Real Men Talk

In this episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler Sowell and Anthony Curnutt unpack the unforgettable experience at the Stronger Men’s Conference. We reflect on the powerful messages we heard from speakers like Louie Giglio, Chad Veach, and Earl McClellan, and the life-changing moments that came not just from the stage—but around a bond fire with a group of men who opened their hearts and let the Spirit of...

Have you ever felt like you’ve failed God too badly to be used again? In this episode of Real Men Talk, Anthony Curnutt and Kyler Sowell dive deep into the story of Peter—the man who denied Jesus, wept bitterly, and yet was specifically called back by name. We talk about the power of redemption, the weight of guilt and shame, and the unfailing love of Jesus that still calls out to us, even when we...

In this powerful episode of Real Men Talk, I sit down with Charlie Shealy, a firefighter and Battalion Chief, who shares his remarkable story of leadership, loss, and redemption. From watching his mother battle alcohol addiction to facing personal trauma and grief, Charlie opens up about the hard lessons life has thrown his way. But instead of letting pain define him, Charlie chose to learn from i...

In this powerful episode of Real Men Talk, I sit down with Jeremy Hodnett, a former EMT and firefighter who nearly lost everything to alcohol and unresolved trauma. Jeremy opens up about the darkness he faced, the pain of his past, and how he tried to numb it all through addiction. But even in the midst of brokenness, God was at work. Through the redemptive power of Jesus Christ, Jeremy’s life was...

What does it really mean to be a man of God—and more specifically, a husband after God’s own heart? In this episode of Real Men Talk, Anthony Curnutt and Kyler Sowell dive deep into the biblical calling of a husband and a man, as laid out in Scripture. From being a loving leader to a faithful provider, from protector to servant leader, this conversation lays out a clear and convicting blueprint fo...

In Part 2 of my conversation with Corey Reynolds, we dive deeper into the struggle of mental health and how true healing comes through a relationship with God. As a professor of mental health at Three Rivers College, Corey shares both personal insights and biblical wisdom on how to navigate anxiety, depression, and inner battles through faith. This episode is a powerful reminder that while mental...

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Corey Reynolds, a college professor at Three Rivers College, to discuss his personal battle with suicidal ideation and suffering. Corey opens up about the darkest moments of his life and how he found deliverance through faith in Jesus Christ. This raw and honest conversation sheds light on the struggles many face in silence and offers hope to those searchi...

In this episode of Real Men Talk, I sit down with James Elliot from Unleash Your Power to discuss the reality of burnout, stress, and the struggles leaders face in today’s world. James is a coach who helps leaders break free from exhaustion, regain their confidence, and take back control of their lives. He shares his personal story and practical strategies for overcoming adversity and stepping int...

In this episode of Real Men Talk, Anthony Curnutt and Kyler Sowell sit down with JJ Vogltanz to dive deep into the burdens of being a caregiver, overcoming loss, and dealing with life's hardships as Christian men. We discuss the challenges men face when caring for loved ones, how to handle grief and suffering, and what it means to trust God in the middle of the storm. If you're struggling with los...

Fathers play a critical role in shaping the next generation—but what happens when they’re absent? The statistics are staggering: 81% of men in prison come from fatherless homes. When fathers step away from their God-given responsibility, families suffer, communities crumble, and the next generation is left searching for identity and purpose. In this episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler and I dive into...

What happens when your life is turned upside down by trauma? For Max McCalley, a traumatic brain injury changed everything—but instead of breaking him, it led him closer to Jesus. In this powerful episode, Max shares his incredible testimony of perseverance, faith, and redemption. After having to relearn simple things—learning how to read and renunciate words—Max found himself in a season of suffe...

The church needs men—not just as attendees, but as leaders, mentors, and examples for the next generation. In this episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler and I dive into the crucial role men play in the church and why our presence, leadership, and influence shape the future of faith communities. Too often, men sit on the sidelines, thinking their role in the church isn’t essential. But the truth is, your...

Many men are walking around wounded—whether from past trauma, relationships, failures, or the struggles of everyday life. But true healing isn’t just about patching up the pain; it’s about wholistic healing in Jesus Christ. In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Roy Wooten, a leader in The Crucible Project and author of Unstuck, to talk about the deep wounds men carry and how to break free...

There are two kinds of leaders: those who stand in the back and push people forward, and those who stand in the front and lead by example. But what kind of leader was Jesus? In this episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler and I break down the biblical model of leadership and why Jesus, the greatest leader of all time, led through service. True leadership isn't about control or power—it’s about sacrifice,...

In this powerful episode of Real Men Talk, I sit down with Mike McCalley from Vertical Solutions to hear his incredible story of resilience, faith, and overcoming hardship. Mike walks us through a life-altering tragedy that struck his son and the immense challenges he and his wife faced in its aftermath. But instead of crumbling under the weight of sorrow, they leaned fully on the Lord—and He carr...

Men today are facing an identity crisis. With cultural shifts, societal pressures, and conflicting messages about manhood, many are left searching for who they truly are. The world tells us our identity is found in our work, our addictions, our relationships, or our emotions—but none of these define us. In this episode, we dive into what God's Word says about our true identity. From Genesis to the...

In this episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler and I tackle a tough but honest truth—we can sometimes act like spoiled brats in our walk with God. How often do we feel entitled to His blessings or expect Him to work in our lives the same way every time? But Scripture reminds us that God is sovereign and good, always knowing what’s best for us, even when it doesn’t align with our expectations. We explore...

In this episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler and I explore the profound call for men of God to live set apart from the world. Drawing from Romans 12:2—“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind”—we discuss what it means to embrace convictions as a hill to die on and stand firm as biblical men and leaders. We dive into the importance of living a life th...

In this special episode of Real Men Talk, Anthony Curnutt and Kyler Sowell dive into the critical difference between setting worldly New Year’s resolutions and seeking a God-centered vision for 2025. As men called to lead our families, churches, and communities, we discuss the importance of aligning our goals with God’s will, embracing His purpose for our lives, and walking into the new year with...

In this episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler and I (Anthony Curnutt) dive into the story of Moses in Exodus 17:8-16, where the Israelite army battled the Amalekites. As long as Moses kept his arms raised with the staff of God, the Israelites prevailed—but when his arms grew tired, he needed the help of Aaron and Hur to keep them lifted. We explore the powerful parallels between Moses’ story and our own...

In this special Christmas episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler and I dive into the heart of the Christmas story as told in Luke 2. We explore the powerful contrast between the shepherds—lowly, uneducated, and overlooked—and the wise men—renowned, wealthy, and well-educated. Our discussion centers on how the birth of Jesus transcends all social and economic status, showing that salvation is for everyone...

In this inspiring and laughter-filled episode of Real Men Talk, Kyler and I sit down with Trey and Devin from Modern Day Messengers to hear their powerful testimonies of how they came to know Jesus. They share the incredible story of how their ministry was created and the passion that fuels their mission to reach men for Christ. We dive into the importance of men’s ministry, how they got involved,...

In this conversation, Anthony and Kyler discusses the pervasive issue of worry and how it can be exchanged for peace through faith and prayer. He emphasizes the importance of understanding worry as a natural reaction to life's challenges and the necessity of bringing our concerns to God with thanksgiving. The discussion highlights God's faithfulness and the confidence that believers can have in Hi...

In this conversation, Jody Burkeen shares his transformative journey from atheism to a deep faith in God, highlighting pivotal moments in his life, including his upbringing, struggles with belief, and eventual calling to ministry. He discusses the importance of family, adoption, and the principles of discipleship and accountability in his Christian walk. Jody emphasizes the need for men to lead th...

In this episode of Real Men Talk, Anthony and Kyler discusses the vital role men play in the spiritual harvest, emphasizing the need for maturity in faith and leadership. He highlights the importance of authentic conversations and the responsibility men have to grow spiritually to guide others. The conversation explores the consequences of spiritual laziness and the necessity of being prepared for...