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This episode we are answering questions asked by our lovely audience. Thank each of you for your love and support. You are greatly appreciated.  As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse. Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family! For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your ab...

During the toxic relationship, many of us were not able to attend to our bodies as we needed to.  After leaving your toxic relationship, it is vital to see a physician and a mental health specialists to support you on your road to recovery. As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse. Thank you for listening.  We...

Today is Valentine's Day! And this week, we are in discussion about what an ideal mate may look like for someone after a life of abuse. Tune in as we engage with you three things important to us in the next relationship.  As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse. Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your su...

This episode will give you a recap of the series. Links to all episodes are below: Starting Over https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Starting-Over-ea47kh Starting Over - part 2 (Finances) https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Starting-Over---Part-2-Finances-ea8661 Starting Over - part 3 (Emotions) https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Starting-Over---Part-3-Emotions-ead0fd Starting O...

This week will be all about our business owners coping with life juggling their business and personal lives simultaneously after a life of abuse. Three things I share in today's episode to assist you juggling life and business as you start over: Recognize you are being abused and plan an escape Think about what you what your life to look like on the other side of the abusive relationship. Build a...

Today’s episode will be the 3rd installment of what life looks like to someone after a life of abuse on their journey to a healthier lifestyle. We will discuss dealing with your emotions after a toxic relationship. Dealing with emotions can be a very delicate situation because you don’t always know when, where, or even how you may have offended someone as you triggered them as they are journeying...

Starting over has now become a series where we discuss what life is like for someone starting over after a life of abuse.   In this 2nd installed episode, we discuss what finances look like for someone starting over.  Finances are used against someone in a toxic relationship in many different forms.  Listen and download the episode to save to assist you being alert of some things a...

In this brief episode, we will discuss what life looks like for someone after they are no longer in an abusive situation.  In order to be more successful with life, it’s best to plan. However, if you are in an abusive situation, sometimes depending on the severity of danger, you need to leave immediately. And even that looks different case by case. Each situation is dangerous, but some are at...

HAPPY NEW YEAR! I hope everyone enjoyed their New Year celebration into the new decade.  There are those among us who do not feel they have a reason to celebrate.  Hopefully, these stats will assist you understanding why this is no happy occasion for them.   Children are the most affected by the violence that happen in the home.  Most (who do not seek counseling or other suppor...

This intermittent episode is about what victims, survivors, and supporters of abuse are dealing with during the holidays.   The spirit of Christmas is a chaotic but happy time for most.  For those in my title, it can be very daunting to say the least.  The last thing anyone wants to deal with is depression and trauma at this time, regardless your position. My hope is that everyone i...

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.  As a survivor and Restoration Strategist, I urge each of you to consider getting involved decreasing the occurrences of this form of violence happening in your local community.  Three benefits of getting involved are: Raises level of awareness Increases your alertness Comfortable helping those in need of support According to the National Coa...

This episode was very emotional for me as to the reason it is short. Suicide is a very serious conversation to have.  If you don't know what to look for, one of the feelings you may experience is helplessness as I did.   This past Thursday was National Mental Health Day and I participated in a free class in my local community on being alert for signs of someone who may be contemplating s...

This is an episode of my experiences with domestic violence, child abuse, sexual assault, and suicide. I don't go into deep detail, but this will help you to understand that I do have experience with each of the subject matters and why I became a Restoration Strategist.  This weekend, I will participate in the "Out of the Darkness" walk for suicide prevention in my area. I will be back next w...

In this episode, I am giving you an introduction of who I am as host.