Other People's Shoes

There is a scene in "Forrest Gump" Where Forrest gets on the bus and tries to sit down and is told "You can't sit here" "Seats taken" What I hear in that sense is "NOT here"! What about you? What do you hear? I believe strongly that some churches today don't want to still talk about porn in the church. "NOT here"! My guest today is Sam Black. Sam is the author of The Healing Church: What Churches...

SEASON FINALE: It's been said every story has a new chapter. Today we walk with Amy Getzlow. Amy is the wife of Neil Getzlow. Neil was a past guest earlier this season. Amy today shares her side of what went on as she discovered Neil had been having multiple extra marriage affairs. She shares her heart and how she was able to move past the pain. Join me as I walk in Amy's shoes.   👟  To listen to...

Imagine for a moment your father putting you in a trash can and saying to you "This is where you belong." What would that do to you? How long would that one event stick with you? My guest today is Dr. Mark McNear. Mark grew up hearing harsh words that undermined his desire to take initiative in life. After struggling with abuse, addictions, and rehab, Mark wondered fearfully what would happen next...

I'll do that later...Weight loss, it feels like that is one of those things we, or I keep putting off. I'll start next Monday. Well, today is the day to start. My guest today is Alana Van Der Sluys she is a Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, TEDx speaker, eating disorder survivor, and the founder of Freedom with Food and Fitness. She is dedicated to empowering women to heal their relationship w...

The phrase "the other side of the coin" is an idiomatic expression that refers to a different perspective or aspect of a situation, issue, or concept. Just like a coin has two sides, this expression suggests that there are two contrasting viewpoints or facets to consider. It implies that one should examine both sides in order to gain a more complete understanding of the matter at hand. This phrase...

One of my favorite cartoon characters is Marvin the Martian. He has a quote "That makes me very angry, very angry indeed". Anger is a normal and natural emotion experienced by all humans at some point in their lives. It is often triggered by feeling frustrated, threatened, or hurt in some way. Anger can serve as a protective mechanism and can even be a motivating force for change. However, it's es...

How are you fighting this battle? My guest today is Fred Stoeker. . Fred stops by to share why he wrote this new book "Battle On, Battle Over".  Fred believes you can achieve victory in your battle for sexual purity--Starting Today! Fred shares we live in a culture that's awash in pornography and sexual sin. For the first time in history, a growing percentage of women have been swept up by the sam...

When is the last time you heard "I forgive you"? I forgive you. Three simple words. Life changing? More like life-saving. My guest today is Neil Getzlow, Author of "Unmasked" Neil talks about the power of forgiveness and unconditional love is life-changing. For Neil, it goes back to that life-changing moment at the start of his journey in April 2020 when God helped him unmask all of his sins to Am...

"On this episode of Other People’s Shoes, join host Neil Matthews as he encourages listeners to put themselves in Other People's Shoes and change their perspective. Neil starts off by sharing a personal anecdote about binge-watching a TV show, setting the stage for a lively and relatable discussion. Later, Neil welcomes guest Sarah, who corrects the pronunciation of Missouri and shares her experie...

**** DISCLAIMER  PLEASE DO NOT TAKE UNLESS YOU SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP FIRST. **** A few months back a very good friend, who I believe is one of the smartest people I have interacted with Sean McCoy. Shared with me that he had taken Magic Mushrooms. My first reaction was "That has to be the dumbest thing you have ever done." "Why?"  After all Magic Mushrooms also known as psilocybin mushrooms, cont...

How would you define the word transcend? One definition is to go further, rise above, or be more important or better than something, especially a limit: My guest today is Catherine Llewellyn. To transcend beyond the mask means to go beyond the superficial or false identity that one may wear to conform to societal expectations or to hide their true self. It involves breaking free from the limitatio...

We are unveiling the Mystery of Bigfoot: A Legendary Encounter. In this episode, we explore the enigmatic legend of Bigfoot, a creature that has fascinated people worldwide for centuries. My guest is Greg Roberts. Greg shares with us all things Bigfoot from his point of view.  We delve into the origins of the Bigfoot myth, tracing its roots back to indigenous cultures and Native American folklore,...

A narcissist is typically defined as an individual who has an excessive preoccupation with themselves, an inflated sense of self-importance, and a lack of empathy for others. They often have an intense desire for admiration and attention and may display arrogant or entitled behaviors. Narcissists tend to have an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and achievements while belittling or disregar...

There is something powerful about a double-edged sword. Would you agree? My guest today is Wes. Wes is a really amazing friend in my life. Wes shares what happened when was dragged away by his need to just fit in. Wes, also shares that you to can find freedom if you chose to remove the mask. I come before you today with a humble heart and a sincere desire to seek your guidance and strength. I ackn...

How amazing would life be if you had a secret decoder ring? Secret decoder rings have been popularized in various forms of media, such as books, comics, or movies, often used by fictional spies or secret agents. They add an element of mystery and intrigue, allowing individuals to engage in code-breaking activities and solve puzzles. Sadly it is just make-believe. However, my guest today Dr. Sarah...

The term "swept up" typically refers to a state of being carried away or caught up in a strong, powerful, or overwhelming emotion, experience, or situation. It implies a feeling of being engulfed or overwhelmed by something, often in a figurative sense. It can describe being captivated, enchanted, or deeply affected by a particular event, feeling, or circumstance that leaves a significant impact....

To "agree to disagree" is a phrase used when two or more individuals hold different opinions or viewpoints on a particular topic, and they decide to end the discussion or argument without trying to convince each other to change their stance. It acknowledges the existence of a fundamental disagreement while emphasizing mutual respect and the willingness to move past the disagreement without harbori...

To be, or not to be, that is the question: What will you be today? My guest is one of my favorite guests. Meghan Newkirk came on back in season nine "Are You Enough". Today Meghan and I get caught up and talk about the masks that she has worn. To help you remember. Meghan has dealt with having obsessive-compulsive disorder. To help with her own unmasking she wrote the book “Loving Naomi.” Join me...

Are UFOs real? IF so where do they come from? My guest today is Chris Bledsoe. Chris is a deeply religious family man and successful business owner from North Carolina who was on the verge of the unthinkable after losing everything in the 2007 financial crisis and suffering from a debilitating chronic disease. Fishing along the banks of the Cape Fear River with three co-workers and his teenage son...

SEASON FINALE | Quizprints-After four years of being the wind beneath my wings, my wife of 21 years is now making her first and only appearance on my show. Take advantage of this moment. She bought some fantastic content that you can take part in. I wrote this amazing poem to share my love for her. Enjoy as I take a walk in her "Hey Dudes". For 21 years my love has grown, As strong as the roots of...

What part of your life is off-limits? Imagine for a moment that every area is open to others to watch and learn from you . What are your thoughts on that? My guest today is Caesar Kalinowski. He truly believes that IF you call yourself a disciple of Jesus you should be a disciple-maker. What is a disciple-maker? A disciple-maker is someone who, intentionally and consistently invests in the spiritu...

Have you ever really put yourself in the shoes of the waitress or waiter the last time you were out to eat? The question always seems to come up. Should I tip should I not tip? My guest today is Barbara Slona. Barbara is here to share why tipping is so important and it is the most in our world today. Tipping someone is an expression of appreciation or gratitude for the service provided. It is a wa...

The fear of taking a test is a common experience often referred to as test anxiety. Test anxiety can be caused by various factors, such as a lack of preparation, pressure to perform well, fear of failure or negative consequences, and perfectionism. I am pretty sure NO one has ever struggled with these feelings right? My guest today is Amy Hager. Amy is here to talk about what drives her, and how y...

Would you follow his steps? My guest Dave Ebert is a former pro wrestler, radio announcer, house parent, and one-time vacuum salesperson. He is now building a name in the Midwest as an improv comedian with a passion for improving the lives of those around him. Dave was born in Chicagoland but spent most of his life in southwestern Virginia. Dave is currently pursuing credentialing with the Assembl...

Have you ever watched a Service member fold our great flag? The US folded flag symbolizes honor, respect, and sacrifice for those who have served their country in the armed forces. The folding of the flag is a solemn and meaningful tradition that dates back to the early days of the United States. The flag-folding ceremony is a custom that involves two or more uniformed military members carefully f...