Play Therapy Podcast: A Master-Class in Child-Centered Play Therapy

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I address a significant question from Tammy in rural British Columbia and I received a similar question from listener Katarina. Both inquire about how to respond when children express love or seek hugs during therapy sessions. Exploring this, I highlight the therapist's personality and comfort with touch, stressing the importance of considering alternat...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, we begin the final category of themes—exploration and mastery. It's been incredible to witness your enthusiasm for understanding and applying these themes in your work with children and families. Today, we delve into the exploratory theme, observing how children investigate toys in the playroom, asking questions, and exploring the unknown. This explorat...

In this episode, I answered questions raised by two listeners, Meredith and Katarina, about the role of cleaning up toys at the end of a play therapy session. Both wondered about the child-centered approach regarding this aspect. I highlighted my approach, established from the very first session, that it's the child's job to play and mine to tidy up. I emphasized that the child isn't expected to c...

In this episode, we delve into the fifth theme within the safety play category: Escape Play. This particular theme marks a shift from the previous ones – containing, protection, danger, and rescue. Here, the focus is on a character, often the child themselves, managing to escape a hazardous situation without external rescue. I talk through some implications and potential meanings behind this form...

In this episode, I address a crucial question from Bethany in Mississippi about how to handle corporal punishment in her community where it's still prevalent. Although it's not directly linked to the playroom, it involves supporting parents—a critical aspect of our role as child-centered play therapists. I emphasize the significance of not solely focusing on the child but also engaging and support...

In this week's episode, I delved into rescue play, which happens to be the fourth of the five safety play themes. Rescue play is often intertwined with the danger theme, providing a powerful means for children to address and resolve negative scenarios. When a child engages in rescue play, it's a significant indicator of healing and growth. By taking on the role of the problem solver, they rewrite...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I discuss a question by Emma in Georgia about managing messy play in therapy sessions. Emma describes a child who engages in a flurry of activities, making a mess and moving rapidly from one thing to another, leaving play unattended. First, it's crucial to understand that this behavior often mirrors a child's internal state. Frantic and chaotic play ref...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, we explore the concept of danger as a safety play theme in the playroom. So we will dive into the nuances of this theme, clarifying that despite its name, danger play falls under the safety category. I talk about how children manifest danger play, whether through dangerous characters, fantastical figures, risky locations, dangerous animals, or character...

Dr. Garry Landreth doesn't do "interviews" anymore, but I had the opportunity to speak with him on the phone for a whole hour last month. Of course, the conversation turned to Play Therapy, and all the wonderful history and outlook for the future of our field. I think Dr. Landreth just can't help himself talking about Play Therapy!   I pulled three highlights from my conversation with him and I wa...

In this episode, we're delving into the theme of Protection Play, the second segment within the safety play themes. It's crucial to distinguish Protection Play from Containing Play, ensuring a clear understanding. Protection Play is about safeguarding something or someone from danger, whereas Containing Play focuses on keeping something contained.   In Protection Play, the child might build barrie...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I address a question from Marisol, a newcomer to play therapy, who's working in a community impacted by a traumatic school shooting incident. We delve into understanding trauma in the playroom, emphasizing that the child-centered approach remains consistent even with kids who have experienced trauma. Exploring nuances in handling recent traumatic events...

In this episode, I start into the category of safety play by focusing on the first theme: containing play. I explore the five themes under safety play, emphasizing their focus on ensuring safety for a child or an identified character, often the child's archetype figure in their play. Containing play involves keeping things inside or outside, represented through creating fences, pens, jails, or bou...

In this episode of the podcast, I answer an email from Nell in Maryland. Nell asks what to do when a child wants to leave the play therapy session early. When it rains, it pours... not only have I had a client do this to me this week, several therapists in my training cohort experienced the same scenario, so this is perfect timing to answer this email.   For starters, I outline the reasons behind...

In this episode, we wrap up our exploration of the Control and Safety themes with a focus on 'sorting play.' I share an anecdote from my graduate school experience, illustrating what sorting play entails and its significance in a child's play process. Sorting play involves categorizing toys, whether by size, type, or distinct categories like types of dinosaurs, etc. We explore the purposes behind...

In this episode, I addressed a question from a listener, Kianna in Pennsylvania, who is in an internship and recently inherited a playroom. She's working with three boys whose parents are going through a divorce, and one of the boys has been falling asleep during the sessions. I explained how to handle this situation and the importance of meeting the child where they are, emphasizing that we shoul...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I dive into the theme of mess making play in child-centered play therapy. Mess making play is when a child intentionally creates chaos and disorder within the therapeutic playroom. I explain that this behavior can manifest in various ways, such as pouring water or sand all over the room, throwing toys, or scattering items. I delve into the possible mean...

In this episode, I respond to a question from Kaylee in Georgia regarding how to support parents in child-centered play therapy. It's crucial to prepare parents for the fact that behaviors can initially worsen before improving during therapy. This knowledge helps them stay committed to the process. I recommend teaching parents skills like limit setting and choice-giving to manage challenging behav...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I'm excited to explore the cleaning play theme. As a child-centered play therapist, I've observed various ways children engage in this play, from physically cleaning toys to tidying up the playroom. I break down the different meanings behind cleaning play, connecting it to feelings of anxiety, self-imposed pressure, or the need for control. Cleaning pla...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I address a common concern from our listeners: how to handle children's questions during play sessions while maintaining a child-centered approach. Three listeners share their experiences and questions on this matter. Lily from chilly Minnesota, Moshe from New York, and Rachel from the UK all face the challenge of kids asking numerous questions during p...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, we're diving into the theme of instability. It's a theme that often partners up with others, like good versus bad play or rescue play. Picture this: in a child's play, things are always on the edge of falling or falling apart—instability in action. This theme often appears in imaginative play, like when characters are balancing on the edge of something....

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, we dive into a question raised by three listeners: Nneka from England, Anna from Canada, and Grace from California. They're curious about adjusting child-centered play therapy for tweens and teens, a topic important as kids grow into their teenage years. We talk about finding the right balance between play and more serious talk. I share why it's helpful...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I explore the world of bridge building play, a theme within the broader category of control and safety. Bridge building play isn't just about literal bridges; it includes structures children create to connect various elements in their play. I uncover the meanings behind this type of play, revealing how it symbolizes hope, connections between life events...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I delve into a topic of the power of tone of voice in play therapy. A listener from Maryland named Batsheva posed an excellent question about how our tone can profoundly impact a therapy session. I discuss the significance of aligning our tone with a child's emotions, ensuring our tone reflects their feelings accurately. Additionally, I emphasize the im...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I delve into a significant theme: self fixing in the context of play therapy. We've explored fixing and failure to fix before, but self fixing presents a unique perspective. It's when a child perceives something broken within themselves and takes it upon themselves to fix it, showcasing a profound level of vulnerability. This theme can arise when a chil...

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I respond to a thoughtful question from Julia in California. Julia's concern revolves around children's progress not aligning with the standard timeline or phases seen in therapy. She specifically asks about children not moving into the "work phase" or not displaying aggressive themes in child-centered play therapy. I address the importance of articulat...