Remix Reality Podcast

There’s a difference between being looked at and being truly known. In this episode, we talk about what it means to feel seen in friendships and beyond, the good, the hard, and everything in between. From feeling invisible to finding people who truly get us, I share stories about showing up for each other and making space for others to do the same. Because being seen isn’t just about being noticed...

We’re getting real about the expectations we place on ourselves and what it actually looks like to grow, heal, and evolve. From the myth of having it all together to the hard truths about self accountability, we’re unpacking the lessons life teaches us, sometimes more than once. We’ll talk about why healing isn’t a linear, how to protect your peace, and what it means to let go of timelines and tru...

Not every friendship is forever, and that’s okay. This episode dives into why some people are just in our lives for a little while, and how regardless of the length of time, every connection still matters.

Fear will show up, it’s supposed to. Especially when you’re stepping into something meaningful, unfamiliar, or stretching yourself and skills in new ways. You’re scared because it matters to you! But just because you feel fear, it doesn’t mean it’s in charge. In this episode, we unpack how fear masks itself as “logic,” why it gets loud when you're close to something real, and what it actually look...

People always say, “Be kind to yourself.” But what if real self-kindness means holding yourself to high standards because you know you’re capable of more? In this episode, we’re flipping the script on self-criticism—learning how to use it as a tool for growth instead of a weapon for self-doubt. We’ll talk about why it’s a you vs. you game, the dangers of relying on external validation, and how suc...

Out with the old, in with the new. This episode is all about resetting your space, mind, and habits to step into a season of renewal. We’re talking about decluttering both physically and mentally by organizing your space, curating a healthier digital life, and letting go of emotional baggage. From clearing out your notes app and setting social media boundaries to embracing new routines and self-ca...

They say "comparison is the thief of joy," but in today’s world, it feels almost impossible to avoid. In this episode, we dive into how constant comparison—whether in school, work, family dynamics, or social media gradually steals our happiness and sense of self. We explore the pressure to measure up academically and professionally, the weight of family expectations, and how curated online lives m...

Faith is a journey—one that isn’t always straightforward. In this episode, I open up about my personal relationship with God, how it has evolved over time, and the struggles I’ve faced along the way. I also talk about my mental health journey and how faith has been a source of strength during difficult seasons. In addition to sharing my own experiences, I answer listener submissions about faith, d...

What does family really mean? Is it just blood, or does it include those who show up no matter what? In this episode, I dive into your questions about family, from traditions and conflicts to how relationships evolve over time. Plus, I share my own experiences—the good, the messy, and everything in between.

This week, we’re diving deep into the themes of self-love and identity through your words. I’ll be reading and reflecting on your personal submissions—stories, thoughts, and experiences that explore what it means to embrace who we are. From moments of self-discovery to powerful affirmations of self-worth, this episode is all about celebrating the journey to loving ourselves fully!

Love is in the air… or are you ignoring that red flag waving? This "love week", Lili plays part-time Cupid, part-time private investigator as she dives into listener submissions about love, work, and life dilemmas. From questionable dating behaviors to workplace situations, she’s here to help you figure out whether you’re seeing warning signs or just overanalyzing. Tune in for unfiltered advice, s...

Friendship can be messy, beautiful, and everything in between. I spill my own friendship horror stories, share what I’ve learned about finding real friends, and read listener submissions to give advice on everything from seasonal friendships to betrayal, forgiveness, and reliability. Some friendships shape us, some teach us hard lessons, and some should’ve ended way sooner. Because who you surroun...

Identity is ever-changing, but how much of that change is truly us, and how much is just to fit in? In this episode, we explore the pressure to adapt, the struggle for authenticity, and what it really means to truly know yourself . Lili opens up about her journey of self-discovery, grappling with the struggle to stay authentic while facing internal and external pressure

Ever feel like you're racing against an invisible clock, constantly striving to hit life’s milestones? In today’s episode, we unpack the pressure of society’s timelines and how they can rob us of the present moment. From career goals to relationship milestones, we’ll explore how these expectations lead to stress and anxiety, and offer practical ways to break free. Let’s shift the focus from the fu...

In this episode, I take a nostalgic trip down memory lane, exploring the evolution from Musical.ly to TikTok and reflecting on how we've all been along for the ride. From its impact on creativity and connection to the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of the, we unpack how TikTok has changed our lives in many ways. With talks of its potential end, it’s bittersweet to imagine saying goodbye to this...

This episode is all about looking back at 2024—the good, the bad, and the downright messy. I’m sharing my stories, the lessons I’ve learned, and how I’m using it all to set the tone for 2025. I hope that you walk away with a new perspective—or at least a good laugh.

In Episode 1, I share the vision behind this podcast and what inspired me to start it. You'll also get to know a little about me and the journey that led me here—thank you for tuning in!