Relationships and Relatable Life Chronicles

Millions of people spend thier lives causing self-inflicted pain. They're wasting their time trying to hurt the person/people who hurt them (the get back), or they're projecting their pain on others, because they've been hurt. Pent up pain leads to dysfunctional lives. Trying to get back at someone or holding in the pain, ends up causing you to fall in the pit you dug for someone else. When you ho...

If you go through life with the same negative mindset you will eventually be the cause of your own demise. People are causing their own mental warfare outside of the spiritual warfare we're always fighting. Meaning, people are putting on themselves more than they can bear. Most people can't handle the issues they already have, but what they do is go through life compiling other drama on what they...

An addiction can be food, drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling, and you name it. It doesn't matter what it is if you give power to it that addiction will be what is most important to you. You can love a person all you can, but they will always love their addiction more than they love you. A person don't change until they choose change for his or herself. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.sp...

Many people are not getting what they want from their relationships. However, what you get is what you have allowed and accepted. You won't find love, peace, and happiness with anyone if you don't have it within yourself first. Too many people settle. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support .

Unfortunately for many the love they think is real is only perceptions. Many people would settle for an imitation versus the real thing. It's because most people don't really know what love is and if you don't know what it isn't, you don't know what it is. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support .

Don't touch anyone if they don't give you consent to touch them. If a person haven't chose to deal with their unresolved inner issues, they shouldn't project your mess into the lives of others. Too many people are sexually harassing or sexually assaulting others. These types of people know they're wrong, but many people will do it for as long as they can get away with it. Don't let them make you t...

Give your significant other the attention they need or they may end up getting it somewhere else. That shouldn't be your concern. Your concern should be at all times, doing the right thing for your significant. Don't open the door to unnecessary problems. Stop getting into relationships acting like you don't have to work to keep it growing. If you don't you will have to deal with the consequences....

Please leave married people or those in relationships alone. Love yourself enough to not put yourself through unecessary headache and/or heartache. If they cheat on who they are with to be with you, I promise you, they'll cheat on you too. You're NOT that special! You'll find yourself in an unhappy place. You want to be treated like the spouse when you're not. You chose your role! Become a support...

Some of the people you think are the most happiest are the most unhappiest. Real love and real relationships are almost obsolete these days. When you find a person you love and who really loves you, don't mess it up for nothing or no one, because you may never find it again. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/su...

Most people want to blame the temptation. They feel it was too much for them to withstand. I'm here to tell you that it's a lie and a trick of the enemy. Temptation is never the problem. The problem is you and your unwillingness to withstand it. Temptations will come and it will go. Succumbing to any temptation is a personal choice. You'll never be able to withstand if you are so willing to fall f...

When it comes to relationships, many people are blind to what's right in their faces. A broken person can't see the brokenness in their significant other, because they can't recognize their own brokenness. Most people think their meshing well with their significant, because they connect to the trauma/pain. This is an unhealthy relationship. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker....

I don't care who you allow in your life, there's no greater love than the love of Jesus the Son and God the Father. You can look high and low, but you'll never find a greater love. When all the people who claim to love you, leave you in your darkest hour, just know that you're not alone. Look to Jesus and never be distracted, God got you! It's the greatest relationship you will or can ever have. B...

It is the reason we're not seeing any change or growth in the lives of people. No one wants to tell or hear the truth. People will see you heading downhill into a fire, and they will let you go full steam ahead without a word, because they don't want to offend. People don't want to interfere, step on toes, rock the boat, be honest, etc. Many think it's being politically correct, but in honestly it...

If you're with someone who doesn't give you the opportunity to voice your opinion, express yourself, or they're not willing to listen to you. You're in an unhealthy situation. Every person has a voice! Don't allow anyone to take yours from you. Many people have found themselves in terrible relationships and stayed after realizing how unhealthy their relationships are. Unfortunately, many have lost...

People want to act surprised, but in reality you know what you ended with is what you started with. Meaming, your significant other is the same person you entered into the relationship with, but for whatever reason you didn't accept the truth of what they showed you. You were blind by your thoughts, wants, heart, desires, and feelings. A unhealthy mindset will always lead you into a bad place. Bec...

There are bonafied clubs out there and/or groups who support men hating women and women hating men. It is nothing but the devil's work. The devil comes to kill, steal, and destroy. He doesn't care about you or your relationship and will always try to keep relationships full of confusion. If you let the devil use you he will. When people don't allow themselves to heal from their pains it is of no h...

Walk by Faith not by Sight or according to the word of man. Get connected with the true source and develop the best relationship ever, in Jesus! Man can't do for you what Jesus can. Stop being fooled by the fakes. Following man will lead you to hell right along with them. Hell wasn't meant for you, but there sure is room for you there, right alonside your master, the devil. If you say you love the...

Until you love yourself, you'll keep going through what you're going through. You can't change him or her, no matter what you have or who you are. People treat you exactly how you've taught them to treat you. If you like it they love it, and they'll show you over and over again just how much they love it Many of you are distraught, but why?????????????????? You didn't have anything good from the s...

When people understand the best relationship you can have outside of Jesus is self, things will change. Most people are very worried about their relationships with others and will put themselves in terrible predicaments and situations for love relationships, friendships, etc. That mindset keeps people focused on trying to please and appease others while their inner suffering continues. You can't b...

I'm posting this in Relationship Chronicles, because when you don't let those things that are plaguing you and your life go, it affects your entire life and any relationships you have, (love life, friendships, work relationships, family, etc.). The past can't hurt you, it's you who's hurting yourself. You must let it go, WHATEVER it is!!!! It's the ONLY way lives will become better. Become a suppo...

All I'm going to write is this; according to the Bible it's not possible. When we die we're no longer connected to loved ones, that part of our life is over. We don't return. The dead doesn't know what the living is doing. We hold those we've lost near and dear in our hearts and minds, but the actual connection has been severed. It's no coming back. It people could come back all of us would have s...

Giving up your power is not the proper way to love. Many people think it's how you're supposed ot love. It is not! When people give up their power they also lose control. If you give it up it will always be taken. Any person who wants your power and control is an unhealthy individual. I've always told you that people treat you how you have taught them to treat you and/or how you have allowed and a...

When I say skin, in this episode I'm referring to you as a whole/overall. When you can't love the skin you're in it means you don't love yourself. It will affect you and your relationships. A person who doesn't love his or herself will always have issues they drag everywhere they go, Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4...

What you have or who you are may get them but it won't keep them. They may stay with you but at the same time is far from you in their hearts and minds. Many people have love and relationships all messed up. People lack the knowledge and/or understanding of what love is, because they don't love self. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-l...

A horrible thing I listened to recently (not sure how old it is), a 911 call where a 12 year old called to said he killed a 9 year old and he did it because he felt like killing. The kid said he didn't want to be on this earth anymore. He told 911 to kill him or lock him up for life. This child has clearly gone through something unbearable. Another thing that could be happening is like many people...