Personally, I Wouldn't
Personally, I Wouldn't
Personally, I Wouldn’t is THE self-help podcast for your quarter-life crisis. Hosted by your favorite 20-something girl-gay duo, Molly and Ethan address Gen Z’s hottest topics. The two knew that their daily convos about life, love, and everything in between were gold and realized it would be a travesty not to let the world listen in. While Molly approaches each episode from a therapist's perspective, Ethan offers us all some much-needed comic relief. From body image to Tinder icks, trauma bonds to IBS, and even gay dads, this pod covers it all. Welcome to Personally, I Wouldn’t.
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Sep 15, 2025
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Episodes
How to get over your ex 07.10.2024 48:35
Molly and Ethan may not know everything, but getting over an ex is something they are VERY familiar with because they have several. If you are having trouble cutting ties and just can't seem to let go of that one person, then today's episode is perfect for you. Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't!
Diet culture 30.09.2024 42:44
This week Ethan and Molly are talking about the best way to be content in your body, as well as how to escape the toxic cycles of diet culture. Tune in as the two share their own experiences with dieting and their tips and tricks to making sure you feel and look amazing ✨
Aging is not for the weak 23.09.2024 34:04
In this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan discuss aging and the pitfalls of getting older. If there is one thing they want fellow 20-somethings to know, it's that aging is NOT for the weak. However, the two also give tips for how to counteract these downsides, anti-aging for the soul (if you will). Be sure to give this one a listen!
Block your situationship 16.09.2024 35:18
We’ve all fallen victim to the non-committal and undefined relationship known as a situationship. In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan break down their own experiences with dating in the gray area and how to know if you’re on the road to a relationship or if you’re better off taking the nearest exit. The two also share updates on their own dating lives and Molly’s experience as the the anta...
Travel tips, but mostly tricks 09.09.2024 45:36
We're back!!!! After three weeks on hiatus, your two favorite travel and romance guru's are back to regale you with stories of adventures in Italy and some tips to take with you into your next vacation. From frightening one night stands, to surviving lactose tolerance in a land ruled by dairy, these two know it all. Don't miss Molly's bar brawl with an Italian man and Ethan's b...
Things our exes did and we still stayed 12.08.2024 21:58
In this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan discuss things their exes did and they still stayed. From commenting on diaper jeans to affair accusations, there's a lot. Don't miss this week's episode!
What is true love 05.08.2024 48:32
L, is for the lonely feels at night, O, is for the ozempic we need, V, is very, very emotionally unstable, E is for endless yapping. Yes, its true, love is in the air... for everyone but Ethan and Molly. In this weeks episode the two discuss what it means to find true love and the struggle of moving on from heartache. Then they break down the difference between true love, toxic love and infatuatio...
Why you should offend more people 29.07.2024 47:30
As Ms. Sabrina Carpenter once said, "My give a fucks are on vacation!" In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan discuss why you should consider offending more people and stop caring what others think. Ethan details his love of the word "No," while Molly describes how brutal honesty can lead to connection. Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't!
Stop obsessing 21.07.2024 38:31
Ethan and Molly are back and fighting for their lives as usual. This week, the two discuss the dangers of obsessive thinking and advocate for action over obsession. Molly describes the Quantum Zeno effect, while Ethan reminds listeners of the power of manifestation. So listen up if you're ready to stop obsessing and start living.
Crush culture 15.07.2024 38:47
Hey upper east siders! Molly and Ethan are BACK with a new episode for you this week on Personally, I Wouldn't. In today's episode, the two cover the highs and lows of having a crush. Molly discusses the pros of having multiple crushes, while Ethan breaks down the best ways to know if your crush is interested. So, get out your notebook and JOT THIS DOWN!
Let that shit goooooooo 30.06.2024 38:35
In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan offer their own take on the 5 stages of grief, how to get over an ex, detachment vs. acceptance, and the art of letting go. Whether it is the loss of a loved one, a relationship, a job, a lifestyle, or a place you considered home, this episode will help you look forward and let go of all that you're still holding on to. Don't miss this week's...
Is tradition back in Vogue? 24.06.2024 46:04
In this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan discuss the idea that traditional values might be back in style. With the recent rise of sobriety, "celibacy eras," and masculine/feminine energies, it feels as though tradition is making a come back in 2024. Here, the two decipher whether this is just another trend or something worth considering. Is tradition back...
Know your boundaries 17.06.2024 39:15
In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan describe the difference between porous and rigid boundaries, and the subcategories within each. What is important to note here, is that one person can have different types of boundaries with different people in their life. This is not a "one-size-fits-all" situation. If you're interested in learning more about the types of boundaries you le...
Are you a codependent? 10.06.2024 36:35
In this week's episode, Personally, I Wouldn't hosts Molly and Ethan discuss codependency, "doomsday dating," addiction, and the importance of putting yourself out there. If you think you might be a codependent, seek help and then send this to the person you're codependent with. Hope this helps! Codependents Anonymous: https://coda.org/ National Suicide Hotline: 988
Things we would never do again 03.06.2024 36:20
In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan review the things they would absolutely never do again. From high-low skirts to falling in love with a straight man, let us just say, they have many. Let's get into it.
Molly teaches Ethan CBT 27.05.2024 47:25
Underlying beliefs determine our everyday behaviors. For example, if you believe you need to be perfect, then you'll be disappointed if you are anything but. This is what Albert Ellis called "musterbation," living according to "musts" and "shoulds." In this week's episode, Molly teaches Ethan about cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which focuses on identifyi...
Do soulmates exist? 20.05.2024 37:42
We've all wondered it at some point in time, the age old question, "Do soulmates exist?" In today's episode, Molly and Ethan give their definition of what a soulmate is and review three common perspectives on the idea, as stated in Alexandra Solomon's book, Loving Bravely. Moreover, the two discuss whether soulmates are found or made, who qualifies as a soulmate, and whether...
The Triangle of Depression 13.05.2024 34:17
In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan discuss the dangers of staying in your comfort zone and how to escape the "window of tolerance." Whether it’s a job you’re ready to move on from, a relationship that’s reached the end of the road, or you are simply ready for a fresh start, here are some tips to moving on gracefully and finding something that truly excites you!
What's your love language? 06.05.2024 31:32
Are love languages a thing of the past? Or are they a timeless idea that helps us understand how to communicate love to one another? In this episode, Molly reveals that she has a new boo and Ethan recounts an interesting conversation he had with an older gentlemen. After which, the two dive into each love language: what they are, some examples, and contemplate if they are real. If you'd like t...
Making friends is hard 29.04.2024 38:56
Sure, making friends in high school and college is a piece of cake. There are sports, clubs, greek life, and sloppy love triangles to help. But what about after that? In your mid to late 20s, finding friends can start feeling like dating. You've outgrown immature relationships and are now meeting new people and asking yourself, "Do they like me?" "Are we compatible?" In thi...
Ace the first date 22.04.2024 51:58
First-date nerves are the worst. Especially when it's with a stranger you met on a dating app... I mean, they could be a serial killer for all you know. Or worse, show up wearing flip-flops *gag.* In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan walk you through how to navigate a first date step-by-step. From creating a hot and enticing dating profile to setting up the second date, they've thou...
Don't be anxious, just be hot 15.04.2024 25:10
In this week's informative episode, Molly and Ethan quickly cover what it's like to be an over thinker and suffer from anxiety. As you may have heard, anxiety is today's most popular accessory, but it comes at a cost. Here, the two reveal how they quiet the buzzing of anxious thoughts with some practical tips and tricks. Most importantly, how to stop being anxious and just be hot.
Green flags to look for 08.04.2024 36:23
We've discussed red flags in detail, but what about green flags? Although it is important to look out for things you hope someone doesn't do, it is also necessary to recognize when they are doing something right. In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan cover what they look for in a man that let's them know that he could be THE ONE. Because yes, it is "not all men." So, le...
Being delulu is the solulu 01.04.2024 39:54
In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan tackle the VERY Gen Z topic of manifestation and being delusional (something they do well). The mind is a powerful thing, which is why it is SO important to take control of your thoughts and use them to get what you want!! From manifesting, to the red string theory, to burning letters on a full moon, this episode has several ideas for you to become your...
Nobody's perfect 25.03.2024 45:12
In today's high-achieving society full of Rory Gilmore and Hermione Granger types, it's hard not to fall victim to perfectionism. In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan cover straight men as bottoms, the root-causes of procrastination, the drama of dating older men, and how to overcome imposter syndrome. If you have ever related to perfectionist, OCD, Type A characters like Monica Gel...
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