Relationships, Friendships and Family Dynamics

Send us Fan Mail Many women believe it's harmless, and it may seem that way at first. However, there's a clear hidden agenda behind his actions. What other reason could he possibly have for doing it? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail She's bitter because she put up with so much mess in her marriage. It's dysfunctional, but she stays there for the sake of being married. So now, she's out to make her friends', coworkers', and associates' lives miserable while still catering to her husband and being the doormat for his every need.  https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the s...

Send us Fan Mail I witnessed an alarming incident where one sister aggressively bullied another sister who was vulnerable and defenseless. I wondered what would have happened if I hadn't been there or if I hadn't called the police https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail We all have our opinions about social media. Is it fake? Are their lives really real? So, when I read or hear these questions, I chuckle just a little bit. Of course, not all things are genuine and 100 percent, but where there is smoke, there's fire. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail It's time to accept and move on. Nothing could be worse than staying in something that ended months or maybe years ago. I know the unknown and what-ifs are keeping you there, but leaving is sure a lot better than staying. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail We sometimes get confused about our needs versus our wants in our lives and relationships. So, let's take a deeper dive and see what our needs really represent. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail We did this in college, hanging with the girls whenever we darkened the door, that is, when we went out, but then you reach an age where you don't do that so much. But I see women either still doing this or staying home waiting on Prince Charming, but he doesn't even know you. So how is he going to meet you? Another thing is to stop living with regret, saying you wish yo...

Send us Fan Mail Ladies, I was surprised to learn that some of you still keep a list of non-negotiables when it comes to what you want in a man. But is it really non-negotiable when you're talking about physical attributes? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I didn't know either, but I soon found out! So take a listen and see if you know one or anyone who might be involved with one. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Chris Rock first said that most people arrive with a representative, meaning they are not being themselves. This seems true in most relationships, whether they are good or bad. I have listed a few of His Masks; see if you can recognize a few. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Just a little car chat of what I saw in the mall and other things.  https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Some of these words, like "friend zone," have popped up over the years. It makes me wonder if it’s a real thing or if it is a thing; who is putting us in the friend zone?  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail We suffer from these three things every year. We promise ourselves not to repeat the cycle, but we always do. So, let's discuss this in the hope that we can do something different this year. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail It has come to my attention that certain toxic friends from 2023 are attempting to invade our 2024 with underhanded tactics. We must remain vigilant and steadfast in our decision to leave them behind. Let us not allow them to manipulate their way back into our lives. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Believe it or not, the guy is usually the deciding factor in the relationship. Think about it: he asks you out on a date, and during the dating phase, he chooses most of the venues like the movies, the restaurants, and trips you would go on—then, the marriage proposal; you said yes, but did you really choose him? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I went missing for a few weeks, but I'm back. So, I'm doing a Car Chat; I eased one in on Monday, too. Many of you seemed to like them, and I do, too. But on this podcast, I'm talking about all the things. You know, with the "Car Chats," I can be all over the place. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Ladies, if a guy sends you an eggplant emoji along with a shy face, he's testing the waters to see if you'll be receptive to sexual conversation. But what it says about him is he's immature, a loser, and already has a woman at home.  https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail It's important to be mindful of your actions, thoughts, and the path you want to follow. This way, you can avoid saying "I wish I had" or "I should have." Remember, you are your most valuable asset, so treat yourself like it! https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Why does he complain so much? Is there a reason that justifies his behavior? No, I'm tired of the excuses we make for men. So, it's a no;  we can't justify it. His complaints have become a habit, and it's time to confront him and give him a taste of his own medicine. Now, in this podcast, I offer a few strategies that might work. If they don't, well, maybe...

Send us Fan Mail I think the term "manifestation" gained popularity in 2023. What does it really mean? Have we become obsessed with this word? Let's discuss this, and if you want, you can send me a direct message with your take on the word. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Remember, we are social creatures, and we often forget that. There are so many benefits to being in a marriage or a partnership. Plus, I read somewhere that you can live longer. But here are some things that bring us joy in being in an intimate relationship, like belonging to someone and feeling wanted. https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Think about it: Do we really know the person? Do we feel like we know the person because we are married to them, have been dating them for years, or have been friends with them? Hmm, are they showing us what they want us to see? Is there another side totally opposite from the one we are seeing? Is there an uncaring, cruel, and mean side?   https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Su...

Send us Fan Mail We are different creatures from men. I guess that's why John Gray wrote the book Men Are from Mars and Women Are from Venus. But I know what it is: we are smarter than men. I really think that's it. What else could it be? https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail We never think about what happens after an apology. We have the illusion that the relationship will return to normal. I wish that were true, but it's not. This is where the hard work begins after the apology.  https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show

Send us Fan Mail I had no idea I was doing this, pursuing myself. But I have found out that in doing this, you will discover the real you, the opposite of what you thought you were and who you are.  https://www.instagram.com/traceylau99/ Support the show