Other Men Need Help

When a breakup leaves Mark craving affection from an amigo, he takes to the sky, hoping for the famed operatic embrace from a friend upon landing in an international airport. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon . Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com . Original music by Fulton Street Music Gr...

Intermezzo? Intermission? Seventh inning stretch? Whatever you want to call it, we’ve got a brief message and musical treat for you as we stretch our legs and get ready for a wild second half to season 3. Enjoy the music that has inspired the show - your very own 3 HOUR OTHER MEN NEED HELP PLAYLIST ! Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secret...

While out west, Mark gets a surprise two-for-one reconnection with some pals from his comedy past, and overhears a phone call that sparks his curiosity about his own fear of picking up the phone. Do Other Men have the same phone phobia? Become part of the team and support us on Patreon . Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to o...

What three little words have Mark tongue-tied around his friends? They're not the ones you think. Mark goes to long-term and long distance BFFs Darnell and Dimetrius to puzzle out his fear of a certain phrase (calling on perspective from a chorus of Other Men ) and hear what's made their friendship work for fifteen years. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newslet...

Go west, young men! Mark takes a trip out to Los Angeles to reconnect with a long lost high school classmate to see if he was "the friend who got away", while seven-year-olds Frankie and Indio share the tricks of maintaining a bi-coastal best friendship. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL...

Season three starts with a hello - or, in this case: a secret handshake. Childhood best friends Brian and Dimitri tell Mark what's kept their connection over three decades and across an ocean, which opens to a chorus of men exploring how greetings serve as the unique fingerprint of each best friendship. And did you think we’d start the new season off without some singing?! C’mon, you know us bette...

We’re baaaaaack. This summer, join host Mark Pagán for a new season of your favorite award-winning deep dive into the whys, hows, and oh mys of masculine mythology. In the past, we’ve the untold stories about financial insecurities, the messages you foolishly send to get your ex’s attention, and finding love at any age. This season, we’re meeting your best friends. #OMNHS3

Take care of yourselves, and give your heart a little break with this very special episode of Other Men Need Help. In this follow up to Season 2's Boy Talk , Mark and the team catches up with one of our favorite people, Richard Cardillo. We find out what's transpired in Richard's love life since last we spoke, check in as he plans to take the plunge, and ask what compromises he'll make for true lo...

We’ve got big news for all you listeners— Other Men Need Help has collaborated with WNYC’s Nancy on Richard Cardillo’s story from our Boy Talk episode . It’s beautiful and has some WONDERFUL updates. You can listen to the full episode here . We’re revisiting our Boy Talk episode and maybe share some of our own surprises with you this week. Keep those eyes on your podcast feed. Boy Talk: Mark creat...

WE ARE LIVE AND SO ARE YOU in this month's bonus ep. Join us onstage as we listen to secrets from our friends Karolena Theresa, Henry Alford, and Thirst Aid Kit. Recorded live at Caveat in October 2019. Enjoy because we're now running off for the next few months to finish season 3 of OMNH! Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instag...

For our two year anniversary, we're finishing up a two-part episode with yet another diner interview a buncha of talented, sensitive guys. In this month's bonus episode, Mark meets with Tim Manley and Naje Lataillade to talk about why their work helped launch Other Men Need Help and why a teenage audience might've been the early key to getting it all started. Become part of the team and support us...

Guess what? We've got a surprise bite-size bonus episode for you! On the anniversary of the death of one of our favorite screen hunks, Mark talks to four Pagán women in an attempt to solve a long-standing family mystery. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

It's our two year anniversary, so here's a two-parter! In this month's bonus episode, we're time traveling back to 2012, when a poorly recorded conversation with a personal hero in a diner, in a town with a confusing name, lit the fuse for Mark's exploration of men and connection. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to lo...

August’s bonus episode is all about HAIR: Long beautiful hair Shining, gleaming Streaming, flaxen, waxen... you get the picture, as Mark tags along with Isaac to get a haircut, and waxes rhapsodic about his own days as a salon boy. Plus, Jiji Lee shares a hairy tale of her own. Special thanks to our friends at (le) poisson rouge. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our...

In this month's bonus episode, our very own Rebecca Seidel shares a cautionary tale that makes Mark reflect on an ill-advised pickup routine from the past. Plus, we have the DELIGHTFUL Alison Leiby telling her own cautionary tale LIVE. Special thanks to our friends at (le) poisson rouge. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagra...

In this season two closer, Mark does the impossible - keeps his sanity while listening to all the hold muzak in the world, finding homes for 33 unclaimed vehicles, and answering a lifelong question of "are you my brother?" TAKE OUR SURVEY ! Help us make this show better! It just takes a few minutes and you'll make us grin and jump around like House of Pain. Enjoy this bonus video as a thank you! B...

Mark asks if being the baby brother suuuucks by looking at his family where there were not one, but two little-wittle-baby-brothers-oh-you-so-cute-in-your-little-suit-with-your-little-girlfiend-stand-over-there-so-we-can-take-a-picture. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Mark goes on a quest along the beaches of Portland and Southern France to speak with two men and ask the question, "comment dites-vous 'a guy who still wants to be friend's with his ex's dad?'" Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Mark creates a weekly hotline with his friend Richard, as they chat about showing up late to the dating scene, taking a chance on new love after loss, and the necessary grooming rituals in middle age. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Your partner makes more money than you. What do you do? Mark meets a few men to learn about their economic insecurities and looks for some answers, as he fights to keep his own series of numbers a mystery. SPOILER ALERT - it does not go well. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

After years of hiding behind clothes, Mark seeks out one of the leading authorities on dandyism to ask for some pants and to share some secrets. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Based on his recent experiences, every old man in the world wants Mark to look like them. In this premiere episode of season two, Mark asks a group of fellow brown men to examine who they wanted to look like versus who they look like now. Warning - there will be singing. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pret...

Nas from The Gender Knot Podcast and Mark have some questions for you. Are you ready? Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

For this month's bonus episode, Other Men Need Help looks at the posters on your wall and asks what your mother has to say about them, featuring an EPIC story by Shalewa Sharpe. Special thanks to our friends at The Kraine Theater. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon ! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

For this month's bonus episode, Other Men Need Help goes live! AGAIN! This time we're looking at the blind spots of other men on first dates featuring stories by Aparna Nancherla , Richard Cardillo , and Isaac Oliver . Special thanks to our friends at The Kraine Theater and (le) Poisson Rouge. This episode hosted and produced by Mark Pagán. Associate producers are Ben Goldberg and Rebecca Seidel....