RAMBLINGS OF A WOMAN

I think in as much as I was speaking to my audience, I was speaking to myself as well because this life thing really has going in circles. To quote from one of my favourite books “The Fault In Our Stars by John Green,” ‘Pain demands to be felt’; meaning I think we have to make peace with everything we feel and have obviously done and find ways to continue or forge ahead.

Navigating grief and every emotion that comes with it. Understanding that there is no timeline for healing and processing loss.

NB: I am basing this information off research and observations. Abortions and access to contraceptives are healthcare options that every woman of childbearing age should have access to regardless of their social status. Conversations without biases about abortion and contraceptives and the effects should be conducted to ensure every woman has the necessary information at hand. The shame based atti...

NB: I came with so much vim but it’s really from a good place. But all in all, this analogy stems from fear and deep unresolved issues we have about relationships. The “dog eat dog” narrative is heavy in our minds and we continue to hurt ourselves just to stay afloat. We need to do better.

For collapsed doggy, I meant lay down on your tummy; I got so lost in the sauce lol.

So this episode covers the diagnosis, treatment and a few myths about mental health illnesses. It is important to remember that mental health illness needs to be addressed and taken seriously; and if you are suffering from a mental health condition, you are not alone but you are loved and cared for. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/154543#early-signs and https://positivepsychology.com/ner...

NB: I am not a certified psychologist or psychiatrist or professional with regard to mental health so this information is based on research, experience and observations. In this episode we look at the definition, causes, types (briefly) and early symptoms of mental health disorders. Mental health is critical for the overall wellbeing and functionality of an individual. The need to take it seriousl...

Still talking about relationships and how society has changed the rules of engagement with regard to accountability and working towards the relationships “they claim to want” but don’t strive for.

I heavily freestyled in this episode so I hope this makes sense.

PS: My brain was not braining today. So despite being slow while reading the text, this episode looks at how certain experiences from your childhood determine how you relate with the people around you. For further reading; http://explorable.com/bowlby-attachment-theory and https://ccaa.net.au/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/TheEffectsOfTraumaOnAttachment.pdf.

Disclaimer: I am not a qualified psychologist but rather this is an overly simplified version on trauma and how it affects people. There’s a lot of rambling and smooshing of words; I meant “defragmentation” and not the word used but alas, my brain combined two words to make one.

So this is basically an introduction to the “Ramblings of a Mad Woman.” There’s nothing really talked about but stick around and I hope this can be one of your go to podcasts. Cheers. Xx