Position of Neutrality

Many of us enter recovery thinking that ceasing alcohol or drug use will automatically fix everything. In this video, we delve into the deeper truths of recovery, as described in the Big Book—our substance use is only a symptom of larger underlying issues. We explore why it’s crucial to get down to the causes and conditions that led us to our addiction in the first place. Join us as we uncover the...

In this powerful session, we delve into the chapter ‘We Agnostics’ from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, tackling the challenges of skepticism and unbelief in the recovery process. Understanding the necessity of finding a higher power to overcome addiction, we explore the importance of setting aside prejudices and focusing on the personal experiences gained through self-discovery. This video...

n this video, we explore the crucial aspect of Step 4 where we identify the flaws in our character that led to our failures. Understanding how ‘self’ manifests in various forms—like the little lies we tell ourselves and others to get what we want—is essential for recovery. We discuss how these seemingly small actions build up over time, shaping our behaviors and impacting our journey. Join us as w...

Facing the list of amends in Step 8 can be a major hurdle in recovery. In this video, we explore a real-life example of reluctance to make amends and discuss the importance of readiness and willingness in the healing process. Drawing from the principles of Step 4, we emphasize why it’s crucial to address underlying resentments and fears thoroughly before moving forward. Join us to understand more...

Explore the critical insights of Step 4 on how resentment can sever our connection to the ‘sunlight of the spirit,’ driving us back to the insanity of addiction. This video unveils the often fatal path from harboring negative emotions to the precipice of relapse, before the first drink is even taken. Join us for a deep dive into the mechanics of addiction and the necessity of a rigorous moral inve...

Welcome back to our exploration of spiritual growth within the recovery process. In this session, we delve into the concept of God not just as an object of our devotion, but as a subject of our personal experiences. We discuss how our own conception of a higher power, no matter how initially inadequate it may seem, is sufficient to begin establishing a deep, meaningful connection. This video highl...

Step 4 challenges us to take an honest inventory of our lives, much like a business reviews its goods. This video explores how acknowledging and discarding our ‘damaged goods’—unhelpful thoughts and behaviors—is crucial for personal recovery. The authors of the Big Book guide us to evaluate our lives with the same rigor as a business owner assesses their assets. Join us to delve deeper into this t...

Discover how tackling our deepest resentments and dishonesties can transform every aspect of life. Join us for a candid discussion on overcoming these ‘evil and corroding threads’ that disrupt our personal and professional lives. For full meeting details and more insightful discussions, visit our YouTube page and don’t miss our weekly meetings every Thursday night at 7:00 p.m. AZ time. Join us for...

In our ongoing journey of recovery, addressing sensitive issues like sexuality is crucial. Many find this aspect of personal inventory challenging, often clouded by societal extremes and personal misconceptions. Sensibly handling our sexual conduct isn’t about adhering to norms, but finding a balance that respects our recovery and personal growth. Join us as we delve into these delicate topics, of...

This video shares a deeply moving personal story of struggle, faith, and transformation. Raised in a Baptist home, the narrator diverged from his upbringing, leading to years of addiction and legal troubles. Facing an 18-year sentence, he reached a pivotal moment of complete surrender while in solitary confinement. Overwhelmed by doubts and negative self-talk, he turned fully to his faith, pleadin...

Discover the critical role of spiritual wellness in recovery in this enlightening video. While many believe that ceasing substance use and adopting healthy behaviors like gym routines are sufficient for recovery, the journey is fundamentally spiritual. We explore how aligning our spiritual life sets the stage for overall healing and stability. This approach is not just about stopping harmful habit...

In this insightful video, we address the complex topic of sexual conduct and the controversies surrounding it as discussed in the 12 Steps. Emphasizing a stance of neutrality, we explore the idea that managing sexual issues is less about judging right amounts or kinds but understanding the human aspect behind these challenges. The focus is on fostering healthy relationships and seeing beyond socie...

In our latest exploration of personal transformation through the 12 Steps, discover the power of silence and self-reflection. Learn how staying quiet can sometimes be the most profound response, especially when facing past grievances or misunderstandings. This video delves into the importance of focusing on our own mistakes instead of dwelling on the wrongs done by others, highlighting a key step...

In this insightful session, we tackle the challenge of ego and its impact on personal and spiritual growth within the recovery process. Ego can manifest as stubbornness, sensitivity, and unreasoning prejudice, often becoming a significant barrier to embracing new ideas and perspectives, especially spiritual ones. We discuss how maintaining an open mind and overcoming these biases are crucial steps...

In this enlightening session, we explore the profound impact of faith on stability, happiness, and purpose in life, particularly within the context of recovery. Whether you’ve had challenging experiences with organized religion or recovery groups, this lesson encourages an open reconsideration of what faith can offer. We examine how people who embrace faith often exhibit a clearer understanding of...

Discover the transformative power of prayer in coping with resentment and anger in our latest video. Learn about the simple yet profound prayer, “God save me from being angry. Thy will be done,” which helps us foster forgiveness and support for those who have offended us. This approach is not just about avoiding anger; it’s about actively seeking to be helpful and compassionate, empowered by a hig...

The journey of recovery often involves seeking advice, but how do we choose whose guidance to follow? This video explores the tendency to “opinion shop” – a term used when one seeks multiple opinions to confirm their desired outcome. It emphasizes the importance of seeking divine guidance over merely human opinions, suggesting that while discussing issues with others is useful, ultimate reliance s...

Embracing faith, especially in unseen forces like a higher power, demands courage—a theme deeply woven into recovery narratives. Skeptics often question how one can trust something invisible and intangible. This video delves into the concept that faith itself is not just belief but an act of courage that has historically empowered individuals. By trusting in a higher power, we’re not merely waitin...

Join us as we explore the profound impact of Step 3 in the Alcoholics Anonymous program, where faith and surrender to a higher power become central to our recovery journey. In this segment, we delve into the concept of foreshadowing used by the authors of the Big Book to highlight the crucial role of faith. We share inspirational stories from those who have experienced ‘thunderbolt moments’—powerf...

In recovery, recognizing our shared spiritual sickness opens the door to profound empathy. Often, we encounter others who act out from places of fear, guilt, or resentment, mirroring the emotions that once governed our own lives. By acknowledging that we, too, have struggled with these same feelings, we can extend the compassion we would offer a friend battling a visible illness. This video explor...

In the journey of recovery, embracing the concept of ‘Be Still and Know’ can be transformative. This approach teaches us that we don’t need to actively fight against our fears; instead, we can grow beyond them through stillness and prayer. By recognizing our fears and surrendering them through prayer, we set the stage for profound personal growth. This process isn’t about doing more but about allo...

n recovery, nothing is more crucial than thoroughness and honesty. These virtues are indispensable because they allow us to confront and understand our past behaviors—how selfishness, dishonesty, resentment, and fear shaped our actions and choices. By acknowledging these traits, we lay the groundwork for transformation, aiming to discover not just what our lives were like, but who we were at our c...

Struggling with faith and the concept of a higher power is a common hurdle in recovery, particularly in Step 2 of Alcoholics Anonymous. This video shares a powerful personal story of overcoming skepticism and finding a unique path to spiritual awakening. Hear how a simple, heartfelt prayer in a moment of solitude marked the beginning of a profound transformation. Despite previous conflicting exper...

Addressing deep-seated resentments requires us to recognize not just the personal grievances but also systemic and principle-based issues that have shaped our reactions from a young age. By setting down a grudge list, we categorize how our self-esteem, security, ambitions, and relationships have been compromised or threatened. This process involves an honest inventory of not only who hurt us but h...

In the journey of recovery, confronting our own flaws—selfishness, dishonesty, fearfulness—is crucial. This process challenges us to look beyond the actions of others and focus inward, questioning where we have allowed these negative traits to influence our behaviors. It’s about personal accountability, not just recognizing our faults but actively seeking to understand and rectify them. This step...