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In this episode, we discuss adapting to your surroundings, changes and the times, and how it impacts your singlehood, relationships & dating. Should you adapt to the world, or the world to you? How can you adapt, while still being true to yourself? How does prejudice impact the process of adapting? Listen on to find out and for so much more. Do you struggle to adapt to change? Are you losing s...

DISCLAIMER: in this episode we discuss abortion. In this episode, we discuss conflicts in relationships and going through breakups. We dive into our own breakup experiences & relationship conflicts, what we learned from them & how they impacted us and our mindsets towards dating, love & singlehood. What & how can you learn from the WRONG relationship for you? What are the best ways...

In this episode, we discuss first dates, the apps & how the dating culture changed. We dive into more of our own first-date experiences, what we learned from them & how they impacted us and our mindsets towards dating. How can you be more efficient in a world of convenience and laziness? What are the impacts of dating apps and how can you stand out? What are good rules to have for your fir...

In this episode, we talk about going on dates and first impressions. We dive into how we met our current partners, our first dates with them, and what we learned from them. Should you stress over making a good impression on a first date? Are you supposed to feel sparks and fireworks on a first date? Does your partner need to get along with your partner? How much should you 'move heaven & earth...

In this episode, we discuss TIFU posts about dating & relationships - along with some experiences and stories from our own dates & relationships. How should you ask someone out? What question should you ask them to get them to go out with you? How should you react to miscommunications in dating? How tolerant should you be with someone being late? Are they just wasting your time? Listen on...

In this episode, we discuss the outside influence on love, relationships & dating, and how they impact us and our singlehood. We dive into how influencers, TV programs & culture impact our status & relationships - and how they show us only what they want us to see, and not the whole picture. Is there a benefit to sharing your life online? Can it help others? How do programs & reali...

In this episode, we discuss AITA posts about being single and dating such as: staying in the wrong relationship vs. giving someone a chance. Is it okay to as someone why they're single & what is an 'appropriate' response? Should you stay in a relationship with a good person, if you're not feeling it? Should you let your friends influence your decisions and who you date? Does en...

In this episode, we discuss the importance of family in a relationship, and their role in it. We dive into the different dynamics in family relations and their impact on romantic relationships. We also discuss the impact of today's culture on the dating world and keeping up appearances. Should family be a 'big deal' in a relationship? Should you end a relationship if you don't get...

In this episode, we discuss with Marty Ortiz; a confidence coach for young women in their 20's. We dive into the importance of inner work, asking for help, navigating relationships & so much more. How would you talk to your child self? How do you talk to yourself now? What does it mean to "figure it out"? And how should you do it? How to effectively stand up for yourself? What do...

In this episode, we reacted live to the Love is Blind season 6 reunion; diving into the Jeremey-Laura-Sarah dramatic love triangle, the Trevor scandal, Clay & AD will they or won't they situation, and so much more. To watch the full live, check out the replay on IG , or watch the edited version (in 6 parts) on YouTube . Let us know in the comments your thoughts on the 6th season of Love is...

In this episode, we talk about Love is Blind season 6 (episode 12); reacting to Jimmy & Chelsea's break up, the weddings of the two couples left, and their responses. Did Chelsea push Jimmy away? Was Clay being mature or unfair towards AD? In what ways can you learn from your parents' mistakes? How is complaining harming you and your life? Listen on to find out and for so much more. Let us kno...

In this episode, we talk about Love is Blind season 6 (episodes 10-11); who still has a lot of work to do, how the cameras impact their behaviour and how the previous seasons impact their actions & words. Who's responsible for their actions in their pods and their relationships? Are Jimmy & Chelsea just stuck in a loop? Was Sarah wrong for sending a message to Jeremey? Will Clay be abl...

In this episode, we talk about Love is Blind season 6 (episodes 7-9); clinginess, setting unrealistic standards for yourself, constructive criticism, lying & cheating, etc. Were people too hard on Chelsea? Was she unfair in her argument with Jimmy? Did they choose the wrong person? Is it okay to meet up with your ex? Can you get over cheating and lying in your relationship? Listen on to find o...

In this episode, we talk about Love is Blind season 6 (episodes 1-6); red flags & drama in dating, setting expectations and break-up reactions. If they say they're not there for clout, does it mean it's true? How soon should you tell someone you have a child? Should you show grace during a break-up, or 'let them have it'? How and should you describe yourself when dating? Listen...

In this episode, we talk about Valentine's Day, its importance and the different approaches to it. We dive into our own thoughts on Valentine's Day, how we do & don't celebrate it, and how you can do so as well. Is Valentine's Day a social issue? Is there a wrong or right way to celebrate this day? Can you do so, even when you don't have love? Does celebrating on Valentine&...

In this episode, we discuss with Meagan Culberson, creator & founder of Single Girl Club; an online platform that empowers single women. We dive into the importance of self-love and developing a self-relationship. How does your self-worth impact the relationships in your life, including your self-relationship? Should you fill up your own cup first? How should you do so? What should your single...

In this episode, we discuss reasons to break up & end a relationship. We dive into our own experiences in past relationships & breakups, what we learned from them and how we changed in our future relationships. How long do you need to date for it to count as a relationship/breakup? Should you let others impact your decisions in your relationship/breakup? What are some good reasons to break...

In this episode, we discuss first dates, the apps & dating culture. We dive into our own first-date experiences, what we learned from them & how they impacted us and our mindsets towards dating. What is considered ghosting? Should you match your effort to the effort you get? Should you get your hopes up in the first few dates? How much should you communicate in the time before your first d...

In this episode, we discuss the first 3 episodes of Love Island UK: all-stars. We dive into our first impressions of the participants, whether they're there for love or clout, and whether they've changed at all since they participated in their original seasons. Listen on to find out our thoughts on this season Let us know in the comments your thoughts on this season of all-stars of Love Is...

In this episode, we discuss the most asked questions on Google about single life & love, such as: How to find love in your 40's (or 30's)? What are some good relationship rules? How do I accept that I am single? How to get someone to love you? Does age matter in trying to find love? Is it important to establish rules in dating & relationships? How can you have 'productive argum...

In this episode, we discuss the differences between men and women in dating, relationships & love - the struggles, mistakes and stigmas. The top misconceptions in dating & singlehood, coping with FOMO & doing your own thing. Who should make the first move? Who should pay on dates? Why do we care so much about people who don't matter's irrelevant opinions? How do you cope with t...

In this episode, we discuss stigmas & misconceptions in dating & relationships, the different roles of men and women in dating, and how you can take advantage of your singlehood. Do men need women, more than women need men in relationships? Are you happy with your situation and/or your status? How can you put yourself in a better vantage point to meet someone who's right for you? Liste...

In this episode, we talk about how to spend the holidays when you're single and/or alone, and how to shift your mindset towards being alone for the holidays, and seeing it in a more positive light - focusing on the benefits of being single during the holidays. How do you cope with being single for the holidays? What should you do if you're alone? Should you go on dates during the holiday s...

In this episode, we talk about the impact of 'wokeism' on your relationships, love & dating life, and how it's holding you back. Do you blame others & victimise yourself, or do you take responsibility & reflect on your own actions? How can you have productive arguments in your relationships? Do you believe you can be friends with your ex? Listen on to find out and for so mu...

In this episode, we talk about the 4th season of Love is Blind, and how important the physical aspect is in finding love, is love really blind? What makes a romantic relationship different from a friendship? Should we expect things to be perfect and fall into place in the right relationship? Why do so many people fail in love? How to cope with "baggage" in relationships? Listen on to fin...