Results & Relationships

BetterBias, UpperLimit Belief & Risks – Please just start already     Books mentioned in this episode The Big Leap: Conquer Your Hidden Fear and Take Life to the Next Level Factfulness: Ten Reasons We're Wrong About the World--and Why Things Are Better Than You Think  

Your Story and Talking To Strangers I'm currently in Seth Godin's beta program of Storytelling and reflect out loud on the combination of that and the book I'm currently listening to (that was released today so I'm just partly done listening to it) Book: Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know about the People We Don't Know 2 Link: https://amzn.to/2Q7GCV0 Course: Story Skills Workshop Link: http...

On Trust Reach and information is not enough   is never about what you say its about what people do   do they trust what you see and bring to their table?

Please dont wait Please listen to the resistance, and the feelings that get in the way for teaching others what you know - then find a way to do it anyway. Also remind yourself of others calendar-time. often we intend to give generously but time catches up with us and without intending to we could have given no help + time to people instead of sending them early and with faults, we hoped to fix it...

Experimenting with things that might work but are not guaranteed to work takes a lot of emotional work. Separating the work from our self-identity. Allowing our "self-esteem" the hit of failure, when we all wish to make it. You'll never learn anything new properly if you're not open to be vulnerable in your self-esteem. If you can remove shame from not making things work the first time you try it...

I've spoken about Digital Twins multiple times over the years but it's worth a reminder on how it will affect your relationships and effectiveness  

ARE you generous towards yourself? so you'll know how to give better to those you care about? if we're not starting with also being generous to ourselves, its easy to fool ourselves what better looks like

Do you know your Oasis? Do you know where you regenerate? Where you get energy, insight and encouragement from? Its more often a WHO than a place. Are you investing energy finding people who get you, Or investing energy adapting to people who don't?   Only YOU know "your" place Dont let anyone else tell you otherwise

Status affect way more than it perhaps should. Accepting reality is the first step in changing it

Dont wait for mentoring. Dont wait to be picked. Dont wait to recieve that special anything. Instead work hard to position yourself AND thus making it more likely to have someone wanting to mentor you, to make yourself ready IF you get picked.  

Do things that matter today, so you'll learn. Don't waste time comparing – remind yourself it's the learning and doing that's important and comparing often gets in the way more than we ever learn. This is urgent. Do thinks every day that matters, however small. That consistency will what makes you win whenever you need to win way more likely than watching others.

Culture is just behaviour. Effect is just a result of behaviour. Are you focused on your own behaviour and that of those around you? without this it doesnt matter what your powerpoint slides say your people "should" do in a fancy greatlooking strategy document.

What does Resilience mean to you? What does it enable?

Are you doing the work that matters? Or are you just doing hard work because you "hope" if its hard, it should be rewarded?

Just some food for thought on the URGENT need for you to think about restorability so backups don't get in the way of your relationships. * Divorce and family photos? * Employee and boss asks for phone back? * Programmer backup = 100x speed and trust Trust? Are your provider doing analytics on your backups?