Raw Motivations

Let's break it down on how Narcissist likes to argue and the tactics that they use. https://rawmotivations.com Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism....

As a Narcissist I really hate vulnerability. It has been something that over the years I have perfected avoiding and ignoring. Being vulnerable means that I would actually have to let someone in or actually admit that I was wrong about something. Not going to happen then at all. I hated vulnerability. https://rawmotivations.com Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me...

Did you narcissist take all of your money? Did you feel like they bled you dry? Maybe they bankrupted you, maybe they maxed out all your credit maybe they took you for all you had. What did that narcissist take from you financially? https://rawmotivations.com Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, h...

A boundaries for a narcissist without a consequence behind it will only just be a speed bump for them. Did you have trouble putting boundaries in place with your narcissist? They don't respect the boundaries that other people put in place. https://rawmotivations.com Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote aware...

Do you feel like in your relationship that everything comes back to you? It is your fault, you are the reason I am this way, etc. Do you feel like in your relationship that everything comes back to you? It is your fault, you are the reason I am this way, etc. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, h...

Narcissists seem to operate from the same script just in slightly different ways. How did yours compare? Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism. Pleas...

The narcissist is all about control. Controlling your perceptions, emotions and will can be a huge high and accomplishment for the Narcissist. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help peop...

A toxic relationship will limit what you think and feel. They will limit what you think you are capable of and what is possible. They will limit the mindset you have and the vision you have will be limited because of their judgement and abuse.  Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, gr...

Do you feel guilty for leaving your toxic ex? Maybe you could of done something different, or better or... The questions will rage in your mind so many times when you are away from them. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Ins...

Why didn't the narcissist hoover me? Did they not care about me?  How hoover and care can get confused in a toxic relationship. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help people with or...

Did your toxic person come across perfect to the world? Did they appear to be the best spouse? The most loving wife? The most engaged dad?  But what was it really like under the surface of that perfection? Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these vid...

Narcissists are often known about their need for control and manipulation. Sometimes they will even come out and say that out loud to you! One person actually said to their partner  "Whats yours is mine and what's mine is mine!" They will tell on themselves the longer you let them talk. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recove...

The narcissist will often look for people that are coming out of a relationship. Sometimes people that are vulnerable or are looking to fill a void that another person left in their life. When this happens it is easy to justify and minimize red flags. When you cut someone out of your life how do you feel? Does it feel bad to cut them out? How do I let go of someone that I said I love? How to I go...

Narcissist abuse gets worse when you take them back. When you take a narcissist back what does that look like for the abuse. When you take them back abuse gets worse and worse. It starts off as a new baseline for increased abuse. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I d...

When you cut someone out of your life how do you feel? Does it feel bad to cut them out? How do I let go of someone that I said I love? How to I go no contact with the person that i said I loved so much? In an argument why can't the conversation end? Why does it seem like it will continue on no matter what? The narcissist can't stand not having the last word. Tune in to hear the perspective of a s...

Have you left your narcissist and they won't block you? They still watch your social media or comment or like? Do they block and unlock you? Why do narcissists do this? In an argument why can't the conversation end? Why does it seem like it will continue on no matter what? The narcissist can't stand not having the last word. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - B...

How do you get a narcissist to change? Is that even possible? "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink" never sounded more true. Follow for more narcissistic content! In an argument why can't the conversation end? Why does it seem like it will continue on no matter what? The narcissist can't stand not having the last word. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissi...

Narcissist's love long distance relationships. They can use this to have supply in person and also on tap over the phone. How it looks on each side of the narcissist with long distance relationships. In an argument why can't the conversation end? Why does it seem like it will continue on no matter what? The narcissist can't stand not having the last word. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self...

In an argument why can't the conversation end? Why does it seem like it will continue on no matter what? The narcissist can't stand not having the last word. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I t...

Please don't go! Think of everything we have been through! Let's work on this or go get help. etc. Often a Narcissist will try the most in the last few moments of a relationship. Why do they do that? Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here...

Have you left your narcissist and you are debating whether you should go no contact and not communicate with them at all? Maybe you think that is too mean and want to keep them in your life. Maybe you have a child with the narcissist  and are worried that you need to keep in contact. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery...

Does the narcissist regret what they have done? Do they regret that have lost you or that you have moved on without them? Do they regret what they lost? Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to...

Your toxic person control all your access to finances? Maybe they took all your finances? They want all the control of what you have and own. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help peopl...

A narcissist is all about lies. As a result those lies hold them back from ever accepting a true higher power or that there is a God in control. That would mean they would have to admit that they aren't in control and that they aren't God. How can faith function? It can't if all there is to function on top of is only lies. Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben...

A narcissist is all about lies. As a result those lies hold them back from ever accepting a true higher power or that there is a God in control. That would mean they would have to admit that they aren't in control and that they aren't God. How can faith function? It can't if all there is to function on top of is only lies. So often we hear about hoovering and how that looks in toxic relationships....