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Picking fights , procrastinating , ghosting good things , Lets talk about it...

What drives insecurities and jealousy? What makes you feel like others have it better than you or turns you into being a hater? Lets chop it up

Stop speaking ill of yourself even in the sense of a joke . Our tongue carries so much power over our life .

Never stop making time to pour into you. What changes can you make physically , mentally , spiritually to your betterment today ? For 2025 make you, your next and best project.

Be loud about you. Be loud about your goals Walk into rooms like you know you got this !

This is a very personal episode and topic that I touched on today. Very often we get so caught up in accomplishing the next goal we forget to enjoy the ride or the process. So today I am super proud and know that I am making Little Chichi so proud. I urge you today to enjoy the process and the period between the you today and accomplishing you goal.

As we navigate our early and late 20's we lose friends and we gain friends. However one thing that we do need to lose is friends that secretly donot like us. So ask yourself is that person your friend or your foe?

Please donot allow people's demons or troubles to overtake you and become your own .

Let's get rid of the people pleasing and doing everything just because we do not want to be the odd one out. It's alright to say NO and you do not owe anyone that explanation . You do you link https://www.googleadservices.com/pagead/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChsSEwi-vr7KjaaMAxWFmYMHHZSAMakYACICCAEQDxoCZWY&co=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwqIm_BhDnARIsAKBYcmsPiOD0z3arkfuq5I6XBoFLzRP-j0TpLg_E4MD86FTJv6nfB_YoWaoaAq...

Please binge watch that series and eat that comfort food if you need to today. Unlearn the always on grind mode culture and spend time making sure you are your best self today .

Dedicated to Angela Maria

Siri , play " Love yours by J. Cole" When you look in the mirror make sure you are proud of you and know that you are truly your own competition.

Showing up as your best self everyday is the greatest thing we can do. However showing up over and over in a place that is no longer serving you is not what you need to be doing . If the table no longer serves you its okay to get up and leave, better is probably around the corner.

Oversharing has got to be one of the most detrimental things to our well being . Learn to only share things after they are done . Is lying okay ? No . However people cannot ruin or be envious of what they don't know.

Caring what people think about us should be the last thing on our minds. If your presence makes someone squirm , I advise you to do whatever it is some more . Be so confident in you that it makes insecure people uncomfortable

FOMO? Keeping up with God knows who. Focus on you!

 Difference of a friend/ acquaintance A friend is someone with whom we have a deep emotional bond, trust, and loyalty. They provide us with support, share common interests and activities, and play a significant role in our lives. On the other hand, an acquaintance is someone we know casually, with limited interaction and shared experiences.

Validation : Recognition or affirmation that a person or their feelings or opinions are valid or worthwhile.

In a world where everyone wants to fit in and follow the norm. Please find you .Find what makes you , you . Dress like you want , wear your hair like you want and most importantly do that thing you want to do regardless of what everyone thinks.

Is it important for us to be mindful of what we are thinking or attaching ourselves to? Is it okay to adapt just for the sake of fitting in ? Chitchat with your girl about it

Who cares how many likes or supporters you get . Do it anyway!