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts" We're all biased. Own that when you communicate. … Continue reading Eye of the Beholder →

Owning your Strength i talk some about one worldview of "owning your strength" What is yours? and how do you embrace that worldview?   This episode is very different. This is because I took a course last week called VideoLabs over at VideoCreators.com So today's episode will actually be the audio-version my videos on YouTube … Continue reading Owning your Strength →

Lending some introduction and creating passion examples from the Computer Game world. For example perhaps you want to introduce your spouse to computer game play? It's a lot of the same synergies you want when introducing someone to your office. You want to connect to what matters to them to create passion, commitment and understanding … Continue reading Introduction to ComputerGames or new recrui...

The Magic of Delegating Better Save time and build peoples potential at the same time? Build relationships and get better results at the same time? Does this sound too good to be true? Try it and you'll see for yourself. The only thing is. You won't get a perfect alignment with things you delegate. You … Continue reading The Magic of Delegating Better →

State of Play: Focus on the relationships that matter Play is often used for doing better work, getting better revenue with innovative new ideas. Play is also often used to build teams, develop trust and enhancing effective behaviour. Its also very powerful when used at home, to deepen the relationship with those that matter the … Continue reading State of Play: Focus on the relationships that mat...

One Focus Work on one project at a time. its the kind AND focused way towards accomplishing greatness What are you working on that's got you most fired up? Questions like that I ask all the time. A trend I notice among my most successful friends is they rarely list a bunch of "I want … Continue reading One Focus →

Sleep affects the results of most things. Yet it's so easy to keep pushing investing in it forward. If you're lucky to have a few days of vacation right now. Don't trade your chance for some extra sleep away for all the attention seeking platforms out there. Instead of sitting up following a trail of … Continue reading Invest in your sleep – investing in better results, connections & empathy →

Time with your most important people.. and what story the data tells Blissful time with your most important people? Check your stats and think again.. Christmas is coming up. Remind yourself to be there slightly more than usual for those you care about. Be mindful, present and let a few of those noises rest until … Continue reading Time with your most important people.. and what story the data tel...

Exceptions to the rule. Dangers and inspiration Beware there be dragons here. Exceptions to the rule. Something we often long to become. Personally. While I deep to my core help people consistently grow their potential, by stretching all they are right now I still believe the media bombardments of "Exceptions to the rule" is the … Continue reading Exceptions to the rule. Dangers and inspiration →

Asking Right – a few thoughts on how to ask questions: For advice or anything else. We are living in wonderful times. It's easier than ever to connect with people around the globe getting help and advice. I believe must of us humans' wants to help. IF everything else is equal we will do the … Continue reading Asking Right →

Your Attention in the modern age and how it affects your relationships and everything Are you in control of your attention investments? I think not, I sure know I am struggling with the modern noise out there. Right now there is a near infinite set of algorithms out there working to seer you away from … Continue reading Your Attention in the modern age and how it affects your relationships and eve...

Your Compass and your Map-Making skills, your maps Legends and your ability to share Vision of what may be Are you trying to follow a map when really need your compass more because the map is outdated?   Are you daring to put a flag down helping others get there safely, within budget and time? … Continue reading Your Compass and your Map-Making skills, your maps Legends and your ability to share V...

Clarity, Clarity, Clarity – only then communicate Think "What is it for?" "WHO is this for?" Before you speak, before you plan, before you execute. For example, when talking in order to get things to happen: Own the emotions Own your body language Own your words Own your results its your responsibility if you keep … Continue reading Clarity, Clarity, Clarity – only then communicate →

What's YOUR style of play? This is not a quickfix/howto podcast harvesting on fear of loss, need for guarantees or checklist.   When I was a young leader of my first team I was desperately longing for a quick checklist to follow. Something that could guarantee if I followed its guidance I'd be great manager … Continue reading What's YOUR style of play? This is not a quickfix/howto podcast harvesti...