Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Some misguided people claim that the best tactic for rescuing a lost relationship is to practice NO contact. We strongly disagree. No contact is a manipulative method. IF you were somehow to get your ex back by manipulation, how would you keep them in the relationship? More manipulation? The much better method is what we call SMART contact. SMART contact does NOT...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You've heard it phrased in various ways. "If you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, they are yours forever. If they don't come back, they never were yours." What a ridiculous idea! Maybe it originated with someone trying to help a friend feel better after her lover left her. Or perhaps it started with some guy trying to find...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Today at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our ??live caller system?? and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!!   Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who know...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! That’s right! Simply call the phone number below once we go LIVE Today at 12:30pm CST to be connected to our ??live caller system?? and your question may be featured on Marriage Helper LIVE!!! Call (657) 383 - 0812 and press "1" if you want to ask us a question! During this show, we will answer specific questions about marriage situations and who knows,...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions: "Should I keep the gifts from his affair partner?""How can I show him I'm changing while separated?""How can I rebuild our relationship after lying for 4 years?""How do I know if there's a chance for reconcilia...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Men are NOT from Mars nor women from Venus. It's not planets that keep them from deeply connecting; it's the way they misread each other. Ever wonder why your wife is so sensitive while she's wondering why you're so dense? The answer lies in what psychologists call emotional intelligence. We call it a relationship survival. If you're read...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions:  "Husband conflicted about his 10 year affair and our marriage?""Family having a hard time interacting after husband's affair.""How can I help hold my friend accountable to stop affair?""How can I win back my husban...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You’re in an affair. Part of you wants to continue. Another part of you feels that you should end it.    You tried to end it before, but it wasn’t long until you were back in it again. Either your affair partner knew how to pull you back…or the emotions you feel while with that partner compelled you to return.   If you want to end the affair…or if you’re wavering...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions:  "My husband denies an affair. Should he have to admit it?""My husband left to be with 22 year old affair partner. What now?""How do I keep myself from being hurt again emotionally?""Should I keep havign sex with him during his affair?&quo...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Maybe you’re having an affair because you’re madly in love with the Affair Partner. Or maybe it’s because you’re getting some sexual or emotional need filled that you weren’t getting in your marriage or other relationship. Yet, you clicked on this title – Three Reasons to End an Affair – for a reason. A part of you, even if it’s only a small part of you, wonders...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions:  "My wife is going through a mid-life crisis. What can I do?""He keeps talking with her even though he says it's over!?""He's watched for 11 years. How can I build back trust?""Our open marriage turned affair....

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You’ve never felt this way before. Anger, pain, fear, doubt, and helplessness are holding you hostage.   Your spouse broke your trust.   Is forgiveness possible? Can the marriage be rebuilt?    You want to work towards reconciling your relationship but have no idea where to start. Can trust be repaired once it’s been destroyed?   In this episode of Marriage Helpe...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! How can the person who was once in love with you now be in love with someone else? Why is s/he no longer the person that you fell in love with? Why has s/he become someone that you hardly recognize? How can s/he seem to no longer care about me? About our children? About our life together? The psychological word for it is limerence. That word describes people who...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions:  "How do I trust my husband again after his affair?""Should I drag out the divorce or try to attend the workshop?""Do I allow her to come home for the kids?""How do I know if the affair will last?""I had multip...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You fear that you will end up alone...without ever truly understanding what went wrong.  Your mate's infidelity takes an unbearable toll on your heart.  How did it start? Does it end? You want to understand what’s happening and how your marriage can survive this affair. In this episode of Marriage Helper Live, Dr. Joe Beam explains why spouses cheat. He also...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions:  "Why did my husband close his eyes when he saw me naked?""Could conseling during his affair make things worse for us?""Am I wasting my time now that we're divorced?""Should I still be intimate with my husband durin...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Sometimes you think you've lost your mind. Other times you know in your heart that it's true. The one you love is abandoning you. Slowly, yet surely, leaving you for someone else. Are you insane in thinking this? Or are your fears evolving into a horrible reality? How can you tell? How can you know for sure? Part of you doesn't want to know because...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions:  "Am I devaluing myself while he continues to talk to her?""My wife had an emotional affair and moved out. What now?""How do you stop infidelity when you've done all you can?""We only have contact once per week. What do we talk about?...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Your spouse loves someone else. Why?  Is it that they no longer love you? Has the other person somehow lured them away? Why does your spouse want them?  The answer may surprise you.  Do you want to understand why this happened to you...what your spouse is going through...why they've changed so much? In this program, Dr. Joe Beam answers these questions and e...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes speak with callers about the following questions:  "How do I know what he says is what he means?""How do I move deeper into our relationship?""She filed for divorce during reconciliation. What now?""My husband wants to move in with affair partner. What now?""I...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Join Us For Marriage Helper LIVE! Call For A Chance To Speak With Us One-On-One! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM:  https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/m...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Kimberly Holmes and Jim Porteau speak with callers about the following questions:  "How can I be a safe place without pushing?""Is my wife still in limerence?""If I don't say anything, does it make me a doormat?""My wife wants to move out all of the sudden. What do I do?""How do I place...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Join Us For Marriage Helper LIVE! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM:  https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! On today's live show, Dr. Joe Beam speaks with callers about the following questions:  “How do I make my marriage work when husband wants divorce?”“Should we keep having sex while he’s in an affair?”“How does a career change affect working on my PIES?”“Husband won’t make changes that I requested. What do I do?”“How do I leave a 15 year-long love affair?” If...

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Join Us For Marriage Helper LIVE! With Dr. Joe Beam! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM:  https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: htt...