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Relationship Goals: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly. In this episode we share the secrets to staying in love and maintaining a healthy marriage while also talking honestly about both the joys and struggles of marriage. This conversation gets real and provides  wisdom and practical tools for a successful & long marriage as well as some  insight into ministry & life.  Today's special gu...

Martha was distracted by the menu, but Mary was devoted to the Master. Luke 10:38-42 serves as a gracious reminder to “choose the good part,” In other words, make the intentional effort to consistently spend time with Jesus! You can be as close to Him as you want, but you have to fight for time in the Word & Prayer. It's not about having time for Jesus, It's about making time for Jes...

We are going to teach you how to shoot your shot & encourage you to take that leap of faith to follow your God-given dreams and walk in purpose. What's that thing that's been stirring in your heart but you haven't took any action yet? If you're looking for a sign, consider this your sign! Just DO it! Write the book! Write the song! Go to\go back to school! YOU got this!! Re...

What is it like being Black & Christian in America right now? Tune in to find out, because the summer of 2020 in the USA was wild.  Let's talk about it!  We’re also discussing how to overcome fear & obstacles on the way to doing the things that God has called you to do.   Guest Gusto Madiebo The host of the Daily Thinker Podcast.    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/daily-thinker/...

The Power of Networking is huge! We take a deep dive into the importance of networking and collaborating with others.  1 Corinthians 12:12 says  " For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ."  There are many members but one body and we are better together. Collaboration over Competition! Other topics...

Just want to encourage you with this sermon today and remind you of what Jesus has done for us. The Gospel is Jesus doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.  It is the life changing, eternity changing good news of Jesus Christ that includes the story of Jesus’ birth, life, crucifixion, death, & resurrection. Top Quotes:  Jesus became what His Father hated (sin) so you can become what H...

What a year it has been...and we're only 6 months in! Today we're taking a quick look at major events that have rocked our world & giving you some encouragement to make it through these tough times. Top Quotes:  Do something today that brings you joy! Take time to reflect on the year and think through how you want the rest of you year to look like. Make some goals, reach those goals,...

Unfortunately, COVID case numbers are on the rise & we may have to quarantine a little longer, SO we are giving you a Bucket List of fun ideas to keep productive & entertained! Connect with the guests: Nicole Brown https://msha.ke/leliassoutherncharm Jason "Smiley" Abrams https://music.apple.com/us/album/3-13-am/1174207425 Related Episode: "Carpe Diem: How to Enjoy Your Life...

Today we go THERE as we discuss Racial Reconciliation, "White Privilege", "Cancel Culture", the "Blue Flu" and Social Media "Do's & Don'ts" during this tense time in our nation.  We are not here to straddle the fence but we are here to be bridge builders,  and as the body of Christ we need to be willing & intentional in having the hard and...

Today, my wife Arielle joins me to discuss relationships and how to go from surviving to thriving in your marriage …even during COVID. We are offering you practical tips to help you strengthen your relationship. We also will share with you what we learned from our 7+ years of knowing each other and our 730 days of marriage. You will love our quarantine date ideas too! Related Episodes:  "Thri...

Is Self-care Selfish? No! It isn't. Taking care of yourself enables you to show up for others! This episode is personal and practical.  We take a closer look at the concept of Self-care. We even talk about the stigma that comes with mental health and counseling...even in the Church. Guest Katrina Leggins: Mental Health Therapist & Social Worker https://www.knicolewriting.com/ https://www....

Today we address the issues our country is facing as it relates to the tragic death of George Floyd. This conversation features black and white law enforcement officers as well as black and white pastors. We have an open and honest conversation regarding police brutality, racial reconciliation, justice, and accountability. Here's a conversation between black and white pastors and police offic...

Coping with COVID is rough and depression doesn't discriminate. For the first time publicly, I'm sharing  about my struggles with depression. I am not a professional and this episode isn't professional advice. I'm simply sharing what has helped  me cope and get better mentally & emotionally which was...  Jesus My Support System Christian Counseling  Selfcare Routine  Top Qu...

Depression Doesn't Discriminate pt 2. Mental health is important because you have been created in the image of a God that loves you and cares deeply about you and every area of your life—including your mind, feelings, and emotions. Tune in as I talk about depression from a personal, academic, and spiritual point of view.  Even though the Bible doesn’t use the word “depression” you can use con...

 "The Last Dance" was a phenomenal documentary that was full of life lessons.  In part 1,  we're talking about Leadership, Greatness, Fatherhood, and more! Guest: Irvin Wasswa , Here's the full list of Life Lessons  Leadership has a cost  Fatherhood matters Don't Cry, Play ball #adversity  Greatness has a call Facing Obstacles  "Shoot your shot" Know your role Re...

 "The Last Dance" was a phenomenal documentary that was full of life lessons. In this episode Part 2   we dive deeper and discuss Mentorship, Accountability, and Evaluating your circle of friends. Of course, we conclude with the G.O.A.T debate! Guest: Irvin Wasswa Full list of Life Lessons   Leadership has a cost  Fatherhood matters Don't Cry, Play ball #adversity  Greatness has a c...

Coping w/ COVID! Life as we know it has been interrupted & disrupted. COVID-19 has affected us mentally & emotionally, so in this episode we offer 7 practical ways to manage your stress. Guest: Nicole Brown https://www.instagram.com/leliassoutherncharm/  Be Self-aware Practice Self Care  Lean into your relationships  Pray & go to Counseling  Rest Exercise Stay Close to Jesus  3 John 1:...