Radical Creative Sanctuary

When it comes to creating the life you dream of, do you tend to focus on mindset, or action? Do you prefer to manifest by being your future self, or by doing the things your future self needs you to do? In this episode Danette uses dance as a metaphor for what’s really going on […] The post The Being-Doing Dance appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

So, you know this relationship isn’t what you want. You haven’t been happy in it for a long time. And if you’re honest, you know you really aren’t all that motivated to try and save it – even if you did believe saving it would work. So why are you still there? Are you waiting […] The post The Only Reason You Need to Breakup appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

In this 100th episode of The Soft Shoulder Podcast, Danette celebrates the importance of making self love YOURS. It is an art, after all – and sometimes that looks like strutting around your neighbourhood to the very sexy Alannah Myles. the art of self marriagethe soft shoulder podcast The post Love is What You Want it to Be appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Have you been sidetracked without realizing it? Got a little caught up in your fallback plan and forgot what the dream was in the first place? We all do it. This is your loving wakeup call to take a look around, remember why you are here, and re-focus on where your heart really wants to […] The post Get Off the Bridge appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Does the word “abundance” kinda make your eyes glaze over? You know it’s supposed to be inspiring, but it just falls flat somehow? In this episode Danette shares the affirmation that is rocking her world right now. Consider it a spell to break you free from scarcity thinking – or at the very least, help […] The post There’s More Where This Came From appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctua...

Sometimes you know the end is near for a while before it actually comes into being. This episode is for those who may be newly breaking up or almost breaking up – along with a personal story of how self love does not stop your heart from breaking. It just makes it less scary. the […] The post Truth Telling That Breaks Your Heart appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

How would you define “Self Love”? What about “Authenticity”? How might your definitions reveal opportunities for you to love and accept yourself even more?  This episode is a gentle reminder to notice your binary thinking about self love, and allow it to exist in you, as you are, always. the art of self marriagethe soft […] The post What Are Your Secret Self Love...

If you’re going through it, you are not alone. This episode is a friendly wave of solidarity from the wild times of grief and loss, reminding you that you are not alone, it’s okay to hate this, and maybe deep diving into your favourite absurd entertainment is the medicine you didn’t know you needed. the […] The post Lessons from Loss appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Some say it’s not realistic to expect any one person to fulfill all your needs in a marriage. We have much higher expectations these days – seeking life partners who are also running buddies, best friends, business collaborators, co-parents, and erotic playmates with compatable rising signs. Good news: when you are marrying yourself, you can […] The post Being Your Own Everything...

This mini episode is an invitation to play pretend and allow your imagination to change the game. the art of self marriagethe soft shoulder podcast The post Pretend You’re a Carrot appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

A part of you knows you are amazing. Why is it so hard to remember sometimes? There must be something wrong with you, right? Nope! What if all this remembering and forgetting is by design – to build exactly the kind of strength you most need to be your most beautiful human self? theartofselfmarriage.com The post Forgetting as a Beautiful Thing appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

If you are seeking a pain free path in life, it may not be a path at all. This episode is a gentle illumination of how your choices to avoid pain might just be favouring pain of a different kind. What is the meaningful pain of following your heart’s desire? the art of self marriagethe […] The post Choosing Meaningful Pain appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Even if you are full of doubt and think you don’t have anything to be creative with – Danette guides you through a creative activity you can do right now to rip up your old thoughts and open your mind to possibilities you hadn’t considered. Colouring Club starts February 11th: https://danette-relic.mykajabi.com/offers/XGWhgy9w/checkout Art of Self Marriage: […] The post Creative Shake Up app...

Ever have a crush on someone and notice that you find their flaws adorable? When you look at someone through love goggles, you’ll find charm in their most annoying features. Well, love goggles are not just for new crushes. In fact, this practice of seeing yourself as adorable, especially when you are a mess, can […] The post You Are Adorable appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Think you’re bad at boundaries? Beating yourself up over it? Feeling stuck and frustrated? You may be missing a crucial piece of the puzzle. This episode is the pep talk you need if you’re feeling weak and confused in a relationship where your boundaries seem to be for decoration only. Tarot for Self Love Rebels […] The post Boundaries and Power appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

This mini episode is an invitation to play pretend and allow your imagination to change the game. the art of self marriagethe soft shoulder podcast The post Pretend You are Demonstrating appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Isn’t it amazing how we can take things that are good for us and somehow turn them against us? In this episode, Danette revisits the Artist Mindset and the potential snags of perfectionism that could sneak in. The Tarot for Self Love Rebels workshop is coming up on January 28th. Read more + sign up […] The post More Sketchbook, Less Masterpiece appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

This mini episode is an invitation to play pretend and allow your imagination to change the game. the art of self marriage the soft shoulder podcast The post Pretend You’re a Volunteer appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

A gentle reminder that forgiveness is yours, every day, again and again. A playful way to recreate confession booths at home. And as always, permission to be exactly where you are on this self love path. We’re on it together. The post Forgive Yourself Every Day appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Who knew there were so many deep lessons to be learned from your favourite brunch spot? This episode is a loving call for you to get specific about what you want – and what you are offering. Danette invites you to imagine what might be possible…if you practice naming your wildest desires. Book Mentioned:Unbound: A […] The post Getting Clear About What You Want appeared first on R...

Personal growth enthusiasts love to tweak things and find the right path forward. But sometimes the path is…just not feeling good. Maybe it’s not about the path itself, but the pace at which you are travelling? In this episode, Danette gets a little breathy talking about massages and helps you explore the expansive options available […] The post Move at a Loving Pace appeared first on Radica...

Ever thought about hiring a coach? Do you think you need to “get ready” for it first? What if you don’t think you have any coach-worthy goals? Why would someone want to hire a coach if they could just talk to their friends for free? And do you really need some other person to give […] The post The Thrill of Hiring a Coach appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

Even Self Marriages need to spice things up from time to time. How about a little role play? In this episode, Danette asks a lot of questions to spark your imagination for some safe, low-stakes experimentation.   the art of self marriagethe soft shoulder podcast The post Who Do You Want to Try On? appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

A loving and honest pep talk if you are in a deep valley and need a reminder that there is beauty close by – even if you can’t see it from where you stand. The post If Hope is Hard to See appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .

It’s inevitable that as you grow, parts of you will be let go of. Some by choice, some by change. In this episode, Danette explores the nuances of this experience and gives permission to welcome and release your many selves with the emotion that feels most true to heart. But not before she nerds out […] The post Letting Go of Past Selves appeared first on Radical Creative Sanctuary .