Pathway to Recovery

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode,  Jonathan L. talks with guest Kaylene, who shares her powerful story of her betrayal trauma recovery journey after 20 years of struggle. They delve into the concept that recovery requires patience and time, illustrating how small, consistent actions over time can rebuild trust and promote healing. Kaylene emphasizes the importance of s...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Tara McCausland speaks to licensed therapist Debra Kaplan about the intricate link between financial infidelity and sexual betrayal, emphasizing the psychological and emotional impact on individuals and families. They explore the importance of a financial therapeutic disclosure, financial literac...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Jonathan L. welcomes guest Lyman D., who shares his powerful journey of commitment to recovery from sex addiction. Highlights include the importance of willingness, the transformative power of connection with a Higher Power, and the significance of taking actionable steps to maintain commitment over time. Lyman also discusses prac...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Dr. Kenneth Adams, a top expert in the field of enmeshment and sex addiction. Dr. Adams explains the concept of enmeshment, its impact on family dynamics, and how it may play a role in the development of  sexual addiction. He discusses the difference between enmeshment and covert incest, shares examples...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, interim host Jonathan L. welcomes Amber, a participant in the SAL 12-step program, to discuss her journey of healing from betrayal trauma and deepening her spiritual connection with the God of her understanding. Amber shares her experiences of overcoming personal barriers to spiritual connection, the importance of lamenting and feeling...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland and therapist Geoff Steurer discuss principles to help youth already caught in the trap of pornography and other problematic sexual behaviors. The episode focuses on providing guidance to parents on creating a supportive environment where children feel safe discussing their struggles. Geoff emphasizes the importanc...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. This episode re-shares a foundational discussion with Dr. Anna Lembke, a leading expert in addiction medicine, on the importance of radical honesty in recovery. Dr. Lembke explains the neuroscience behind addiction, highlighting the roles of dopamine and the brain's pleasure-pain balance. The conversation also delves into the necessity of rigorous...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. The NEW SAL Book is now available for purchase on the website!  Come and get it here! In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, co-host Justin B, has an interesting and meaningful conversation with Steve T., a recovering sex and multidisciplinary addict. They delve into the topic of rigorous honesty, a key piece of the new SAL recovery puzzle...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland talks with Sam Black, author of 'The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It'. They discuss the 5 Myths parents believe about pornography and their child and  the impact of pornography on the developing brain. They also discuss how parents and faith leaders can create s...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, Justin B., a recovering sex addict, speaks with Roxanna Johnson (Roxy), a pioneer of the SA Lifeline Foundation and the SAL 12-step program. We start our journey through the 12 pieces of the SAL Recovery Puzzle beginning with the central piece of a "Willing Heart".  Roxy shares her powerful...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Tara McCausland welcomes Dr. Adam Moore who explains the importance of recognizing and addressing multiple concurrent issues for effective recovery. The episode emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to healing, incorporating aspects like sleep, diet, and exercise along with therapy and 12-s...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Justin and guest Chris S discuss their journeys through the 12-step recovery process, focusing on Step 12. Chris shares his personal experiences of dealing with sex addiction, the emotional challenges, and the importance of vulnerability. He emphasizes how the 12 steps have not only helped him ac...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Tara McCausland talks with Kristin Snowden about getting unstuck when we are feeling paralyzed or overwhelmed by betrayal trauma. Kristen introduces the 'Four Cs'—Choice, Control, Context, and Connection—key concepts that help betrayed partners feel empowered and regain stability. The e...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery Podcast, host Justin B. invites guest Alison T. to explore her journey through the SAL 12-step program, focusing specifically on Step 11. Alison shares her experiences of hitting rock bottom in 2020 due to her husband's sexual addiction, and discusses the pivotal moment of fully committing to her own reco...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith about their personal experience with sexual addiction and betrayal trauma and their journey to now helping others with similar challenges. The discussion delves into common mistakes faith leaders make in addressing sexual addiction and betrayal trauma and emphasizes the impo...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. God, Help Me See My Reflection for This Day In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Justin B. interviews fellow SAL member, Nikita B. They discuss Nikita's journey from being homeless, suicidal, and overwhelmed by addiction to finding freedom and spiritual awakening through the SAL program. The conversation focuses on the 12-step...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland and Dr. Chelom Leavitt discuss the importance of learning about and developing healthy sexuality and how that is impacted by pornography and sexual betrayal. Key points include the necessity of establishing safety in relationships before healthy sexuality can be addressed, self-compassion, understanding sexual perc...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the 'Pathway to Recovery' podcast, host Justin B. is joined by Heather B., who shares her heartfelt experiences in the rooms of SAL 12-step recovery. Together, they delve into Heather's journey through Step Nine of the recovery program. Heather recounts her background, from discovering her husband's addiction to h...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland and Dr. Kevin Skinner  discuss effective communication strategies for couples dealing with sexual betrayal and addiction. Dr. Skinner emphasizes the importance of slowing down conversations and understanding underlying emotions, such as fear and pain, rather than responding defensively. He suggests techniques like...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this Pathway to Recovery episode, Jon I. shares his journey of addiction, hitting rock bottom, and ultimately finding healing through the 12-step process of SAL 12-Step. He discusses the process of working up to and including Step 8, which involves creating a list of people harmed and becoming willing to make amends. Jon describes how the real strug...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland and guest expert Sherie Christensen discuss Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), its diagnostic criteria, and misconceptions around the term 'narcissist' within today's culture. Sherie explains the difference between narcissistic traits and true NPD, how personality disorders impact addiction, an...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the 'Pathway to Recovery Podcast,' hosted by Justin B., the discussion centers on step seven of the 12-step recovery program, featuring Kahi W., a betrayed spouse of a sexual addict. Kahi shares her personal journey of the support she found in SAL 12-step meetings since 2012, and the vital role these meetings play in her he...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Jeanne Vattuone, LCSW, CSAT, and current APSATS president. She explains the evolution of the trauma-informed treatment model and its benefits for the betrayed and the betrayer over the traditional co-addict or co-dependent model. Jeanne also details the APSATS multidimensional partner trauma model phase...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery Podcast, host Justin B. guides listeners through step six of the 12-step recovery program with guest Brady W. Justin shares his experiences as a recovering sex addict and introduces Brady, who discusses his decade-long journey battling addiction to lust and his recent recovery with SAL 12 Step. The episode div...

Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Michelle Mays about the complex and harmful phenomenon of gaslighting. Mays explains the four types of gaslighting—lying, reality manipulation, scapegoating, and coercion—and the impact each has on those who experience betrayal trauma. The discussion delves into the mental health ramifications, the stag...