Amanda Calfee - Christian Life Coach, Mama of Strong-willed & Neurodivergent Kiddos
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns | Neurodivergent, ADHD, ODD, PDA, Defiant, Build Connection, Emotional Regulation, Dysregulated
Do you feel like you’ve tried everything — consequences, parenting books, well meaning parenting advice, crying out to God — and still feel like you’re failing? Are you walking on eggshells, never knowing what will trigger your child’s next meltdown or shutdown? Have you felt dismissed or judged by church culture when your child didn’t behave the way they “should”?Do you find yourself yelling, shutting down, or spiraling with guilt — praying that tomorrow will be different? I’m so glad you’re here. This podcast will help you regulate your emotions, reconnect with your child, and rebuild your c...
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Amanda Calfee - Christian Life Coach, Mama of Strong-willed & Neurodivergent Kiddos
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Jul 9, 2026
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Episodes
27 | Parenting Through Dysregulation: Why Willpower Alone Won’t Bring Peace 22.01.2026 9:15
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try to stay calm, you still end the day feeling exhausted and defeated? Are you tired of feeling like your strong-willed or neurodivergent child’s behavior determines your peace? Do you catch yourself snapping, shutting down, or overexplaining even when you know what you “...
26 | Finding Peace in the Chaos: What’s Really Going On Beneath the Meltdowns & Dysregulation 15.01.2026 8:59
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, Do you ever feel like you’re walking on eggshells bracing for the next meltdown or moment of defiance? Wonder why you react so quickly, even when you promised yourself you’d stay calm? Feel like no matter how hard you pray or try, peace still feels out of reach? Wish you could understand what’s really happening ins...
25 | Experiencing Post Holiday Defiance and Meltdowns? Here Are 5 Ways to Restore Peace 08.01.2026 8:43
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, Are you seeing more meltdowns or defiant behavior since as winter break wraps up? Does getting your strong-willed or neurodivergent child back into routine feel harder than you expected? Do you feel torn between wanting structure and needing rest for both of you? Are you wondering how to rebuild emotional regulation...
24 | Seeing More Meltdowns & Defiant Behavior? Post-Holiday Encouragement for the Weary Mama 01.01.2026 3:51
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, Are you noticing more meltdowns, defiant moments, or tears since the holidays ended? Does your home feel a little “off” like everyone’s trying to find their rhythm again? Do you ever wonder if you’ve lost the progress you were making with your strong-willed or neurodivergent child? Wish you could believe that noth...
23 | Encouragement for the Holidays: Why Presence Matters More Than Meltdowns 25.12.2025 5:01
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, Do Any of These Sound Like You? Do the holidays leave you feeling emotionally drained instead of peaceful? Does the pressure to “keep everyone happy” make you lose sight of what matters most? Wish you could stay calm when meltdowns happen and actually enjoy your child in the moment? Long for the reminder that your...
22 | 4 Ways to Protect Your Peace When Family Doesn’t Understand Your Neurodivergent Child 18.12.2025 18:14
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, Have you ever walked into a family gathering already bracing for judgment about your child’s behavior? Do you find yourself explaining your parenting decisions again and again only to feel misunderstood or dismissed? Wish you could protect your peace when others gossip, criticize, or just don’t “get” your neurodiver...
21 | 6 Emotional Regulation Tips to Bring More Peace to the Holidays with Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child 11.12.2025 10:03
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, • Do the holidays leave you feeling more exhausted than joyful? • Wish you could stay calm when your strong-willed or neurodivergent child feels overwhelmed by the chaos? • Find yourself trying to keep everyone happy while ignoring what you and your child really need? • Long to protect your peace without disappointin...
20 | For the Mama Rung Out by Life: Emotional Regulation for Hard Days 04.12.2025 13:47
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Have you ever felt judged or misunderstood by someone who doesn’t truly know your heart or your child’s? Do comments from others ever leave you questioning your worth as a mama, even when you know you’re trying your best? Are you carrying emotional weight from people’s opinions, assumptions, or labels that don’t reflect...
19 | Holiday Emotional Regulation: You Don’t Have to Please Everyone to Have Peace 27.11.2025 4:57
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Do any of these sound familiar? Do you feel pressure to make the holidays look “perfect” for everyone else even when you’re running on empty? Have you ever felt torn between keeping the peace and protecting your child’s peace? Do you long to just enjoy the day without walking on eggshells, explaining your parenting, or man...
18 | Navigating Holiday Gatherings with Emotional Regulation: Building Connection and Protecting Your Peace with Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Kids 20.11.2025 12:17
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Do you ever… • Feel torn between keeping family happy and doing what’s best for your strong-willed or neurodivergent child? • Worry about how others will react to your child’s behavior at family gatherings? • Feel that quiet nudge from the Holy Spirit but doubt your strength to follow it when others push back? • Wish you c...
17 | How to Build Connection After Emotional Regulation Takes a Backseat to Meltdowns 13.11.2025 9:49
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Ever replayed a moment after your child’s meltdown and thought, “Why did I do that again?” Do you wish you could respond with peace instead of guilt after losing your cool? Wonder how to rebuild connection when emotions run high for both you and your child? Episode Highlights In this episode, we’re diving into one of the m...
16 | Meltdowns + Emotional Regulation: Becoming the Hero in Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child’s Story 06.11.2025 14:26
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Have you ever found yourself stuck in the same cycle — your child melts down, you react, and afterward you think, “Why did I do that again?” If so, this episode will speak straight to your heart. We’re diving into a powerful concept called the Hero, Victim, and Villain lens and how it can completely change the way you appr...
15 | The #1 Tool for Parenting Beyond Meltdowns with Strong-willed & Neurodivergent Kids: Building Connection Through Emotional Regulation 30.10.2025 15:16
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Do you ever feel like you’re living in constant reaction mode just trying to survive one meltdown, defiant moment, or emotional storm after another? In this episode, we’re diving into The Creation Cycle — the #1 tool that will help you renew your mind, regulate your emotions, and rebuild connection with your strong-willed...
14 | Turning Thoughts and Feelings into Faith-Filled Action: Emotional Regulation for Moms of Strong-Willed & Neurodivergent Kids 23.10.2025 14:58
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, what if your actions could tell you everything you need to know about your thoughts, your feelings, and even your true identity in Messiah? In today’s episode, we’re talking about the choices we make—the ones that keep us stuck and the ones that move us forward—so you can step fully into being the mama the Father cre...
13 | Defiant or Dysregulated? How Processing Emotions Builds Connection and Calm in Parenting 16.10.2025 14:54
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! If you have a child strong-willed or neurodivergent child with ADHD, Autism, ODD, PDA you are in the right place! Mama, have you ever felt like you’re carrying emotional weight that never seems to go away? Like no matter how much you pray or think positive thoughts, it still sits heavy in your chest? In this episode, we’ll...
12 | Feeling Dysregulated? Why Allowing Your Emotions Brings Peace in Parenting 09.10.2025 8:28
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Ever feel like your emotions take over the moment your child melts down? You try to push them away, but they only come back stronger. In this episode part 2 of a 3 part series, Amanda Calfee, Christian life coach and creator of The Anchored Mama Approach, teaches you how to allow emotions without being ruled by them so you...
11 | 3 Emotional Regulation Secrets Every Mom Needs for Parenting Strong-Willed and Neurodivergent Kids 02.10.2025 8:43
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Does it ever feel like your child’s meltdowns hijack your whole mood? One moment you’re calm, the next you’re snapping, and then comes the guilt. You’re not alone, mama and you’re not broken. In this first part of our 3 part series, we’re unpacking the first step to emotional resilience as a Christian mom: awareness. You’l...
10 | Have a Defiant, Strong-Willed, or Neurodivergent Child? Taking Your Captive Thoughts = Calmer Meltdowns 25.09.2025 13:04
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Have you ever felt like your thoughts are hijacking your parenting leaving you overwhelmed, reactive, and stuck in survival mode? In this episode, we’re diving into three powerful anchors for your thought life that will help you take your thoughts captive, so you can show up calmer and more connected with your strong-wil...
9 | What if First Time Obedience Creates Defiant Kids Who Meltdown Instead of Build Connection? 18.09.2025 14:48
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! What comes to mind when you hear the word obedience? For many mamas, it feels tied to pressure, rules, and the belief that if our child doesn’t obey instantly, we must be failing. But what if that way of thinking is actually breaking connection with your strong-willed or neurodivergent child? In this episode, I’m rethink...
8 | Strong-Willed or Something More? Why Regulation and Connection Matter More Than a Label 11.09.2025 15:33
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Mama, Is your child just strong-willed, or could something deeper be going on... In this episode, we’ll unpack the difference between a strong-willed child and a neurodivergent child, and why the distinction matters—but not in the way you might think. Because at the end of the day, your child’s identity isn’t found in a la...
7 | Not a Mistake: Why You’re the Exact Mom Your Strong-Willed or Neurodivergent Child Needs 04.09.2025 9:51
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! Have you ever wondered if maybe God gave your strong-willed or neurodivergent child (ASD, ADHD, ODD, or PDA) the wrong mom? That you’re not enough, not equipped, or too overwhelmed to handle what they need? Mama, you’re not alone. I’ve been there—convinced I was failing, carrying guilt and shame, and believing the enemy’...
6 | Have Your Fears Become Reality? Why Moms of Strong-willed and Neurodivergent Need Kids Need Emotional Regulation 28.08.2025 12:10
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! As a mama of an ASD, ADHD, ODD, or PDA child have you ever caught yourself speaking your fears out loud—only to watch them unfold in your child’s life? I’ve been there. In this episode, I’m sharing a personal story of how my own unregulated emotions and words began shaping mine and my child’s reality—and why regulating our...
5 | Building Connection with the Father: The Foundation for Parenting Beyond Meltdowns 21.08.2025 13:56
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! When you’re raising a child with ADHD, Autism, ODD, or PDA, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and unsure of where to turn. So often, we run to books, podcasts, or parenting strategies before we turn to God. But what if true peace and wisdom are found first in His presence? In this episode of Parenting Beyond Meltdowns, we expl...
4 | How to Build Connection When Your Neurodivergent Child's Defiant Behavior is Out of Control 14.08.2025 13:51
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! If you’ve tried being the “nice mom” and the “strict mom” and neither has worked, you’re not alone. I used to think connection came after compliance—that once my child listened, obeyed, or calmed down, then we could connect. But I’ve learned the hard way that connection isn’t the reward…it’s the foundation. And without it,...
3 | You Are Not a Bad Mom - Even When Your Child Has Meltdowns 06.08.2025 5:53
Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 2.5% of Podcasts Worldwide! If you’ve ever thought, “I’m a bad mom,” this episode is for you. I’m sharing why your child’s struggles don’t define you and how to break free from the shame and guilt that so many of us carry. I’ll give you practical ways to stand firm in your God given identity and remind you of the truth about who God says you are as a...
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