Haley Steinhilber
Q4Q: Queer Personals Podcast
Let's get personal! Since the dawn of time, humans have been desperate for connection. Then we realized we could solicit strangers through the Sunday paper. You’ve heard of Craigslist personals, just imagine the pining and thirst from lonely queers searching for love. Listen as we read and rate personal ads from the ‘70s through 2000s! If you love gay yearning, you’ll love Q4Q! Be on the show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc8dOqRD6JF00L1fzyu8kXbBM58Z19ZlOs1aGeRv1usobmIDg/viewform
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Haley Steinhilber
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Jun 3, 2025
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Episodes
Let's Do Sex & Drugs 07.04.2022 1:05:06
In this episode, Haley and Rachel (Gaychel) pop open some personal ads looking for a little more. Whether it be physical or chemical–they want pleasure and they want it soon! There will be poppers–certainly pleasure, preservative-laden snacks, and high-impact naked sports. Settle in with your munchies of choice, because these head hunters are meeting gyrating Euro-trash in pursuit of sex ‘n drugs....
Welcome to Q4Q: Queer Personal Ads Podcast 28.02.2022 0:27
Let's get personal! Since the dawn of time, humans have been desperate for connection. Then we realized we could solicit strangers through the Sunday paper. You’ve heard of Craigslist personals, just imagine the pining and thirst from lonely queers searching for love. Listen as we read and rate personal ads from the ‘70s through today! If you love gay yearning, you’ll love Q4Q! Send a text...
Cruising Craiglist with Alexis Macaluso 20.01.2022 45:11
Welcome to another episode of Q4Q, where Haley meets with Alexis Macaluso, author and artist of the new book Deeply Personal: A Journey into Earth’s most curious classified ads— to cruise through some Craigslist ads and newspapers from the ‘60s, ‘80s, and ‘90s. Will you sign up for the “Gay” cruise, find an old Army buddy from ‘Nam, or maybe hook up with the Dirty Old Man from Maine? The sky'...
From the Transsexual Voice to Boys Will Be Boys 06.01.2022 58:29
Happy New Year! And welcome to another episode of Q4Q. Haley connected with Dan Griffiths from the Gender F*ck podcast to engage with some ads written by and for trans people. In the pages of the magazines, we meet a love kitten, a student of the bizarre, and so many others hoping for a connection. Listen to us on Spotify, Stitcher, Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to your tunes! Interested...
Prince Charming Seeks Butch Lancelot 26.11.2021 53:02
Strap into your saddles, because we’re about to find some Prince/ss Charmings on some horses. In this week’s episode, join Haley and Lauren as they dig through some personal ads that put the “fairy” in fairy tale. Follow us through the tales of a heartbroken lesbian from Georgia, Prince Charming sought in Denver, and butch Lancelot? All that and more in Episode 13 of Q4Q: Queer Personal Ads! Liste...
Wisconsin: You're "Among Friends" 16.10.2021 55:51
Are you looking for a gay roommate? What about a lesbian organic farmer? Find all that and more in this episode of Q4Q, when Haley and Annika slide into the DMs of some quality cheeseheads from the state of Wisconsin. Listen to us on Spotify, Stitcher, Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to your tunes! Interested in being on the show? Contact us at Q4QPodcast@gmail.com or find us on Twitter @Qu...
Bi Bi Bisexuals! 30.09.2021 57:38
Hey all you handsome bi’s and rugged guys! This time on Q4Q, Haley and their new housemate Ainhoa wade through an archive of bisexual personal ads. Give it a listen, because these ads swing both ways! Listen to us on Spotify, Stitcher, Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to your tunes! Interested in being on the show? Contact us at Q4QPodcast@gmail.com or find us on Twitter @Queerpersonals and I...
Take Me Home, Country Dykes 16.09.2021 1:12:17
Have you heard of Farmers Only? Do you find yourself watching Brokeback Mountain over and over? This episode takes “City people just don’t get it” to a whole new level. Listen as Haley and Erin discover the personals of cowboy bachelors, country dykes, and Gay okies. Because as we all know, “Cowboys are frequently secretly fond of each other!” Listen to us on Spotify, Stitcher, Apple Podcast, or w...
Sunset on Gay Sunshine 02.09.2021 36:26
Come out and soak up some Gay Sunshine with Haley this week, as they traipse through the history of this unique little newspaper. Haley outlines some of the paper’s history with Berkeley’s Gay Liberation Front, the Gay Sunshine Press, and the long-time editor Winston Leyland. Or, skip to the end and listen to some iconic personal ads from Gay Sunshine in the 1970s. As always, music by Omar Nassar....
The OG Facebook Wall 12.08.2021 1:04:07
Did you know that people wrote in to their newspapers for friends' birthdays, anniversaries, or even just to get a hold of someone? In Episode 8, Thaddeus and Haley flip through some queer classifieds to find some fun examples of how people announced their feelings before the digital age. If you haven’t already, please give us a quick review and rating on iTunes or wherever you’re listening....
A Gender Fluid Guy Fieri in Baltimore 29.07.2021 58:33
Welcome once again to Q4Q, where Haley reads old LGBTQ Queer Personal Ads with their friends. In this episode, Haley and Sam dive into newspaper archives from Washington, D.C., San Francisco, St. Louis, and Philadelphia to peruse some ads that might be expecting too much. Follow us on our journey through resumes, Polaroids, and maybe even Guy Fieri? If you haven’t already, please give us a quick...
Well, I've Been Hooked 15.07.2021 1:06:44
Join Haley and their Museum Dad, Meg, as they peruse some personal ads with impeccable intro sentences that really hook you in. This episode was originally themed "It Didn't Have to Be That Weird," because there are some bizarre adjectives, fun nicknames, and questionable metaphors. As one of our young lonely hearts exclaims, "Let's get sticky, witty, and warm!" If...
From the Mailbox to Your DMs 01.07.2021 1:17:09
From the mailbox to your DMs, Missy and Haley take a look at queer personal ads and how they evolved from print media to social media and apps. In this episode, they discuss the history of submitting personal ads into newspapers, the Mattachine Society's ONE magazine and their fight against the US Postal Service, and how the digital age has adjusted the way we date (and where Lex sits in that...
We're Going Star Gayzing 17.06.2021 55:44
Is there anything the Gays love more than astrology? Probably not! Find out if your stars align with these personal ads! Please don’t get angry at us, we’re just teasing. Don't forget to check out the new intro and outro music, written and strummed by Omar Nassar. If you haven’t already, please give us a quick review and rating on iTunes or wherever you’re listening. Interested in being on th...
A Brief History of "On Our Backs" 03.06.2021 41:49
Join Haley as they wander through the history of the lesbian erotica magazine On Our Backs, explore how the periodical inspired the dating app Lex, and flip through 2 issues that they purchased for research purposes. *I swear!!* If you haven’t already, please give us a quick review and rating on iTunes or wherever you’re listening. Interested in being on the show? Contact us at Q4QPodcast@gmail.co...
Lesbians...Being Lesbians 08.05.2021 42:33
Hello! Welcome to Q4Q, a podcast where I read old personal ads with one of my friends. This episode I have with me one of my good friends and queer historians, Kai. Kai and I sift through one of my favorite websites--the Washington Blade archive on DigDC--hosted by the D.C. Public Library. With just a D.C. library card, we can access hundreds of copies of the LGBTQ newspaper, which ran from 1969 i...
Seeking Buff Danny Devito in Indianapolis 23.04.2021 1:05:59
Hello! Welcome to the first episode of Q4Q, a podcast where I read old personal ads with one of my friends. This episode I have with me one of my best friends from college--Tabitha. Join Tabitha and I as we read several ads from 1987 and 1990 featured in the New Works , a gay newspaper centered in Indianapolis, Indiana--the fine state that we both grew up in. What follows is a list of the ads and...
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