Dr. Kay and Dr. Ray
Reality Test
Two Psych Doctors Spill the Tea on Mental Health Concepts & Presentations Shown in your Fave RealiTV Shows! Ever find yourself wanting to debrief that reality tv episode with your therapist? Or maybe you've wanted to ask them questions about something you've learned from the reality tv interactions , castmates , or news cycle ? Come debrief with two licensed psychologists as they explore what we can all learn about ourselves, our relationships, and our society from our fave reality television shows on Netflix, Peacock, Bachelor Nation, Bravo, and beyond! Dr.s Kay & Ray inspire discussion about...
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Episodes
Love is Blind Reunion | Surprise Episode! ::} 111 31.10.2025 1:11:47
Surprise! This Halloween, we released a surprise episode 3 days early, about the Love is Blind Season 9 Reunion! The Video version of this episode is on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/po sts/video-episode-is-143017006 A free excerpt of the video is available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/y64qnyy_US8 …………………………… For the “Reality Check” segment, Dr. Ray discusses diabetes and self-blame, & Dr....
Love is Blind Couples Deep Dive | Love is Blind Season 9 ::} 110 27.10.2025 1:00:35
Watch the video version of this episode! https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-episode-is-142398645 An excerpt can be found here: https://youtu.be/_DHz6BWNx_s The shocking behaviors of the couples from season 9 of Love is Blind are begging to be unpacked by psychologists in preparation for the reunion! And Doctor Ray is back just in time! She joins Doctor Kay in their deep dive into the 3 couples (K...
Love is Blind Scene Deep Dive with Dr. Kay [SCENES INCLUDED] | Recap Episode | scenes of season 9 ::} 109 21.10.2025 1:26:55
Video excerpt (with videos of scenes) found here: https://youtu.be/zLaFqDJBQjY Full video will be on Patreon.com/RealityTest While Dr. Ray is away, Dr. Kay came out to play solo host, deep diving into 3 scenes from Love is Blind season 9. In doing so, she examines the relational patterns between Madison & Joe, and Kalybriah & Edmond. ...
Exposing the Reality TV Fetishism and Sizeism Nobody Talks About || Awards Episode | Aug-Oct ::} 108 13.10.2025 1:18:24
Reality TV Awards Episode with Doctor Kay & Doctor Ray! Winning moments from Golden Bachelor, Love Island Games, Love is Blind, and Real Housewives of Salt Lake City are all up for discussion! Dr.s Kay and Ray examine moments & castmates from the most recent–if not currently airing–seasons of these shows for their 8 signature awards, ranging from TESTosterboned (most patriarchal) & Bec...
Confessing Unresolved Trauma & Revealing Internalized Ageism on Golden Bachelor | Season 2 | Recap Episode ::} 107 06.10.2025 1:32:41
Examine how castmates reveal ageist bias and confess unresolved trauma on Golden Bachelor (episodes 1-2 of season 2) with Doctor Kay and Doctor Ray! A free excerpt of the video version of this episode is available on YouTube : https://youtu.be/9tXg-ShLiSg Dr.s Kay and Ray recap the first two episodes of The Golden Bachelor, starting with a lengthy exploration of their views on the second Golden Ba...
Bachelor in Paradise Reunion Reveals! Power, Misogynist Avoidance, & Kat vs. Allyshia | Recap Part II ::} 107 28.09.2025 1:07:19
No one talks about misogyny in male avoidance of women's emotions--Doctor Kay and Doctor Ray unpack it while examining the Bachelor in Paradise Reunion in their second recap episode! Find a FREE excerpt of the video episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/eorzPIjYToM & the full video on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-episode-in-140235480 Dr.s Kay and Ray recap the second half of...
Bachelor in Paradise Reunion Reveals! : Ageism, Bullying, & Disrespect | Recap Episode ::} 105 22.09.2025 1:06:57
Find a FREE excerpt of the video episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hKYyQIEBdvY The full video is on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-episode-in-139844192 Dr.s Kay and Ray recap the first hour of The Bachelor in Paradise reunion, sharing their chosen examples of the 6 psychology-related segments regarding, for example, therapy, sociopolitical themes, and producer antics. Prominent th...
Superfandom, Therapist’s Missed Marks, and The Kitchen Sink Approach! | Awards Episode | June-August ::} 104 15.09.2025 1:35:29
Let’s throw back to the throwback, babies! For this episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray returned to our age-old awards episodes, this time for 3 months worth of realiTV! But first, Dr. Kay named the new segment, where Dr.s Kay and Ray each bring in a study of interest or that’s related to reality television: Reality Check! We all get a Reality Check from these scientific studies–this week, Dr. Ray focused o...
Bachelor BANGER! Chad Kultgen from Game of Roses joins us! | Interview Episode ::} 103 08.09.2025 1:23:29
IT'S HERE! The "banger episode" we've been promising... Chad Kultgen--from the incredibly popular Bachelor Nation podcast, "Game of Roses"--joins us for an interview! Topics ranging from the superpowers of Autistic thinking and the state of the Bachelor franchise, to metaphysical realities (or lack thereof) and liberal children's political discussions with conservat...
Love Island Reunion: Surprise, Scandal, & Slander | New Segment Alert! | Recap Show ::} 102 01.09.2025 2:07:14
This is the full audio, with a VIDEO EXCERPT found at YouTube: https://youtu.be/7k2stvte3Cs & the FULL VIDEO found at Patreon.com/RealityTest: https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-episode-138054195 -------------------------------------------------------------- Dr.s Kay and Ray are back, babies! Back from August break, they start with a bang as they start a BRAND NEW SEGMENT and go on to unpack...
Liars & Lovebirds | Ultimatum Queer Love | VID EXCERPT | Awards Show | Season 2, ep.s 6-10 ::} 101 09.08.2025 42:24
Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode! Dr.s Kay and Ray review the second half of the Queer Love season 2 (episode 6-10) with their 8 awards! To whom would you give the “ProTEST this Mess” award? Who was the most obnoxious or drunkest? Or how about the “Doing the MosTEST” award for the most cringe behavior or castmate? Find out to whom Dr.s Kay & Ray g...
Liars & Lovebirds | Ultimatum Queer Love | Awards Show | Season 2, ep.s 6-10 ::} 101 06.08.2025 1:09:32
NOTE: Dr. Kay's audio is all out of whack--temporarily! Our apologies for the accidental recorder whoopsie :) Dr.s Kay and Ray review the second half of the Queer Love season 2 (episode 6-10) with their 8 awards! To whom would you give the “ProTEST this Mess” award? Who was the most obnoxious or drunkest? Or how about the “Doing the MosTEST” award for the most cringe behavior or castmate? Find...
Queer Loving our Hundredth Episode!: Gaslighting, Romance Seeking, & Complicated Consent | VID EXCERPT | Ultimatum Queer Love | Season 2, ep.s1-5 | Psych Segments ::} 100 !! 06.08.2025 38:03
Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode! This is the video excerpt of our 100th episode! The full video will be on Patreon.com/RealityTest and the full audio is wherever you get your podcasts! ------------------------------------- In our ONE HUNDREDTH episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray share their 6 psych-related segments about the first half Ultimatum Queer Love! Wh...
Queer Loving our Hundredth Episode!: Gaslighting, Romance Seeking, & Complicated Consent | Ultimatum Queer Love | Season 2, ep.s1-5 | Psych Segments ::} 100 !! 29.07.2025 1:06:08
In our ONE HUNDREDTH episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray share their 6 psych-related segments about the first half Ultimatum Queer Love! Where, or for whom, did they spot therapy, and how did it align with their views of therapy? How about with sociopolitical moments? Or how would Dr.s Kay & Ray respond to or intervene around a given presenting concern from the first half of the show? These & many...
Friendship, Fandom, + Production | VIDEO EXCERPT | Superlatives from Season 7 of Love Island USA | Season’s Award Show ::} 099 23.07.2025 21:47
Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode! This is an excerpt of episode 99 video, with the full video found on Patreon , and the full audio wherever you get your pods! ------ In this season summarizing episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray share their superlatives for the entire season 7 of Love Island, US! Who or what moment was the most cringe, receiving the “Doing the...
Friendship, Fandom, & Production: Superlatives from Season 7 of Love Island USA | Season’s Award Show ::} 099 22.07.2025 1:09:15
In this season summarizing episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray share their superlatives for the entire season 7 of Love Island, US! Who or what moment was the most cringe, receiving the “Doing the MosTEST” award? Who showed the most or least growth, receiving the “TEST Results” award? As always, each of the 8 awards has “TEST” in the title, as this is Reality TEST, after all! Dr. Kay ends the episode with...
Racial Slurs, Cancel Culture, & Public Apologies | VIDEO EXCERPT| Love Island USA ::} 098 18.07.2025 30:30
Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode! This is an excerpt of the video of episode 98. Find the full video on Patreon , or the full audio wherever you get your pods! NOTE: Alsoooo, the video quality is negatively affected by the fact Dr. Kay's computer is not currently functioning & she therefore needed to borrow someone's lower-quality computer...
Racial Slurs, Cancel Culture, & Public Apologies | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 ::} 098 14.07.2025 55:03
Their Past Actions were Hurtful, were their Public Apologies Heartful? In this thought-provoking episode, Dr.s Kay and Ray dive deep into Cierra’s & Yulissa’s (recent) past public use of racial slurs on social media, their subsequent removals from Love Island season 7, and their resulting public apologies on social media. Hear Cierra’s apology video on the podcast, before Dr.s Kay & Ray of...
Heart Rates Rise & Dirty Laundry Airs | VID EXCERPT | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 Ep. 22-25 ::} 097 09.07.2025 29:24
Go to Spotify or YouTube to see the video excerpt that accompanies this episode! This is the video excerpt for episode 97, with the FULL VIDEO found on our Patreon (URL linked & at bottom), and the FULL AUDIO wherever you get your podcasts! Dr.s Kay and Ray spill all the tea on their perspectives on the debates going around Love Island fandom in response to two recent challenges that raised he...
Heart Rates Rise & Dirty Laundry Airs | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 Ep. 22-25 ::} 097 07.07.2025 1:00:50
Dr.s Kay and Ray spill all the tea on their perspectives on the debates going around Love Island fandom in response to two recent challenges that raised heart rates and aired dirty laundry. Was Huda being a "girl's girl"? Was Chelly? Was Chelly's discontent with Huda called for? What was up with Ace's time at the podium? And what are all of YOUR thoughts about these two juicy...
Casa Amor Chaos: Friendships and Betrayals Unraveled! | VIDEO EXCERPT | Love Island US | Ssn 7 Ep.18-21 ::} 096 03.07.2025 34:27
This is an excerpt from the video episode, with the full video found on our Reality Test Patreon . The full audio is available wherever you get your podcasts (links at the bottom)! Dr.s Kay and Ray are back together in person, diving deep into the latest drama from Love Island! They unpack the betrayal of Jeremiah's exit, Nic's questionable motives, and the dynamics among the cast members...
Casa Amor Chaos: Friendships and Betrayals Unraveled! | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 Ep. 18-21 ::} 096 30.06.2025 1:07:55
Check out the video excerpt of this episode, & on YouTube , and the full video on our Patreon ! Dr.s Kay and Ray are back together in person, diving deep into the latest drama from Love Island! They unpack the betrayal of Jeremiah's exit, Nic's questionable motives, and the dynamics among the cast members that have everyone talking, as the newest model of Casa Amor took off & ended...
Love, Drama, & Hudamaiah Island | VIDEO EXCERPT | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 Ep. 1-17 | ::} 095 25.06.2025 26:23
This is an excerpt of the video episode 95, with the FULL VIDEO found here, on our Reality Test Patreon . The FULL AUDIO is wherever you get your pods, including Apple Spotify & YouTube Dr.s Kay and Ray assign superlatives to the cast of Love Island USA from the first three weeks of season 7! Using the 8 awards they give during awards episodes, Dr.s Kay & Ray each share whom they felt were...
Love, Drama, & Hudamaiah Island | Love Island USA | Ssn 7 Ep. 1-17 ::} 095 23.06.2025 1:04:38
Dr.s Kay and Ray assign superlatives to the cast of Love Island USA from the first three weeks of season 7! Using the 8 awards they give during awards episodes, Dr.s Kay & Ray each share whom they felt were the most cringe, most patriarchal (TestosterBONED award!), most grown, and much more across various moments of love, drama, and Hudamaiah (among other couplings) from episodes 1-17. They a...
Apologies found Lacking & Sexism found in Abundance | VIDEO EXCERPT | Summer House Reunion 20.06.2025 28:59
This is a video excerpt of the full episode, with the full audio found here: on Spotify on Apple on Youtube And the full video episode (minus the first 20mins we neglected to video record!), found on Patreon . Dr.s Kay and Ray recap and discuss both parts of the Summer House season 9 reunion. From Ciara’s vulnerable and heartfelt sharing, to the Lexi & Solomon (in matching outfits!) of it all,...
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