Podfessions 🎙

Imagine your father ordering sex-test-kits in your name to the house, in order to find out whether he gave your mother some health altering remnants. "Daddy is out here catching cruise and seeking happiness, while also lying in my name to my mother? Now Mummy is giving me grief, thinking that I am out here philandering while also impeding my health. DAMN!" 📢 My dad gave my mother Chlamydia 📢 Nat...

Have you ever taken time to sit back and reflect on your life and most certainly on your family? Have you noticed certain negative and unwanted occurrences? You just beg to wonder, am I falling victim to generational curses or even generational patterns? It's high time we are aware of these things. If possible we need to try our level best to circumvent those traumatic experiences. But what if...

How do you tackle the aspect of arguing with your partner infront of your children? Should children witness their parents arguments or is it better to shelter them from those instances? "Seeing my parents figh caused me great emotional distress every now and then." One of our co-host mentioned. Hence the reason the would rather not subjugate their kids to those uncomfortable experiences....

Faith versus logic: Do we have to logically understand religion or is our respective faith enough? Religion is something that guides believers, but sometimes certain passages, certain rules, certain commandments simply don't make sense and are in stark contrast to the daily doings of devout believers. How can you have free will and yet you must follows the rules? God versus science: Some scien...

How do you as a man know that you are fully straight without ever exploring gaydom? "I have watched homosexual adult content for interest sakes. Yet I have never allowed myself to succumb to the emotions. One could say that I hinder myself from experiencing a greater pleasure. Hence why I question myself:" Am I truly straight?" 📢 Venturing into homosexuality 📢 Sizing each other ou...

Have you noticed that the definition of love and it's requirements changes with the respective current society. Love used to simply be taking care of responsibilities. Nowadays the requirements have been broadened, the check lists are longer, even the icks have gotten out of hand. Buy me this, fly me out, pay for this, make more time for me etc.! A new trend is also to question monogamy. How n...

I thought you were the one, but upon seeing your friends I have to admit that you are the manifestation of my wrongful decision. How is it that you aren't the main character within your friendship group? How will I navigate those stormy waters now? It's not that I just want to up and leave. I would appreciate to at least sample your friends if you don't mind? What do you do once you are chilling w...

In the current society where there are so many career options to chose from. You sometimes feel overwhelmed in finding the adequate path or even stepping stone. How do you get into a field that is right for you? Should you listen to your parents, chase personal fulfillment or hunt for the biggest and baddest bag? Join us with our current guest by the name of Kayode Akinyemi the actor extra ordinai...

AND MAKE SURE TO WASH YOUR ASS!!!!! Smelling nice starts in the shower, at your hygiene to be precise. If you don't wash yourself properly there is barely any perfume, that can cover your stench. Michelle, a perfume connoisseur and well versed make-up-artist educated us on the importance of hygiene to layering your perfumes. Also make sure that your natural scent your body O"dior" is pleasant. Wha...

In this episode we are accompanied by one of Vienna's finest event host Jacklyn. Founder of "Soundgasm - Events", which is hosted in prime Viennese clubs. She took us on a trip on why she embarked on this stressful but yet fulfilling journey. How some people in the public wrongfully think that she's the help, rather than the proprietor of the business. She made it her mission to let the naysayers...

Talo bad? MOHBAD ni... ... Rest in peace to a young artist who was just at the very beginning of his career. His life unfortunately and unfairly concluded prematurely. Upon seeing disturbing footages starting from feuds with his former music label, him being bullied till his demise. The question arises on who is to be blamed for Imole's untimely departure? He asked for help, he screamed, he shoute...

How much info and details do our parents need in order to give us advice for us to maneuver through a stumbling block? Some say, if your parents foster and create opportunities of openness, then you can always seek advice. Some are of the sentiment that parents and children aren't friends. Hence why there should always be a certain level of boundaries. What's your take on this matter? Is there a c...

After a short podbreak, we are not back, but rather resuming where we left off. This episode is all about music, from dissecting music to the current hot topic, does Afrobeat lack substance? What is amapiano? Who is Ama and where's the piano? Amapiano is electronic music with African essence. So does that mean, that "Amapiano" falls under guise of Afrobeats? Think about it! Afrobeats...

"Africans are institutionalised beggars." What a strong statement, isn't it? Sometimes Africans exaggerate when it comes to communal aid, not only do they ask for exuberant things, but they also inject themselves into your life without permission. The infamous:"My flight is leaving in the morning you will take me to the airport right!?" Is that an ask, command or a threat? What about fundraisers f...

Your mum takes you to one of her friend's house, but it comes with rules & regulations which you must adhere to. _"When we are at Auntie's house you cant eat nor drink!"_ Why? Is your "faux"-friend trying to poison me? If so, why would you put me in harms ways? In this episode we discussed all things parenting, parenting styles and our own individual dealings with our care takers. We bonded on agg...

"My parents didn't allow me to watch KIM POSSIBLE, because nothing is impossible with God." And don't make me start with Harry Potter or even Ben 10! Witchcraft and monsters, are you mad? Those are the tools of the devil. Superstition and fear were a big part of our upbringing. To some extent it kept us protected, but on another hand it hindered us from enjoying and having fun. Let's not lie to ou...

Afrobeats to the world! A sound which can't be replicated, duplicated, fabricated and immitated is currently stepping on necks on a global scale. A music genre, which is more than just sounds. Afrobeats to the world is a lifestyle, a religion a whole vibe. Since it's a commodity which homeland African artists are spearheading, you seem to wonder who is benefitting from this "good"? The biggest eve...

As a virgin, how far are you willing to go? Can we tongue wrestle? Can you massage my tensioned "Corpus Christi"? Will I at least get the chance to explore your body like Dora? In this current era of bad b*tchism, were finding a mate has become highly difficult. Could you imagine yourself partaking in an arranged marriage? If so, who would you give the reigns to handle the task, your parents or yo...

Two fathers narrate from their own personal view on how the birthing experience occured. From seeing the activation of life take place and the tears of joy that followed right after. Apart from those instagramable moments, how does the day-to-day look like in a young family? Is it all roses and sunshine? Where are their partners falling short and hiding under the umbrella of "I am a mother I ain't...

"I told a guy that I am on my period. The first thing he did was to squint his face in disgust." Well Mr., I am not dirty, it's normal and I am feeling all sorts of emotions currently. I wann laugh, cry, be hugged and also fight. Should society make the general public more aware of a woman's cycle? What about making sanitary products free for women or even paying women more to easily afford those...

Negotiation is key and part of any career advancement. Awkward moments, uneasiness, nerve wrecking and somewhat highly stressful are just the emotions you have to deal with while negotiating. So it's best to get comfortable being uncomfortable. Otherwise you be licking the end of a dirt infested broomstick while your colleagues and mates are advancing. Negotiation in it's early stages should have...

"Social Media" the good, the bad, the uglier and the trenches. A big part of our lives is now on the digital sphere. We share, we converse, we like and sometimes lie to our peers. Have you ever put on a new attire and you couldn't take a decent picture to save your life, even so to terrorise your followers on the gram? All these things and more influence us consciously and also subconsciously. Soc...

"You have to give me sexual after care and emotionally safe sex." No kink shaming, over here! What are your sexual green flags? Have you ever thought about it? Do you communicate them and make sure they are met? One in the pinky and two in the stinky. Ooooohh yeah baby. Tune as we discuss our personal bedroom, sometimes even outdoor/backdoor activities. In the second half of the pod, we shared our...

Traveling as much fun as it is, is a hassle. From figuring out the destination, to travel itineraries, transportation, accomodation, budget and dead boosts airlines (i.e Air Egypt 🤢) We love to terrorise our friends on social media of the great life we are enjoying while on holiday. Little do they know, we are sleeping on a bunk bed in a hostel located in the ghetto with 6 other strangers. This l...

A breath of fresh air. A nice mimosa at brunch while the warm sun rays caresses your skin. That's what best describes this week's episode, spearheaded by our amazing, delectable and crazy hosts Paula and Montana. This time around they said "no boys allowed", we the women will run this thing by ourselves. So they did. Be prepared to indulge in loudness, high energy, screeching, conspiracy theories...