Permission Granted with Unyime Oguta

Have you ever felt torn between who you are and who the world expects you to be as a woman? Today’s guest, Mariela De La Mora shares her transformative journey that started with the permission to choose herself despite societal and cultural expectations. Mariela shares how embracing her authentic self—once labeled “too much” for being assertive and outspoken—became her superpower. Through her stor...

Have you ever accepted an opportunity because others said it was "good for you," only to regret it later? In this episode, we explore why walking away from opportunities can sometimes be the best decision you can make for your life. As we wrap up the year, this episode will offer some insights about cultivating self-trust and knowing that saying no doesn’t mean you’re losing—it means you...

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by holiday obligations and expectations this season, you’re not alone. The holiday can bring a sense of pressure and urgency that feels overwhelming, especially if you’re a people pleaser. That’s why, we’re exploring how to thrive through the holiday season in this episode starting with the belief that overwhelm isn’t about how much you have to do but your thoughts ab...

This week, we’re tackling a common challenge faced when you’re working on change in any area of your life – how to stop letting the old version of you take over. Drawing on personal stories, like driving my family to safety during our community evacuation—I highlight how self-trust and courage emerge in the face of the unknown. Here’s what we covered: How the old version of you shows up The power...

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re failing as a mom, come a little closer. The culture teaches us that motherhood should be innate, but like any other skill, it requires learning, practice, and growth.  In this episode, we’re diving deep into the evolution of motherhood and how shifting your perspective can transform your parenting journey. I explore the belief that has helped me thrive as a m...

Motherhood is an opportunity to build a legacy. This is the lesson that I learned from my grandmother, Lovina, whose story inspired this episode. This week, I unpack the journey of redefining motherhood beyond being a good mom, key questions that will help you uncover your unique path as a woman wearing multiple hats, and the power of intentionality and self-trust as a mom. Lovina is no longer on...

Having it all in life requires you to let go of thinking that you’re indispensable. Thinking that you are indispensable leads to placing pressure on yourself to perform and having expectations for others to fulfill your desire to feel needed and wanted. This week’s podcast episode invites you to an opportunity to explore the unconscious ways that this thought may be playing out in your life. Unyim...

What’s the difference between feeling like you’re passively experiencing life and feeling in charge? Stepping into leadership and being the co-creator of the life that you desire. Today’s podcast guest is my long-term private client, Ashley Paige.  Ashley went from a mindset coach to becoming a Virtual Assistant for anti-diet professionals. But her journey wasn’t smooth sailing. In this episode, w...

Entitlement is a common experience when you feel out of control in your life. It will keep you from your next level and make it harder to become the woman you desire to be. And that’s why this episode offers insights into how you can identify entitlement in your life, why it happens, and the simple shift that will help you take charge and create the life that you desire.   Connect with Unyime and...

If you’ve bought into the belief that things have to be bad before seeking a change in your life, then this episode is for you. In this episode, I explain why it makes sense to think that the only time you need to do something about your life is when things are bad, and how it may show up in your life. When we wait for things to be bad, we continue to perpetuate a survival mentality and never real...

If the holiday season tends to feel like a blur, you need a holiday relief plan. Navigating between the expectations of activities, inter-personal relationships, and trying to enjoy the season can feel like a challenge if you fail to set your intention with a plan to follow through. And that’s why this episode dives into 5 foundational questions to ask yourself, so that you create a foundation for...

In this episode, we dive into how better time management rarely has anything to do with time or management. Time management can often feel challenging, and today, we explore three reasons why people struggle with time management and how you, too, can navigate your experience of time with mastery. It’s time to get stuff done without burnout or sacrificing your relationships with the people that mat...

Ever wondered whether there's more to your life than being a mom? This episode is for you. There are conversations that must be experienced to grasp the depth of transformation, and this is one of them. Lenine is a private client and friend that I’ve had the privilege of walking with through going from a woman who felt lost without her children to fully owning her identity outside of motherho...

One thing I learned from my experience of burnout is that I may not always have control over my time but there’s something more powerful than time that I can control – and that is my energy. Time management is not about time itself. It’s about energy management. In this episode, I break down why work-life balance is not the solution to your time management problem. Then I offer 3 simple ways you c...

There’s more to motherhood than it being the pinnacle of your existence as a woman. In this episode, we dive into the power of giving yourself permission to create space for your dreams as a working mom. I share insights that have helped private clients go from feeling lost to starting business and NGOs, reconnecting with themselves, and rediscovering their passions in life. Tune in now and discov...

This episode is for you if you find yourself bound by the “rules” of how you’re supposed to show up in the world. This week, I share reflections about a recent realization that I may not be a true introvert. I reflect on my thoughts, how this plays out in real time, and offer questions to help you if you’ve found yourself living your life defined by a label or title that doesn’t serve you and the...

Leadership is not reserved for the boardroom only! If you desire to thrive as a woman who has it all, this episode will help you understand self-leadership as the key to thriving as a woman, especially if you’re a working mom.  Tune in to understand what self-leadership is, and what you can do starting today to cultivate this skill, so that you too can thrive and live your life with authenticity a...

In this week’s episode, we’re simplifying how to navigate change when it doesn’t make sense. Giving you a sneak peek into my own change journey in this season, I share why your feelings about the change are completely normal. Learn a simple shift that will ensure that you don’t give up when you encounter obstacles. Enjoy! Email info@unyimeoguta.com to know about working with Unyime. Connect with U...

My mom wasn’t at my wedding. And that experience was the catalyst that laid the groundwork for what I’m sharing in this week’s episode. This episode is for you if you’re at the cusp of wanting to “grow up” and stop living in the shadow of a parent or anyone that you hold in high regard. Tune in to understand why this matters and how you can build your confidence to stop seeking permission today. W...

Do you hate making decisions? Get ready to master decisions and overcome indecision and fear in this thought-provoking episode. We’re exploring why making decisions can feel so challenging, especially for women, and how to overcome it. Tune in to learn three common root causes that contribute to stress and overwhelm, and learn simple strategies that will help you go from indecision and fear to con...

This episode will offer insights and reflections to help you avoid burnout as a high achiever. This week, we explore the high achiever’s mindset trap of problem addiction. Unyime shares insights into her journey as a high achiever, and the delicate rhythm between being solution-focused and needing to “fix” things. Connect with Unyime on Instagram @unyime_oguta  or LinkedIn Want to work with Unyime...

This week’s episode presents a case for why comparison is not the thief of joy. Join Unyime as she delves into why comparison matters, simple questions to ask yourself when caught in comparison, and how you can steer yourself towards your desires without making yourself wrong or bad about comparison. Connect with Unyime on Instagram @unyime_oguta https://www.instagram.com/unyime_oguta or LinkedIn...

In this episode, we discuss the transformative mindset for winning in life. The conversation revolves around the importance of facing life’s challenges with intention, strategic thinking, and a winning mindset. Unyime invites you into a deeper understanding of who you are and what you desire as the key drivers for a life where you stop waiting for permission and start creating mind-blowing results...

Every BODY has a story that shapes their body image. In this episode, I, Unyime Oguta, open up about a pivotal moment in my body image journey that changed my daughter’s life as I invite you to explore your own body story. This episode highlights the significance of recognizing your body story, and offers 3 simple ways that you can have a 1% impact on your body image regardless of your body story....

In this episode of Permission Granted, we tackle a timely topic for many working moms: maintaining patience with children during the busy summer months. With kids home from school, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by the demands on your time and energy.  Join me, Unyime Oguta, to explore practical strategies to navigate this challenging season with grace and purpose. If you’re a working mom stri...