Parenting Matters Now with Dr. Roger Smith

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith asks an important question: What kind of tools do you use to train your children? The answer might be found in your local community. Youth development organizations—like 4-H, scouting, sports, or community theater—are not just ways to pass the time; they are powerful, practical tools for teaching communication, leadership, and life skills....

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith asks a question we all consider: Could your child be more thoughtful? Thoughtfulness—the practice of prioritizing the needs and feelings of others—is a highly desirable character trait, and fortunately, it is one that parents can actively cultivate. Dr. Roger Smith shares two simple, practical exercises to train your child to think outside...

Most parenting advice is heavily focused on technique—rigid steps designed simply to get your child to do what you want. In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explains why this approach falls short and shares a foundational parenting truth: relationship always trumps technique. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith asks a fundamental question: Are you training your children to make decisions? Decisiveness is not just an innate ability; it is a character trait that must be developed through practice. While it is tempting to make choices for our kids or rescue them when they make a poor one, letting them navigate options and endure natural consequences...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith answers a pivotal question: Does your child need to know logic? The answer is yes, and they will naturally develop it as they transition into their tween and teen years. While young children learn primarily through simple obedience and boundaries, older children develop a renewed cognitive capacity to compare old truths with new information...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith tackles a familiar moment of parental frustration: defaulting to the phrase, "because I told you so." But is there ever an appropriate time to use it? Yes! Dr. Roger Smith explains that during a child's early developmental years, logic is still underdeveloped, and they learn primarily through obedience, rules, and modeling. Often, a young c...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the profound impact of music and why making it a shared family experience is so important. Combining the meticulous wording of poetry with moving rhythms, songs have a unique ability to soothe the soul, offer comfort during difficult times, and create lasting family bonds. Whether you are singing hymns, belting out show tunes, or j...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith asks a vital question: Have you blessed your children lately? A true blessing goes far beyond a quick "bless you" or a cliché phrase—it is about ensuring your children feel deeply adored through specific, intentional words. Through an inspiring story of a father who wrote personalized songs for his eight children, Dr. Roger Smith illustrate...

Habits often get a bad rap, but what if we viewed them as a powerful parenting tool? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explains that children will form habits no matter what—it is up to us whether those habits are good or bad. Instead of complaining about messy rooms or forgotten chores, learn how to proactively train your kids using repetition and "muscle memory." Discover...

In this episode, we explore what happens when our mistakes cause trouble for others. Using a real-life example of scattered trash, we discuss the hidden impacts of our actions and the importance of teaching children how to take responsibility. Learn how to guide your children in repairing damage and thinking ahead without condemnation. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a product...

Join Dr. Roger Smith on Parenting Matters Now as he explores the magical, transformative power of gathering around a fire. Discover how a simple campfire or fireplace can open up communication, inspire storytelling, and foster deep connections with your children.  Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith discusses the essential reasons for teaching children how to swim. Beyond the critical aspect of safety, learning to swim opens up a world of opportunities and can even shape a child's life purpose. Dr. Roger Smith shares practical advice on how to start small, overcome personal fears of water, and utilize the help of friends, relatives, or...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith tackles a highly debated and controversial topic: corporal punishment. Answering the age-old question of what to think about spanking, Dr. Smith frames it as a "language of pain" meant to induce behavioral change—much like a speeding ticket or a late fee does for adults. He explains how to properly view physical discipline as a temporary to...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the hidden role fear plays in our children's objectionable behavior. Instead of immediately correcting the action, Dr. Smith encourages parents to look deeper at the insecurities driving their child's fear of rejection. Learn how maintaining your own emotional stability can help you comfort and guide your child through their anxiet...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith discusses the importance of teaching your children how to do laundry. From matching socks as toddlers to fully washing their own clothes by age 12 or 13, Dr. Roger Smith outlines practical steps to help your kids develop this essential life skill.  Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith explores how parents can nurture gratitude in their children. Using a quote about Piglet from A.A. Milne's Winnie the Pooh, she explains that gratitude is a learned habit. Dr. Roger Smith shares practical exercises for modeling thankfulness in everyday moments, helping children grow their capacity for gratefulness. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has be...

Dr. Roger Smith from Parenting Matters Now explores the truth behind the old saying "like father, like son." While children can certainly grow to be different from their parents, they often unintentionally reproduce their parents' character traits and habits. Dr. Roger Smith challenges parents to evaluate their own character and set personal goals for growth, because improving ourselves is the bes...

In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith shares a chance encounter with a new friend, Kenzie, at an airport gate. What started as a reassigned seat turned into a deep conversation about pursuing hard things, the value of meaningful work, and a shared appreciation for a powerful Teddy Roosevelt quote. Tune in to discover how meeting strangers can enrich your life. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ Thi...

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith introduces his friend Timmy, a shrimping expert. Dr. Smith shares how much he has learned from Timmy about the shrimping industry, from boots and ropes to deep-water trawling, highlighting the unexpected value and wisdom found in everyday friendships. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the true meaning of love in parenting. It's more than just a feeling—it's an action. Dr. Smith discusses how we can correct our children's mistakes in a way that makes them feel protected rather than exposed, helping them truly feel our love. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Join Dr. Rogers-Smith on Parenting Matters Now as he discusses the vital role fathers play in their children's development. Learn practical ways to increase your influence, build self-confidence in your kids, and work as a team in parenting.  Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith discusses "the parental shift"—the crucial transition from controlling your child's life to influencing it. Learn why trying to maintain absolute control during the teenage years leads to frustration, and how building a relationship based on trust and mutual respect can help you successfully navigate this stage. Visit me at: https://rogersm...

Help your child grow their self-confidence by encouraging them to lift others up. Dr. Roger Smith discusses how acts of kindness and serving others can reduce self-focus and build a strong sense of self-worth in children.  Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith explores the delicate balance between parental control and influence as children grow. Learn how to transition from telling to listening, build strong relationships through conversation, and wisely navigate the moments when your children wrestle with new ideas.  Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the difference between simply announcing your children's behavior (like a thermometer) and actively responding to help them grow (like a thermostat). Learn how to take actionable, patient baby steps to improve your family's dynamic without just announcing your dissatisfaction. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a...