Own Your Midlife Podcast: Hormones, Perimenopause & Reinvention for Women 40+

Friendships in midlife can change in ways we never expected. If you've been wondering whether you've outgrown a friendship, why a friendship feels different than it used to, or why someone who was once so close no longer plays the same role in your life, this episode is for you. In this episode of Own Your Midlife, we're talking about outgrowing friendships, the guilt that often comes with it, and...

Self-doubt has a way of making us question everything. It can make us wonder if we're qualified enough, experienced enough, or even capable of taking the next step. For many women, that's exactly how imposter syndrome (also spelled impostor syndrome) in midlife begins to show up. In this episode of Own Your Midlife, we're talking about the thoughts that fuel self-doubt, what imposter syndrome can...

Have you ever wondered who decided what age you're supposed to have life figured out? Or why so many of us feel like there's a timeline we're supposed to follow, and if we miss it, we've somehow fallen behind? In this episode, I'm sitting down with my husband, Anthony McLean, and we're getting into something most of us have never stopped to question. The unspoken rules our generations handed us. T...

Divorce can feel overwhelming, heartbreaking, and incredibly lonely, especially in midlife when so much of your life feels intertwined with your marriage, family, finances, identity, and future. In this episode we talk about the emotional side of divorce that so many women struggle through quietly. Oona shares the five phases of divorce grief, what to do first when you don't know where to start, h...

Feeling disconnected in your relationship and not sure why? Wondering if resentment in marriage or emotional distance with your partner is quietly building? In this powerful conversation, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, TEDx speaker, and author of The Cost of Quiet , Colette Jane Fehr joins me to talk about the hidden cost of staying quiet in relationships, especially for women who...

If you're in midlife and comparison has been making you feel like you're behind, too late, or like everyone else has figured something out that you haven't, this episode is going to hit home. Comparison in midlife feels different than it did in your twenties. Back then it felt like fuel. Now it feels more like a deadline. And that shift is not an accident. It's something a lot of women feeling stu...

Betting on yourself in midlife can feel scary, especially when you've spent years putting everyone else first. In this episode, we're talking about what it actually looks like to stop waiting, trust yourself, and finally take a chance on the life you really want. If you've ever found yourself thinking, maybe next year, when life settles down, or when I feel more ready. This conversation is for you...

If you've been feeling emotionally exhausted, overwhelmed, or like life just feels heavier than it used to, this episode is for you. Maybe you're juggling work, kids, aging parents, relationships, your health, and somehow still feeling like you're supposed to hold everything together. Maybe you're waking up already feeling behind, constantly overstimulated, and wondering why everything suddenly fe...

If you're in your 40s or 50s and things feel like they're starting to unravel, this episode is going to remind you that breakdown and breakthrough can often happen at the same time. Today I'm sitting down with Wendy Valentine, internationally published author of Women Waking Up, founder of Midlifology, and host of the Midlife Makeover Show, a podcast ranked in the top 1% globally. After going thro...

If you're in your 40s or 50s and dealing with low energy, fatigue, brain fog, or walking into a room and forgetting why you're there, you are not alone. These are some of the most common symptoms women experience in midlife, and for a long time I thought something was seriously wrong with me. Note: I am not a doctor and nothing here is medical advice. Please talk to your doctor before trying anyth...

If you're in your 40s or 50s and suddenly feeling like you don't recognize yourself anymore you're not alone. So many women experience a midlife identity shift and don't have the words for what's happening.  Women in midlife often arrive carrying limiting beliefs about themselves that they never stopped to question. Beliefs about what they're capable of, what they deserve, and who they're allowed...

Friendships can feel different in midlife. Some grow deeper. Others start to feel confusing or distant. And a lot of us quietly wonder why connection doesn't always feel as easy as it once did. In this episode, I'm sitting down with J'Leen Manning Saeger to talk about how friendships change in this season of life and what actually helps them stay strong. After recognizing how her own insecurities...

If you're dealing with midlife burnout, low energy, or that feeling of doing everything right and still running on empty, this episode is for you. Today I'm joined by Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and Hair Tissue Mineral Analysis practitioner Dori Martin. Dori specializes in helping women in midlife understand what's driving their fatigue, hormone shifts, weight resistance, and brai...

In this episode, my husband Anthony joins me to talk about what changed when he stopped waiting for opportunity to come to him and started creating his own direction instead. For years, his career as an actor meant waiting for someone else to say yes to the next role. Eventually he realized he didn't want his future depending on someone else's decision anymore. That shift changed everything. And h...

Have you ever felt stuck but couldn't quite explain why? In midlife, that feeling often shows up right when you're thinking about making a change. Starting something new. Letting go of something old. Or finally moving toward something you've been putting off for a long time. In this episode, I'm talking about three quiet reasons many women begin to feel stuck during this season of life. Not becaus...

What if sharing your goals too early is actually slowing you down? In this episode we're talking about something many women experience during midlife transitions. The need to share their plans before they're fully formed. Especially during seasons when your sense of identity is evolving, and how that can quietly affect motivation, clarity, and confidence. Whether you're starting something new, mak...

Many women reach midlife feeling physically and mentally exhausted not just from being busy, but from years of living by expectations they never consciously chose. In this episode of Own Your Midlife, Angela Burk, author of Real Girls Guide to Midlife, joins me to talk about navigating midlife transitions and the "invisible rule book" of expectations that so many women are quietly living by. Angel...

Have you ever said yes when you really wanted to say no? I know I have. People pleasing can seem harmless on the surface. You keep the peace, avoid conflict, and make sure everyone else is comfortable. But over time, constantly putting other people first can start to shape the way you make decisions, how you show up in relationships, and even how you see yourself. Many women reach midlife and real...

Raising teenagers in midlife is a whole new level of parenting and it can feel both beautiful and incredibly hard. In this episode, my husband Anthony joins me as we share five things that are genuinely helping us stay connected to our teens. Because this stage of parenting looks very different than we expected and we're not coming to you as experts, just as two parents in the middle of it, learni...

Have you ever felt like you're doing all the right things? Eating well, trying to take care of yourself and yet your body just isn't responding the way it used to? The stubborn belly fat, the energy crashes, the hot flashes, the hair changes and you're left wondering what is actually going on? That's exactly what we're diving into today. I'm sitting down with Robin Nielsen. She's a board-certified...

In this episode, we're talking about what it actually looks like to move toward your dream in midlife. Whether you're in a season with the capacity to take a big leap, or a season where you're just trying to stay connected to the thing on your heart. Because you are not behind. And your dream is not too late. This is your reminder that the step forward doesn't have to look the same for everyone an...

Fibroids affect up to 80% of women yet too many are told their symptoms are "normal" or are offered outdated treatment options without understanding what else is available. In Part 3 of this fibroid series, I sit down with Dr. Kelly Wright, Director of Minimally Invasive Gynecologic Surgery and Vice Chair of Gynecology at Cedars-Sinai, one of the most respected medical institutions in the world. D...

For many women, fibroids stay quiet for years until perimenopause brings symptoms like bloating, heavy bleeding, fatigue, and inflammation to the surface. In Part 2 of my fibroid series, I'm sharing the seven natural remedies that helped ease my fibroid symptoms during the two years I was navigating bloating, pressure, inflammation, and hormonal chaos before surgery ever entered the picture. This...

This isn't the easiest episode for me to put out there, but it's one I know someone needs.   Today I'm opening up about my fibroid journey. The fear, the confusion, the late-night Googling (that did not help 🤦🏽‍♀️), and the choice I made to get my life back.   I'm sharing this because I remember how isolating it felt. And if my story helps even one woman feel seen, understood, or a little less o...

Did you know that we lose half of our close friends every 7 years? That falling in love costs you an average of 2 friendships? And that midlife is one of the hardest times to make and maintain friends? You're not crazy if you feel like friendship is harder now. It IS harder. And there are actual sociological reasons why. In this episode of Own Your Midlife, I sat down with friendship expert and jo...