Rebuilding Trust with Carol The Coach

Do you ever feel like you need a guide for what to say to your children about the most important topics in their childhood? Do you want to understand why our society struggles with crucial conversations about consent, body safety, sexuality, masturbation, ography, and social media, and smart devices? Well today, Clint Davis, Counselor and Father, guides us through the how's, why's, when&#3...

Tonight, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Janice Caudill and Dan Drake who have written a book on the Full Disclosure and why it is so important to have it done with specialists who will create the space to do it in a helpful and safe environment. This book is for partners and addicts to know what to expect from a disclosure and to create a place for couples to heal. Tonight they will share wh...

Today Carol the Coach interviews Tina Wehner President of Hope and Freedom Counseling Services and Intensives. Tina will be explaining how going to a 3 day intensive can benefit the couple as they work at restoring their relationship. She explains that Intensives provide transformational results. She explains that "While we cannot cure sex addiction or heal from it's damage in 3-days we c...

Empathy is the anedote to relational repair and tonight Carol the Coach will be interviewing Liana Allison who is an expert in empathy and emotional maturity. She iis going to talk about how to manage negative emotions and use them to develop empathy. She will be sharting her method and how her skills bring together connection due to empathy.

Today Carol the Coach interviews Lisa and Andrew Reichel from Room to Heal. Room to Heal  is a recovery residence in Charlotte, NC for men battling sex and addiction that breaks the mold of traditional sexual addiction recovery by offering men a more affordable option for immersive healing while providing intentional time apart for couples. They have a relationship-centered approach where both ind...

Carol the Coach is interviewing Andrew Susskind, a therapist who knows that sex addiction is about brokeness and not compulsivity. His new book that is coming out It's Not About the Sex: Moving from Isolation to Intimacy after Sexual Addiction will help people see that there is a broken heartedness that needs to be repaired. He maintains that sexual addiction is not about sex...Hear why he bel...

Today Carol the Coach will be interviewing Joshua Nichols who has developed 12 Types of Gaslighting and 4 Types of Vulnerability Exploitation to help you both identify these maladaptive coping skills to make healthier choices.

Carol will be talking about how Elijah helps you to do the next right thing in recovery and can help to transform you into the person that you want to be. This for recovering addicts and their spouses who want to strengthen their sense of identity and integrity,

When betrayal has occurred, it's natural for couples to seek out marriage counseling in a desperate attempt to repair the relationship, only to be frustrated because he doesn’t know how to show empathy for the pain the betrayal he has caused her and she doesn’t know how to feel safe with someone who violated her trust so deeply. Today, Carol the Coach is interviewing Sherri Courtney and Laura...

No matter what trauma has occured in your life...it is 100% your responsibility to find ways to shift your thinking using your energy. Tonight Dr. Sue Morter will be talking about her new book The Energy Code: The Seven Step System to Awaken Your Spirit, Heal Your Body, and Live Your Best Life. She will be showing us how to remove subconscious blocks to live our best lives! Whether you are an addi...

Today Carol the Coach will be interviewing Janice Caudill and Dan Drake, who created his and hers, step-by-step, companion workbooks for helping couples prepare for, complete and heal after a full disclosure process. Since the books came out they are now training  professionals to navigate these difficult waters with their clients, helping them to understand the infrastructure that underlies the R...

Carol is going to be talking about her newly released workbook for sex addicts to develop empathy and begin the necessary steps to  help her heal. Addicts don't know how to help their partners navigate through the process of her pain, so Help. Her. Heal has the formula that will help him to know what to do as his spouse goes through the excrutiating pain of sexual and partner betrayal.

Carol the Coach interviews Cara W. Tripodi who is the Executive Director and CEO of START which specializes in problematic sexual behaviors and partner betrayal. When Partners experience the crisis, many decisions and trauma related concerns are present as they explore the fallout from the crisis often in ther first year or two. However the long-term needs are often where deeper inner change occur...

Today, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Amie Woolsey who has created a program for women who have experienced sexual betrayal and have decided to divorce to and move on to their next chapter. She teaches about the three pillars - Awareness, Acceptance, and Agency - when applied to a partner's healing journey, to enable empowerment and choice. She has offered a free workbook to get you thin...

The connection between  empathy and different forms of intimacy creates  an opportunity for the couple to increase the 8 stages of intimacy  slowly while building trust and safety with in the relationsip which has been shattered by betrayal. Listen as Carol the Coach interviews co-author Allan J. Katz who will be talking about empathy.

Today Carol the Coach is interviewing Dr. David Fawcett who has written a new book called Under the Influence about the deadly effect that substances have in combination withcompulsive problematic sexual behaviors. When sex and drugs are combined repeatedly and compulsively, there is a high risk of developing what Dr. David Fawcett calls sexualized drug use. This condition is also referred to as p...

Carol the Coach will be interviewing Sara Schulting Kranz who will be discussing the value of nature therapy on your mind, heart and soul. As a partner of a sex addict, she will talk about how being in nature can have positive impact on a traumatized brain! She takes women out to the Grand Canyon and helps them find the power within them.

Today Carol the Coach will be talking to Josh and Charlene Lewis who are co-founders of programing for both the partner and the addict that have foundations in the works of Patrick Carnes. They have an intensive that is remote and they believe in making it easy for their clients. On this podcast they will be sharing their own hope, strength and wisdom that built their programing to get you the rig...

Repairing your sexuality with Carol the Coach

Eddie Capparucci and his colleagues Heather Cronemiller and Lacy Alajna Bentley have collaborated on a book for women struggling with sex, love, and addiction. Going Deeper for Women: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction is based on Eddie Capparuci's Inner Child Model for treating sex/ addiction. This Inner Child Model has been helpful to many men over the past 4 years and n...

It is important to do good recovery work individually and in relationship with your spouse. Until you have good sobriety, you can not get involved in intensive counseling work but you can develop the rituals to improve the structure to build trust like using reflective listening, mirroring, empathy, and and willingness to be there for your spouse. Listen as Carol the Coach shares with you what you...

Today, Carol the Coach interviews Kirsten D. Samuel, Coach, Author, and Speaker who wants to inspire woman to know that they can survive the devestation that has caused them. She explains that after 25 years of marriage, my husband revealed his addiction. He was caught looking at inappropriate images at work. Like most women who face this discovery, I immediately went into shock and disbelief foll...

If you suffer from Insecure-Avoidant Style of Attachment, it is likely that you have replaced your need for spontaneous play with strictly eroticized/sexualized behaviors that keep you isolated and searching for ongoing acting out. Tonight Carol the Coach will be interviewing Michael Crocker who uses Stuart Brown's book Play to reinforce the need for spontaneity for fun, play and attachment. M...

Tonight's episode is about the gay culture. Jeff Aldeson is facilitating  a Sex and Intimacy Group for Gay Men and Gary Katz is a LCSW, CSAT-S, EMDR who is a Certified Partner Trauma Therapist for Center for Intimacy Recovery. Together they answer questions that Carol has about men, sex, relationships and growing up gay. Carol the Coach wanted to do the show because she realized that she might...

Carol the Coach is interviewing Kellyb McDaniel who specializes in treating women who experience addictive relational patterns. She is the first clinician to name Mother Hunger as an attachment injury and urges clinicians to explore the repercussions of bonding or non-bonding with an emotionally compromised mother. Find out how women with  these issues experience a variety of cyclical, self-sabato...