Pay Attention

Holly's guest this Wednesday is ✨ Dr. Margaret Arnd-Caddigan ✨ A lifelong explorer of both the seen and the unseen, Margaret bridges the worlds of psychotherapy, spirituality, and the paranormal. With a PhD in social work and a master's in religious studies, she began her career studying the relationship between magic and religion—a curiosity that grew into decades of clinical work helping other...

Welcome to Pay Attention — a podcast guiding you from the chaos of the mind 🌀 to the clarity of the open heart ❤️. (broadcast every Wednesday at 10 am PST / 1 pm EST). We're going BACK TO THE ARCHIVES on this powerful episode of The Pay Attention Podcast.🌿 In this episode, host Holly McNeill welcomes Dr. Don Wood, PhD — author, speaker, and Founder & CEO of the Inspired Performance Institute. Dr...

We're going BACK TO THE ARCHIVES on this powerful episode of The Pay Attention Podcast. Host Holly McNeill sits down with Sara Davison —The Divorce Coach. A multi-award-winning coach, two-time bestselling author, and host of the Heartbreak to Happiness Podcast, Sara is also a global media voice on breakups, divorce, and domestic abuse. Together, Holly and Sara open up about their own divorce journ...

Step into a space where the noise quiets and presence takes center stage. 🎙️ Pay Attention is a weekly podcast (Wednesdays at 10am PST / 1pm EST) hosted by Holly McNeill — an architect turned teacher and spiritual guide who has spent decades weaving together neuroscience 🧠, psychology 📚, Buddhism 🪷, and spirituality 🌌. This is more than a podcast — it's a guide to living with awareness, compas...

What if changing your life was as simple as changing your habits? In this powerful episode, host Holly McNeill sits down with Dr. Tamsin Astor—Chief Habit Scientist, neuroscientist, yoga teacher, and Ayurvedic coach—to explore how Eastern wisdom and Western neuroscience converge to help us take back control of our minds, our behaviors, and ultimately, our lives. Tamsin shares her journey from acad...

What if the key to solving global poverty starts with truly listening? In this powerful episode, Holly McNeill sits down with Gretchen Villegas, a global development executive and "social impact architect," whose journey began as a Peace Corps volunteer in South America and led to decades of transformative work across Africa, Asia, and Latin America. Gretchen shares what it means to build trust, e...

What if your chronic pain isn't just physical — but deeply connected to your thoughts, emotions, and energy field? In this episode of Pay Attention, Holly McNeill sits down with Debora Wayne, founder of the International Chronic Pain Institute® and creator of the revolutionary HighSpeed Healing® method. After a spiritual awakening on her closet floor at 28, Debora began a journey that led her to h...

What if recurring dreams held the key to understanding who we truly are—and what we're here to do? In this follow-up to their first conversation on dream tending, host Holly McNeill invites dream tender and therapist Valerie Johns back for a raw and revealing live dream tending session. If you've ever wondered who Holly really is beyond the mic, this is the episode. It's raw, unpolished, and deepl...

What if your dreams weren't random at all—but meaningful messages from the deepest parts of you? In this two-part episode of Pay Attention, Holly McNeill sits down with dream tender and therapist Valerie Johns for a profound, soul-stirring conversation about how your dreams can support emotional healing, personal clarity, and spiritual growth. Unlike traditional dream interpretation, Valerie's app...

In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill chats with Jay Moon Fields, a leading educator, coach and author. She stops by the show to discuss her Hey Wait framework, which teaches people how to honor their emotional experiences and share them authentically, helping them to break free from the cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, and self-doubt.  

Following last week's conversation about trauma and body-based healing, this episode of Pay Attention moves us into the next essential layer: reclaiming pleasure. Holly sits down with Dr. Laurie Mintz—licensed psychologist, sex educator, and author of Becoming Cliterate—to explore how cultural conditioning, religious messaging, and gender norms have created a world where women's pleasure is minimi...

In this powerful episode of Pay Attention, Holly is joined by Juliette Karaman, mentor, hypnotherapist, and creator of the Touch Base method, to explore how trauma—especially sexual trauma—gets stored in the body and quietly shapes our self-worth, relationships, and sense of safety. Juliette shares her own journey of collapse and awakening, revealing how shame disconnects us from our bodies and ou...

In this intimate follow-up to Part 1, we open the Akashic Records—literally. This episode features Holly McNeill's actual reading with Akashic Records expert Jennifer ALLY Kern, paired with in-depth commentary that unpacks the insights as they unfold. From patterns rooted in Holly's nervous system to the energetic meaning of eye contact and creative purpose, the conversation dives into how the Rec...

I'm excited to share this episode exploring the Akashic Records—an ancient concept that invites us to look at consciousness, memory, and energy through a broader lens. This conversation is part of my ongoing exploration of how science, psychology, and spirituality intersect to deepen our understanding of the mind. Have you ever felt like your life is unfolding from a script you didn't write? The A...

What if you could finally recognize just how powerful you really are? In today's conversation, Holly McNeil sits down with empowerment coach Dana Theus to unpack the deep, often hidden narratives that fuel imposter syndrome—especially for women. From generational beliefs encoded in our very DNA to the brain's surprising loyalty to outdated programming, they explore why self-doubt clings so tightly...

Is self-discovery a destination, or is it something we're constantly rewriting? In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill sits down with Cheyenne Moore—author, producer, and host of the podcast Safe Space with Cheyenne (a full-circle moment, since it was the first show Holly ever guested on!). Cheyenne brings refreshing wisdom to the conversation, speaking candidly about her journey of...

What if you could heal in months what took someone else decades? This episode is for you. In this installment of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill sits down with Barb Varcl Smith—Trauma Therapist, international speaker, podcaster, mentor, and educator—joining from Scotland. Barb specializes in Complex PTSD, PTSD, and the coping mechanisms that support healing. She shares her powerful journey into...

What separates a good leader from a truly great one — especially when the pressure is on? Today's episode has the answers. Holly sits down with Jamie Diglio — high-performance coach, TEDx speaker, Harvard Business School sales coach, author, and CEO — to unpack the mindset and strategy behind peak performance. Jamie shares the origin and impact of her transformational WAR Room and WIN Room framewo...

Do high-stakes situations leave you feeling frozen and overwhelmed? Guest Adhana McCarthy shares powerful mindfulness tools—like yoga and cognitive reframing—to help you regain clarity and confidence. As a scholar, Certified Yoga Therapist, Certified Life Coach, and Army Physician Assistant with 20 years of military service, Adhana has guided military personnel, medical professionals, and entrepre...

Amid the chaos of your daily thoughts, what truly cuts through? One thing—Clarity. In this episode, Holly sits down with Dr. Shahana Alibhai, a TEDx speaker, best-selling author, family physician, and mental health expert. Inspired by Dr. Shahana's powerful 2019 TED Talk, Holly was drawn to her insights on embracing clarity instead of getting lost in life's distractions. Together, they explore the...

Why do we react to trauma the way we do—and more importantly, how can we heal? In this powerful episode, Holly sits down with Dr. Jenny Hughes, a trauma expert, licensed clinical psychologist, and author of The PTSD Recovery Workbook and Triggers to Glimmers: A Vicarious Resilience Journal and Workbook.  Dr. Jenny has dedicated her career to helping trauma survivors, healers, and therapists reclai...

In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly talks with her neighbor and friend, Tiffany Harrington Shah—a therapist and advocate for women, children, and mental health. Tiffany shares her journey from being a stay-at-home mom to building a career as an MFT while raising four daughters. In 2019, her family was rocked by a traumatic event caused by her then-husband. Despite efforts to hold things t...

In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly sits down with Jen Uschold, PT, NBHWC, CPQC—a seasoned physical therapist with over 30 years of experience specializing in pain science, mental fitness, and health coaching. As a National Board-Certified Health and Wellness Coach and a Fellow in Pain Science through Evidence in Motion, Jen brings a wealth of knowledge to the conversation. Together, they...

In this powerful episode of  Pay Attention , host Holly McNeill sits down with award-winning Master Coach and global speaker Alejandra Crisafulli, the visionary behind the 180 Method®. With over 21 years of coaching experience and a track record of transforming thousands of lives, Alejandra shares a profound truth: personal development without a connection to God will leave you endlessly searching...

In this episode of Pay Attention, host Holly McNeill returns to sunny California for an inspiring conversation with Wes Woodson. Holly first met Wes at the APCA Conference in Lincolnshire, Illinois, where they both took the stage as speakers. She was immediately struck by his authenticity, resilience, and unwavering positivity—especially given the challenges he has faced and his age. Join them as...