Relationsh!t Podcast

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the big leap of moving for love . Is love alone enough to justify packing up your life? What should your future together actually look like once you make the move? And—maybe the most important question—should you get your own place first or move straight in with your partner? The guys unpack the challenges, the risks, and the...

Got some sh!t to say? In this week’s ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve are joined by Jerrell ( @rellrome )—your Auntea and co-host of the Minoritea Report Podcast ( @minoriteareport )—for a conversation about nitpicking in relationships and dating. Together, they explore whether nitpicking can be harmful or helpful, and how to recognize the difference. They also dig into the question: when you nitpi...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve slip into a slippery subject: personal lubricant. From water-based to silicone, flavored to specialty blends, the guys break down the different options and brands on the market. They share their own go-to choices, the not-so-great experiences they’ve had, and what they’ve learned along the way. Plus, they pose the big questions: What ma...

Got some sh!t to say? In the final (recorded) episode of Season 12, Marko and Steve close things out by revisiting some of the most memorable listener emails from Seasons 11 and 12—and finally finding out what happened after the guidance was given. From dating dilemmas to relationship crossroads, this episode is all about accountability, growth, and the unpredictable ways real life plays out once...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve wrap up 2025 by looking back at some of the standout conversations from the past two seasons of Relationsh!t . This finale episode revisits memorable interviews from Season 11 with Will ( @willonthemic ) from the No Ma’am Podcast and Dawon ( @dailydawon ) from the Minoritea Report Podcast , along with highlights from Season 12 featuring Jerrell ( @rellrome ) o...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve sit down with Auntea Kerel ( @iamkerel ) of the Minoritea Report Podcast ( @minoriteareport ) for an honest conversation about religion, faith, and how both collide with LGBTQ+ relationships. Together, they unpack what it’s like to grow up in the church, internalize its teachings, and then later come to terms with your sexuality—especially when those spaces do...

Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve dive headfirst into the messy, loud-whispered, and oh-so-queer conversation around “body count.” Does your sexual history shape how desirable you are as a partner, or is it just another outdated trope we drag into modern dating? The guys break down why body count still comes up in queer conversations, unpack where the idea of being “pure” even...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the often-taboo topic of masturbation within committed relationships. They explore how self-pleasure can be a healthy, personal form of sexual expression, even when one has an available and willing partner. The conversation navigates questions like: Should your partner fulfill all your sexual needs? Or is it reasonable—and eve...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive into a painfully universal truth: we’re all annoying to someone. The guys ask the question none of us really want to answer — “Are you annoying?” — and break down the everyday habits, quirks, and patterns that might be driving your partner (or that new situationship) a little bit up the wall. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Liste...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive mouth-first (yes, we said it) into a topic that’s as fun as it is foundational: the importance of or@l sex in your relationship or situationship. They unpack why good oral chemistry can make or break intimacy, how to communicate what you like, and why enthusiasm matters just as much as technique. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's L...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the tricky world of exes — and how they can impact your current relationship. Should you stay in touch with an ex, or is that automatically disrespectful? Does your new partner get a say in whether you keep that connection? And what about when it’s literally impossible to avoid an ex altogether? The guys unpack the gray areas, the boundaries, and the...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko lost his voice during the Halloween festivities, so the guys couldn’t record a new episode for the week. So, in this ENCORE episode, they dive into the quirky world of relationship pet names, debating whether they're adorably affectionate or cringingly cliché. From "snuggle muffin" to "baby bear," they explore the emotional reactions these nickn...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve switch things up this week and take a moment to simply check in with each other. With so much happening in the world — from new ballrooms being built to Halloween right around the corner — the guys slow things down to see how they’re both really doing. Because let’s be real, even friendships need a good touchbase every now and then. To wrap things up, they tac...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the art of making out — why kissing can make or break a connection, and just how much a good (or bad) makeout session can tell you. They’re joined by their best friend and honorary third co-host, Eduardo ( @val_u_ed ), to swap stories, share opinions, and figure out what makes a kiss work . Can you really tell if there’s chemistry from a single makeo...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve are tackling one of gay culture’s longest-standing debates — literally. This week, it’s all about penis size and the ever-fascinating world of size queens. Why are we so obsessed with measurements, and does it actually matter when the lights go out? The guys go deep (pun intended) asking the hard questions: length or girth? And is it really about the motion of...

Got some sh!t to say? After catching up on new music and the latest gay news, Marko and Steve welcome Travelle Barksdale ( @bigboynerd ) to the show for a powerful conversation about embracing your queer identity when the world reads you as straight. Together, they explore what it means to step into your truth, asking questions like: What changes in your life once you fully embrace your identity?...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the big leap of moving for love . Is love alone enough to justify packing up your life? What should your future together actually look like once you make the move? And—maybe the most important question—should you get your own place first or move straight in with your partner? The guys unpack the challenges, the risks, and the heart-driven rewards of...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are joined by Jerrell ( @rellrome )—your Auntea and co-host of the Minoritea Report Podcast ( @minoriteareport )—for a conversation about nitpicking in relationships and dating. Together, they explore whether nitpicking can be harmful or helpful, and how to recognize the difference. They also dig into the question: when you nitpick, what are your tr...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve slip into a slippery subject this week: personal lubricant. From water-based to silicone, flavored to specialty blends, the guys break down the different options and brands on the market. They share their own go-to choices, the not-so-great experiences they’ve had, and what they’ve learned along the way. Plus, they pose the big questions: What makes a good lub...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve are back for Season 12 of Relationsh!t ! After a much-needed summer break, the guys return to share all the details of what kept them busy (and relaxed!) over the past few months. From poolside lounging to unforgettable adventures, they’re catching you up on their summer stories. But that’s not all — the world kept turning while they were away, and Marko and S...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve open up about the common feeling of not being "gay enough" for queer culture, discussing the pressures to conform to certain expectations to fit in. They’re joined by Will, co-host of the No Ma'am Podcast , who brings a hilarious RuPaul’s Drag Race recap and chimes in on the topic for the week. Together, they share laughs...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the nuanced ways that external influences—like friends, family, societal norms, and even aspects of queer culture—can shape who we date and how we approach relationships. They explore how these pressures can show up subtly or overtly, from internalized ideals about attractiveness and gender roles to the expectations of chosen...

Got some sh!t to say? In this heartfelt and candid conversation, Marko and Steve dive deep into the emotional terrain of relationships where one person is moving faster than the other—whether that means falling in love quicker, being ready for commitment sooner, or simply wanting more clarity and definition early on. They explore the role of communication—how honest conversations can sometimes bri...

Got some sh!t to say? In this real and refreshingly honest episode, Marko and Steve get into the heart of why so many relationships struggle: unrealistic expectations and the lack of clear, consistent communication. They kick things off by calling out the myth of the “perfect partner.” You know, the idea that your partner should just know what you need, never mess up, and always be in sync with yo...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve are joined by a special guest from the Minoritea Report podcast to dive into the world of s3x toys—breaking down the stigma, sharing personal experiences (or lack thereof), and exploring how these tools can enhance both single life and relationship. Marko, Steve, and Dawon discusses how sex toys aren’t just about pleasure but can also c...