Rebuilding Trust with Carol The Coach

John and Elaine Leadem are back to discuss  the maladaptive coping mechanisms many couples use in seeking out a spouse and then reenacting their childhood trauma over and over again in their relationships. The Leadems wrote the groundbreaking book  "One in the Spirit: Meditation Course for Recovering Couples" to help couples heal from these wounds. The Leadems do a fabulous job of giving...

Carol the Coach wants her listening audience to access all the resources out in the world to help Addicts and Partners to heal. Tonight she will be interviewing Anne who has founded Betrayal Trauma Recovery which is a non profit that offers services and a weekly podcast for wives/girlfriends of sex addicts to heal from the betrayal trauma. Currently, they are running a special service whereby APSA...

Love Addiction and Sex Addiction can look similiar and many clients fear that they are not sure which disorder that they suffer from when looking at their addiction. Listen as Carol the Coach interviews an expert who will help you define the difference.

Tonight Carol the Coach answers call in questions about partner betrayal. Partners inquire how they can not only survive but thrive as they navigate the vortex of  sexual addiction and  restore their own personal serenity.

Tonight Carol interviews Larry Bilotta who shares his own marriage troubles until he discovered some skills to turn his marriage around. Larry will be describing the natural co-dependency that may occur in your marriage and how to turn that arund. He will also describe how childhood wounds that you both may have suffered could feed into the healing that has to occur. This show is a must for any re...

Carol will be interviewing Ross Rosenberg who is a specialist on codependency, narcissism, and trauma. He has rewritten The Human Magnet Syndrome and want to share his thoughts and insights as to why people attract certain people into their lives.

Carol interviews Kathy Reynolds and Jake Porter who practice couple-centered recovery. These exports feel like it not only improves relationships that are riddled with addiction but they also treat the relational trauma and trauma reactions that have occured as a  result of the SA trauma and the earlier childhood traumas as well. They will be explaining their model and the benefit to the coupleshi...

Carol the Coach and Ev are co-writing a memoir of the struggles of being the partner of a sex addict. Ev is writing her story and Carol is adding a clinical aspect by explaining the sides of partner trauma and sex addiction. Together they hope to put all the puzzle pieces together to this confusing saga of living with a sex addict.

Carol the Coach iinterviews Joshua Shea who seemingly had it all. A loving wife, two children and a City Council position in Maine. Life as he knew it came to a screeching halt when he was arrested on a charge of underage ography posession in 2014. Listen as you hear about his book, The Addiction That Nobody Will Talk About. How My ography Addiction Hurt People and Destroyed Relationships.

When Partners are triggered it can be ugly. Find out how PTSD can take the brain off line and find ways to help your partner feel safe and secure again

Rob Weiss and Marnie Ferrree have adapted this book to the Christian audience. Unfaithful mates neeed targeted material that helps them understand the depth of their partners' pain, and Out of the Doghouse for Christian Men - A Redemptive Guide for Men Caught Cheating will help them get there.

John and Karen have used their recovery to help other couples who have struggled with addiction and affairs. They describe the turmoil this caused in their family and how they not only survived but thrived to help others through the depths of this addiction. Listen as Carol the Coach talks with them about the process of rigorous honesty and how John got sober and how Karen moved her life forward!

Carol the Coach is interviewing Bill who has worked diligently on fine tuning his tools to hold himself accountable to maintain good recovery and he is willing to share them with you! Listen as they discuss how this process has helped Bill to take his recovery to the next level!

For a man with seemingly unlimited potential, Clint succeeds in making an absolute mess of his life. He risks all for his addiction and is oblivious to the self-destructive path that he's on. Listen as Carol the Coach interviews the author, Dr. Milton S Magness who has written this fascinating novel that depicts a cowboy with multiple addictions, sufferings, and transformations.

Carol the Coach interviews "Mindfulness Expert" Claire Caines who will be sharing how she helps addicts to move out of the auto pilot state that has occured from numbing. She teaches that when addicts become aware of what is happening in the present moment, in their bodies, thoughts and emotions, it will lead them to good recovery choices and a more solid recovery. She will be sharing pr...

Experential Therapy can be very beneficial for people suffering from sex and love addiction. It allows you to take past events, situations and conversations and bring them into the present moment to deal with them in the here and now. Allan J. Katz has written a book Experiential Group Interventions with DBT: A 30 Day Program for Treating Addictions and Trauma which he has found to be extemely hel...

How do your repair your sexual relationship? Listen as Carol the Coach explains how to build trust and intimacy.

Dating can be hard enough when you are just starting to connect with people of interest but it can feel terrifying when you are working on yourself and don't want to want to re-enact old patterns from your past. Recovery and Relationship Expert Jackie Pack will be sharing with Carol the Coach the strategies behind healthy dating and will be discussing a 3 day intensive that Healing Paths have...

Carol Sheets will be interviewing renowned author, Mari Lee, who has written the book Gifts in the Wound: Stories of Hope and Resilency where she shares real stories of partners and couples who moved through the pain of sex addiction and partner trauma and found their way back to strength through recovery.

What if things are good for awhile, but slowly or suddenly those SA behaviors come back with a vengeance? Gaelyn Rae Emerson has put together a "Relapse Preparedness Workshop" that helps Partners develop an emergency response protocol to assess  what couples need to do when dealing with the common problem of relapse. Recovering sex addicts make better choices when they are able to see wh...

It can be tough to be in Sexual Recovery and know what you want in a relationship. Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Relationship Guru David Essel who has just written a book called Focus which assists you with finding love and compatibility no matter where you have been or what has happened in your past. .

Erica Garza is the author of the memoir, Getting Off a chronicle of her journey through sex and addiction. Her fixation on and orgasms, strings of failed relationsips. and serial hook-ups with strangers led her to feeling shame and isolation. Listen as she shares how she got sober and turned her life around.

We all know that sex is a difficult subject to discuss with our kids but now that kids are being exposed to sex and pron at an avereage age of 11, it is imperative that you be proactive and guide your child through that exposure. Carol the Coach will be interviewing Dina Alexander Founder of EducateEmpowerKids.org which is a powerful resource for helping parents to talk about ography.

How do your repair your sexual relationship? Listen as Carol the Coach explains how to build trust and intimacy.

Women who live with love addiction and find worth in their sexuality and sex based patterns are a unique breed. They have learned to cope in a sex driven world. Many have been through childhood trauma. Lacy A. Bentley, author of Overcoming Love Addiction:Your Recovery Roadmap, will be speaking with Carol the Coach about how to break this addictive pattern and find self worth in the process.