Radical Stepmoms

As stepmoms we are presented with the privilege of influencing and teaching our step-children. Some topics carry more weight than others. In this episode, Christina chats with Avril, a stepmom and social justice advocate to discuss raising antiracist children, and the steps white parents can take to look at their own beliefs and biases. We are at a deep and urgent need for change in our society, a...

Talking about puberty and sex with our kids doesn't have to make us break out in an anxious rash. In this episode, Christina chats with sexuality educator Sarah Spoule to answer questions like: what is the typical age to have the "sex talk"? How do we talk to our kids about their bodies and boundaries without shaming? How do we navigate these conversation when there's differences in households? Li...

Christina and the lovely Kimberly King chat how blended life changes after an ours baby and how despite it's challenges, we feel we were meant to be stepmoms. Kim shares her story of moving to a new country with her family (including the ex) and the complexities of being in a interracial/multicultural marriage. What considerations does a stepmom have when blending cultures and family values? What...

Let's chat disengaging, discipline, stepmom wins AND fails, being a child-free stepmom navigating infertility and... co-sleeping! This episode is jam packed with nuggets of insights and wisdom that will leave you saying, "Yeeesssss!." Listen in as Christina chats with Karen, a stepmom who has learned what "stepping back" means to her and how boundaries saved her from resentment.  About My Guest: K...

Affairs. They happen, right? Listen in as I chat with Erika about her journey into stepmotherhood. How did she meet her current partner? How has she navigated being viewed as "the other woman"? What is her relationship like with the the kids? The ex? We talk about it all! We can't choose who we fall in love with, or the timing. Sometimes things get a little messy. Listen in!  About my Guest: Erika...

Christina chats with Lisa who tells her story of never wanting to have children, and how jumping into stepmotherhood has impacted her. Lisa shares that while she remained childfree by choice, a hysterectomy at 32 stirred up some difficult emotions. What has helped her along the way? What words of advice does she have for other stepmoms? Listen in!  So much more than a podcast!!!  @radicalstepmomsp...

In a blended family navigating the schools and teachers can be super frustrating. Add a pandemic and remote learning, and it's even more complicated. How do you tell the teachers about the different households? How do you make sure everything is being communicated? What about teacher conferences? In this Episode, Christina chats with Betty, Mallory, Eric And Cassidy all who work in schools and hav...

In this episode Christina and Amanda discuss their similarities of raising a stepchild who has ADD/ADHD. They chat how their kids were assessed, the interventions, how they participate in their education, the behavioral challenges and the unique layer it adds to their stepmom journey. For the stepmoms also navigating ADD/ADHD, and IEP or behavioral issues - this one is for you.  About my Guest: @s...

Christina chats with Dr. Michelle Logvinsky, a licensed clinical psychologist (AND stepmom) to unpack the terms "high-conflict" and "narcissism". Michelle discusses her profession and how it overlaps with your personal life, and the struggles stepmoms face when dealing with the traumas of a high-conflict "co-parent". What are best practices when interacting with a high conflict person? Boundaries?...

Christina chats with the lovely and inspiring Sarajane Case from Enneagram & Coffee! Sarajane shares how she manifested becoming a stepmom, self-care tips and how knowing your Enneagram type can help in your blended family! Christina is a Type 2 and Sarajane is a 7! What's yours?!   About the Guest!  Sarajane Case is an author, speaker, podcaster, and now youtuber based out of A...

In this episode Christina welcomes Elise Buie a family law attorney who has deep understanding of complex family issues, not only because she’s an attorney but because she’s also a stepmom! Elise shares how being a stepmom influenced her career in family law, and vice versa. She gives her advice/tips for those preparing for mediation/court, discusses the current custody issues during a pandem...

Hello, Season 3! This episode is for stepmoms to listen to with their partners as Christina welcomes her husband back on the show! Together they answer your questions about navigating relationships, parenting styles, being a childless stepmom, disengaging and much more. They keep it raw and real as they discuss the ups and downs of blended family life, so get ready to feel little more validated an...

Christina and Genet wrap up Season 2 by discussing the holidays and their intentions for 2021! Genet gives an update on how she's navigating her marriage and stepmotherhood. The two talk guilt. disengaging and owning your feelings! They end with a BIG ANNOUNCEMENT as Radical Stepmoms heads into the new year and plans for Season 3!  ------  We are more than just a podcast:    Find us on Instagram @...

In this episode Genet reveals why she has taken time away from the podcast. She gets vulnerable, real and raw about her marriage, and her role as a stepmother. As stepmoms we all wonder "is it worth it?". Listen in as Genet shares how she knew it was time to choose herself.  ----------------------------------  We are more than just a podcast:   Find us on Instagram @radica...

Christina welcomes Cierra and Casey on to discuss their journey being full-time stepmoms. What are the benefits of being full-time? Is it easier with less interactions from the other home? What are the struggles? How do you make time for your relationship....or YOURSELF? We discuss it all!  Grab your beverage of choice and enjoy!   ----------------------------------------------...

Are you dating someone with kids? Are you new to the stepmom gig and you're internally freaking out? This episode is for you! Christina chats with Sabrina, Jennifer and Josie who are all in different parts of their journey. From 1 year in, to 10+ years experience raising kids they didn't create, these four stepmoms chat about all the things they wish they would have known. And even if you're a sea...

Christina welcomes Emily and Nikki on to discuss the topic of raising TEENAGERS. They are gross, full of hormones and expensive! How do you deal with discipline? Who had the sex talk? How do you manage social media? How do you keep your sanity?! Listen in as we talk about it all!  ----------------------------------------------------- We are more than just a podcast:   Find us on Ins...

Christina and Genet welcome their friend Carie to the show. Carie shares her stepmotherhood story that may sound super familiar. You fall in love, you meet the kid(s), you spend holidays with the ex... (wait, what?) and then one day you wake up and think...."Something isn't right...." Disengagement looks different for every stepmom; there's no one-size-fits-all. Listen in as Carie gets raw and rea...

School is back in session and parents everywhere are freaking the fuck out. Stepmoms are no exception. In this episode, Christina welcomes 4 other stepmoms to discuss what their online learning plans look like in their homes.  How involved will the be? What if the other home isn’t supportive? Listen in, and if you’re in the trenches too...good luck and cheers!! Find us on Instagram @radicalst...

Christina welcomes stepmoms Julie, Cheyenne and Brianne on the first Episode in the "Be Our Guest" Series.  Though they collectively dislike the term "childless stepmom", the four discuss the challenges many stepmoms face when they're raising children they didn't create.  They open up their hearts and share their experiences with not being seen as a "real" mom, jealousy, fertility and mu...

In this episode Christina welcomes Jessica from the Husband In Law Podcast. Jessica shares her unique journey to step-motherhood and the beautiful relationship she continues to have with her ex-husband.  Christina and Jessica discuss the challenges of blending a family and the process of grief when you realize that "picture perfect" co-parenting family may not be possible.  What magical...

Christina and Genet get you caught up and chat about their recent stepmom success stories. We're all waiting for that one big stepmom WIN and Genet got hers! Christina chats disengagement struggles and some other shit....literally.  As always, they keep it raw and real by discussing how the world's current events are impacting their hearts and blended families. Genet shares her personal exper...

Christina is welcoming back Maarit from Blended Family Frappé... but this time with her husband, Dan! The two have been together for over 10 years and are veteran's to the blended family life.  Dan speaks from his perspective as both a father and step dad, and what he's learned along they way. Partners...take notes! Maarit shares their challenges with different parenting styles and what she w...

Christina welcomes Nina, a stepmom to two girls, and a mama to two "ours baby" boys. They discuss Nina's experience of navigating the emotions of being the 3rd wife, and the complexities of co-parenting with two different birth moms. Christina and Nina also bond over what it's like to introduce an "ours baby" and what half-sibling bonding looks like. There's a lot of good stuff in this one. Grab y...

Happy Podcast Anniversary you Radical Stepmamas!  Genet and Christina reflect on their past year on the podcast and share their gratitidue for their amazing listeners and followers. Genet shares her recent experience in "stepping back"  amidst COVID-19 and Christina shares how she surprised herself with Mother's Day looming.  Grab your beverage of choice and let's CHEERS to ONE YEAR...