Purely Aligned

This is a special episode all about aligned relationships. We are celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary today and 18 years together and I wanted to share lessons I've learned over the years and what changed everything in our relationship. Enjoy a different angle on being purely aligned in relationships! If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 option...

Have you ever gone down memory lane and looked back to see how far you've come? Melissa shares lessons that came through after watching high school and college videos and sometimes it takes looking back to piece things together. If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available. You can reach out on IG or checkout the 24 Hour VIP GO! Sessi...

We are celebrating Purely Aligned's 30th Episode!!! Tune in for a special gift and how to redeem as a thank you for being here with me. Today's episode is about enjoying the journey, and what to do if you are NOT enjoying the present moment. Do you hate it when someone tells you to enjoy the journey? It's not about the destination, it's the journey along the way! Well if you&ap...

Strategy vs Energetics seems to be a hot topic in the online space right now, and the Real Estate Industry is pretty much built on logical strategy. The real secret to success is combining both and making sure you are creating a purely aligned strategy that comes from what actually lights you up, instead of what logically makes sense and sounds good on your business plan. Melissa explains the diff...

Are you investing in yourself AND building wealth? Do you have money in reserves, or are you re-investing everything back into the business and your own personal growth?  There's a slippery slope when it comes to the personal development and coaching world where we can easily spend more than we realize, and if we aren't aware of how much we really have, it's a rude awakening when yo...

Melissa shares more about her health journey and diagnosis, and why advocating for yourself is so important. There's also a powerful message around letting things go even if it feels like it's all falling apart, what if that's the point? What if we need to let go and let it crumble, so we can rebuild from a pure and solid foundation that's purely aligned to what we really want?...

Today's episode is a recording of Melissa's Facebook live in the Path to Freedom free Facebook group (you can join in the link below!) from March 2022. Melissa shares behind the scenes of feeling stuck and frustrated, and how sometimes the answer is to zoom out and look up. Where can you adjust slightly, move over and see an easier way. Why do we ask ourselves disempowering questions tha...

Melissa shares some personal stories and examples of how she realized she says "yeah but it's not that good, or it doesn't count" and couldn't even see she received what she asked for. How often are you negating or blocking what you say you want? Why are we conditioned to want things to look a certain way, and when they don't, we can't see that it did in fact hap...

This is an episode you'll probably want to listen to multiple times! Have you ever put someone on a pedestal, thought that when you achieved something then you'll be happy,  or when you get certain results someday you will be so happy and grateful, and how could someone still think it's not enough when their results are what you wish you had? This perspective shift is going to help...

Do you feel like you have to choose one OR the other? If you have 1 hour for example, does that mean you only have time for one thing? Or is there a way to split your time and energy so you can do both? Living a life of AND is practicing saying yes, and removing the limitations that you have to choose. If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now av...

Have you ever heard the saying Be, Do Have? Maybe you've heard of it as a KW Bold Law, or in NLP, and this episode shares how we tend to have it backwards. What results do we want and what do we want to have, so let's work backwards and figure out what we need to do in order to have it. Do you  need to become more disciplined, accountable, consistent, or motivated? Wouldn't that nee...

Have you ever heard the saying "How you do one thing is how you do everything?" Melissa shares why she disagrees with this and gives insight on how alignment and value can determine how you actually show up. Are there certain things you are so excited about no one has to convince you to do it? Are there other things that feel heavy and you resist? What if it's your values and uncons...

Have you ever evaluated whether your effort and consistency are sustainable? Do you have the energy to be consistent to your commitments? Or do you give yourself permission to evaluate, adjust, and change your mind? Melissa explains that a big mistake can be setting goals without reflecting on if you have the energy to sustain your commitments and action plan, and how to look at it as an experimen...

Today's episode is best described in the following caption. If you want to learn how we are self-sabotaging when we don't follow our calendar exactly, you'll want to listen to this episode about how the effort matters more than when it actually happens. How often do you give up or quit because you didn't do something when you were 'supposed' to? Example: If you were s...

Melissa dives deeper into how we are conditioned to tie our self-worth to our achievements, and how that is preventing us from focusing on what we truly want. If we're so caught up in chasing the next milestone for external validation, we are giving our power away and will never be satisfied. It's time to normalize celebrating it all, and make sure we are doing it for us first. All Digit...

Have you ever heard in sales or real estate.... "start every day at zero" or "if you don't find new business daily, you'll be out of business"? Melissa shares how she heard this for years and believed it, and didn't realize how this was training her to be in survival, scarcity, and lack. Starting over every day at zero can feel heavy and exhausting, and if you&ap...

This is a must listen before deciding you're ready to build a Real Estate team or if you already have one! Melissa shares 3 steps before creating a purely aligned team because it's not one size fits all. Are you clear on your vision and what you want? What type and size of team aligns to you? Melissa gives examples of what you can do if you're a solo agent and feeling overwhelmed an...

Melissa shares a different idea around the concept of slowing down to speed up, and how to embrace the season you're in. What would happen if the days you don't have as much energy or you're feeling under the weather you actually listened to what your body needs and rest? What if the days you feel amazing and have tons of energy you maximized what you were doing to increase momentum...

Want to learn 3 things that could be causing you to procrastinate? Melissa share's what could be going on beneath the surface and really preventing you from taking action.  And here's a hint, it's not because you're lazy or need more discipline! If you've ever had a task on your to-do list that keeps getting moved to tomorrow, you'll want to listen to this episode and...

This episode is a must listen for anyone that works in Real Estate and if you've ever felt like you wish you had more discipline, motivation, and always feeling behind when it comes to lead generation and finding more business. There's a toxic side to the Real Estate Coaching industry that promotes accountability and punishment if you don't hit your numbers for the day, and this is...

Melissa gives you 3 tips when it comes to choosing your next coach, mentor, program, or mastermind group and making sure it comes from a purely aligned place! Sometimes you won't know until you're in it, and don't forget you always have permission to make adjustments so it's more aligned to your vision and what you want. 1. Are you clear on your vision? 2.  What's the gap...

In today's episode, Melissa dives deep into what your Values are at the unconscious level and how they determine everything! Values determine what you spend your time, money, and energy on and whether you feel fulfilled or not. If they are so important and determine so much in our lives, how are we not aware that they are actually driving decisions behind the scenes? Next Level Alignment Work...

Melissa shares her favorite 4 questions to help you figure out what's really going on beneath the surface. You can use these as a tool anytime you are feeling stuck, in a mindset funk,  or are procrastinating and avoiding taking action. 1. What is causing me to feel this way? 2. What outcome am I avoiding? 3. What do I actually want? 4. What's the first step to make that happen? Listen t...

Melissa shares strategy around how to create space in your life and business. Do you need permission to change your mind? You're allowed to say no, reschedule, renegotiate, delegate, and cancel to give yourself space in your calendar.  If you are a busy entrepreneur going 24/7, this will give you practical steps on how to start saying no and get clear on what truly  matters in your business....

Melissa shares how to make big decisions faster.  Where are you sitting on the fence, waiting until you're ready?  What are you waiting for exactly?  Melissa shares how she's made big life and business decisions and the questions you can ask yourself to help you get back into action and make a decision. The new, improved, and upgraded QUIZ IS HERE! Click the link below to find out what t...