Purely Aligned

Did you get into entrepreneurship to have freedom in your life? Do you feel like you have freedom in your business now? Or has the business taken over? I believe there are 3 stages on the entrepreneurial journey that lead to ultimate freedom. 1. Alignment 2. Scale 3. Build Wealth And this isn't someday when you've achieved a certain level, then you can be free and enjoy freedom in your l...

Have you ever said "I wish I was more consistent?" "Maybe I need more discipline, motivation, and need more accountability.." If you are not being consistent doing what you're 'supposed to be doing', do you really want to be doing it in the first place? The secret to consistency is NOT force, accountability, and discipline. The secret IS making sure it's com...

Is there an area of your life that seems to be easier than others? It can be relationships, business, physical health, etc. and does one area seem to go better and come easier, or is there an area that seems to be more of a struggle? How much are we forcing, pushing, and trying to make something happen without realizing we've become attached to the outcome that we want? I realized something h...

Hustle and Grind is not sustainable, and can we please normalize rest, recovery, and putting our energy first? What if we lived in a world where it was honored and respected to reschedule or ask for an extension? (there is a disclaimer to this in the episode and it always starts with effective communication of course) An Instagram post from last year reminded me that we need to continue this conve...

What is your definition of Pure Alignment? I think it's important to take a moment and define what it means to you, and what it looks like to live a Purely Aligned life! In this episode, I'm sharing my opinion on what living in Pure Alignment means, and it's more than the 4 steps of the Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery (episodes 4-7). My definition of Pure Alignment is: It does st...

Are you feeling burnt out right now and wondering where your motivation went? I taught a class at the end of 2020 called Avoiding Burn Out, and it ended up being one of my most popular classes because I think we've all experienced moments of complete exhaustion, and questioning if we should just forget what we're doing and move to the middle of nowhere! *if you're thinking about mov...

How well do you handle change? When it's time to make a big decision or take a leap, do you resist, or go all in? I'm sharing a BIG announcement and behind the scenes of what my ego was holding onto for years, and it took until recently to be ready to make this decision. I knew deep down something was off, and I kept trying to fix it, restructure, change things up, thinking that would so...

We are celebrating the 50th EPISODE of Purely Aligned!!!! Thank you so much for being on this journey with me, for reaching out and telling me you're listening, for subscribing, and for taking the time to make sure you really are living a Purely Aligned life! Today's celebration episode is an important topic, because we seem to search for answers everywhere else, when they're alread...

Have you ever wondered if you're on the right path? How do you know if you're going in the right direction? Someone asked me recently if they were going the right way, and it made me realize how important it is to pay attention and take the time to evaluate instead of keeping your head down and pushing through and then wondering why you're burnt out, exhausted, miserable, stuck, fru...

Do you believe things are happening exactly when they're meant to? Or are you putting deadlines and timelines on when things SHOULD happen? Have you ever taken a moment to check in and ask yourself if this timeline is something you made  up,  and does it really matter? Today's episode shares some personal examples of how I've done a complete 180 on wanting things done by a certain t...

Do you believe you have to sacrifice in the beginning of building a new business... until you earn the right, paid your dues, worked your way up? Or do you believe you get to build your business YOUR way from the beginning? So many Real Estate Agents and Entrepreneurs have a belief that they HAVE to grind it out in the beginning, work extra hard, and sacrifice their life and freedom so SOMEDAY the...

How does one go from working 24/7 with intense pressure and performance standards, climbing the ladder of success, and achieving what everyone seems to think success looks like, to realizing it's not actually what you want or what makes you happy? Today's special guest is Tina Beliveau and we discuss how she reclaimed her time and energy to create more space to live and love her life. Ti...

Are you always late? Running around stressed because there's so much to do and you seem to never have enough time to do it?  What about trying to get from one place to the next and no matter what you do, you never make it on time? As a recovering 'always late to everything and running around stressed 24/7', I realized something that completely changed my life, and my schedule that I...

Have you ever set goals and then the end of the year comes around, you look at your business plan, and wonder what went wrong? You thought this was the year you were going to grow your business and make things happen, so what happened? It's because we forget to do the MOST important piece of the puzzle.... Experiment and make adjustments as we go, instead of setting something new in place and...

On a scale of 1-10, how was 2022 for you? Are you counting down the moments until it's over so you can start fresh in 2023? Or are you taking a moment to reflect and celebrate everything that went well first? Why do we think that a new year is going to solve all of our problems when we can't appreciate and be grateful for what already happened? This episode is a reality check and time fo...

Do you consider yourself a perfectionist? Have you ever noticed that it could be holding you back from taking action? I personally don't consider myself a perfectionist, however I realized how my own expectations of what things 'should' be or 'should look like' were actually keeping me from moving forward. Once I realized what was happening, I discovered a secret that actu...

I found myself extremely overwhelmed recently and took myself through a 4 step process to help me get grounded, and this episode takes you through what I did to overcome being overwhelmed. Especially with the Holidays around the corner and the new year in a few weeks, it seems everyone is on overdrive and overwhelmed with everything on their plate. Today's episode shares how I went from freak...

We are celebrating the 40th episode of Purely Aligned with a very special guest, Yolanda Boyarin!  Yolanda and I discuss how impatience is usually a sign of our own lack of belief, and do you really trust, or are you searching for external validation and evidence that things are working?  This conversation is a great reminder to check in with how strong  your own self trust and belief is, and how...

Have you ever heard the saying "reasons or results, you can't have both"? What if I told you I completely disagree with this saying, because I believe your reasons = your results and are a sign of what's going on unconsciously that's preventing you from taking action. I believe when you're in alignment, you don't need force or accountability because you're i...

Have you been feeling frustrated that you can't get everything done in the limited time you have? Are you trying to accomplish 50 things at once and wondering why nothing is actually happening or moving forward? How often do we mistake busyness with achievement, and in reality we're focusing on things that don't really matter or move us towards our goals. Today's episode dives...

Do you consider yourself a workaholic? Are you currently working 24/7 and have so much on your plate you don't really have time to do anything for yourself, let alone take some time off? I've found there are two groups within this non-stop 24/7 go mode: Group 1 is burnt out and overwhelmed, exhausted, maybe miserable, and doing so much it's draining them and they need help and aren&...

I believe there are 4 foundational pieces going from Solopreneur to CEO, and this episode gives an overview of what they are. It seems like these are not taught very often which can make the journey of entrepreneurship overwhelming and it doesn't have to be that way. The 4 foundations are mindset, sales skills, hiring, and leadership and if you've ever tried to scale your business only t...

Does it feel like things aren't working? It can be any area of life, and have you had frustration because you thought you'd have different results or be in a different place than you are? This episode gives you 5 reasons why things aren't working the way you thought, and a lot of questions to help you self reflect and figure out what's really going on beneath the surface. The n...

Have you ever said part of you wants one thing, and part of you wants something else? That could be a sign that you have an inner conflict that could be preventing you from taking action or moving forward. Melissa shares some life updates as well as what came up in her NLP breakthrough session around her own inner conflicts, and why resolving them can help you move forward and do what's best...

Do you wish you could take a day off without your phone ringing or someone needing your help? Have you ever taken a vacation and had to deal with work problems while you're gone? This episode is going to give you tangible steps on HOW to disconnect AND keep your business going... without you. Sound too good to be true? Here's a hint...it's not you, it's WHO is going to handle i...