Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! There's a lot of bad marriage advice out there. Control and manipulation tactics. Tracking, spying and hacking your spouses devices. Having an open marriage. Watching pornography together. We've heard counselors, therapists and other marriage "experts" tell people to do these things because it can lead to the reconciliation of the marriage.  T...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when a marriage suffers from both of the top relationship killers – affairs and controlling behavior? Marcos and Elisa take us through their raw, unfiltered journey of shattered trust and the painstaking process of rebuilding it from the ground up. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Yo...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! If you’ve ever felt your relationship is struggling due to miscommunication, this episode is for you. Join us as we explore the compelling concept of SMART Contact™—a vital communication strategy designed to bring couples closer, even during turbulent times. We delve into the intricate balance of pushes and pulls in conversations, revealing how understanding thes...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Is your marriage at risk because of limerence? In this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes break down the science behind limerence—what it is, how it differs from romantic love, and why it can be so destructive in marriage. You’ll learn: ✔️ The key differences between limerence and true love ✔️ How to tell if you or your spouse ar...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! When you don't agree with your spouse, it can be incredibly frustrating. It might be something where you absolutely HAVE TO come to some sort of resolution, but you are both hard set in your views. Handling divisive topics in marriage is extremely important. On one hand, you want to be able to learn how to have healthy compromise with one another. On the oth...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Can a single decision shake the very foundations of your well-being? Join me, Dr. Joe Beam, as we navigate the turbulent waters of marital distress and explore its profound impacts on our lives. This episode uncovers the intellectual, emotional, physical, and spiritual challenges that arise when relationships are in crisis. We'll confront how panic and fear...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when you discover your spouse is in love with someone else? Dr. Joe Beam tackles this heart-wrenching scenario on Relationship Radio by guiding listeners through the emotional labyrinth that ensues. From the initial shock and pain to grappling with a crushed ego and questioning one's reality, Dr. Beam offers a path forward by encouraging accepta...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Feeling like your marriage is over? Discover the transformative power of self-reflection and respect! You have the power to change everything. What will your first step be? Join the new Save My Marriage Program! marriagehelper.com/membership If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What are the top reasons divorces occur in the United States? Studies show that 50% of all marriages will end in divorce, while 41% of first marriages will end the same way. So what are the underlying reasons, and what can you do to fix that? Find out on today's episode! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Ste...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! The episode delves into the idea that happiness is a choice, especially after experiencing life's hardships. Dr. Joe Beam shares personal stories and practical insights about interpreting events positively, whether dealing with serious illness or relationship difficulties. • Exploring the question of happiness after trauma  • The significance of personal per...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Trust can be a fragile and complex component of any relationship, as many of us have discovered through personal experience. Imagine rebuilding your relationship after a significant breach of trust; it’s not impossible, but it requires effort and understanding. Today, we unravel the hidden layers of betrayal, from infidelity to financial deceit, and the emotional...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam answers questions listeners have submitted to the show. We cover: - The Valley - Limerence -Commitment - & Much more Tune in and share this episode with a friend or family member you think might need to hear it! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 h...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! This episode was taken from our 2nd Annual Very Merry Marriage Helper Christmas. Merry Christmas from all of us at Marriage Helper. We hope you leave with a little more hope after listening to this episode ❤️🎄 If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 B...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What are the most important things to look for when searching for marriage help? Is it experience? Good reviews? A high success rate? The answer is yes… to ALL of those things. But success rate is a more nuanced metric. HOW the success rate is calculated matters just as much as the actual success rate, and that’s what we talk about on today’s episode. In this epi...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What if the secrets we hold closest are the ones that weigh us down the most? Join us for a powerful conversation with Ren Bester from South Africa as we unravel the intricate emotions of guilt, shame, and regret within the context of marriage and personal actions. Ren's journey of overcoming these burdens, especially given his religious upbringing and the p...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Is it possible to be in love with two people at once? 🤔 It’s a question many wrestle with, and the answer might surprise you. In this eye-opening episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Ren Bester tackle this complex topic with honesty, empathy, and a bit of humor. 💡 We dive deep into: •The psychology behind different types of love 💞 •The role of limer...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when you're deeply in love with someone who isn't your spouse? Join Dr. Joe Beam, as we explore this emotional maze with Ren, who bravely shares his journey of multiple affairs and the overpowering grip of limerence. Together, we navigate the complex emotions tied to being infatuated with another person, and how Ren, with the help of Marria...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What if the key to a thriving marriage lies in understanding sexual dynamics? Join me, Dr. Joe Beam, as we unravel the mysteries of sexual compatibility in marriage. Together, we'll navigate the often turbulent waters of varying libidos, preferences, and the external pressures that can cause friction between spouses. Through real-life stories and my own insi...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! In this powerful episode of our ongoing series on managing life’s disagreements, we dive deep into one of the most challenging topics for couples: parenting disagreements. Joined by expert guest David Mathews, we explore effective strategies for disciplining children, understanding each other’s perspectives, and fostering marital intimacy through these challenges...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What if navigating religious differences could actually strengthen your marriage? Join us as we explore this idea with David Mathews, a workshop facilitator here at Marriage Helper. We promise insights into the complexities of religious disagreements and how they intertwine with respect, control, and open communication. Drawing on real-life stories, we uncover th...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! In this video, we talk about how to stay calm and kind when you and someone you care about don’t agree on politics. It’s the first video in a series where we look at big topics that often start arguments, like politics, religion, how we handle money, and how to raise kids. Nowadays, politics can make people very upset, even with their families or friends. Some fo...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Unlock the secrets of navigating the intricate web of limerence with insights from Coach Jared, Membership Fulfillment Manager at Marriage Helper. Imagine the subtlety of a simple compliment spiraling into something more consuming; that's where Jared takes us. In this episode, he reveals the often unnoticed progression from casual interactions to a deeper, c...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Join us as we tackle one of the toughest challenges a couple can face: rebuilding intimacy after infidelity. We explore the concept of creating "Marriage 2.0," discussing how it involves holding onto the good while addressing the issues that led to betrayal. Open communication and intentional actions are emphasized as vital steps in regaining trust and...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't in finding the perfect partner, but in standing firm when the storm hits? Coach Jared from Marriage Helper shares his transformative journey from nearly walking away from his marital vows to discovering the profound rewards of unwavering commitment. You'll hear Jared’s compelling personal story of how he a...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when the person you vowed to spend your life with seems to hate you? Joining us on today's episode is Roald Gerber, Marriage Helper's Workshop Fulfillment Manager, who sheds light on this challenging scenario. Unravel the misconceptions tying hate to love and indifference, and gain practical advice on mental resilience and understanding you...