O'talkin' with Dave

Send us Fan Mail There is something magical about a front porch.   Problems were solved, relationships were built, and many times it was the only place big enough for everybody to gather. Join Dave for stories that turned into lessons that were accumulated on or near a front porch somewhere.   Stories that include everything from countin' cows to blowing up beaver dams... It is amazing what w...

Send us Fan Mail FEARS and PHOBIAS are part of the human condition. What are you AFRAID of - is it a FEAR or a PHOBIA? Join Dave to discuss FEARS and PHOBIA, their differences, and why they get in our way. What are they, where did they come from, how do they change, and what can we do to reduce their impact on our productivity, potential, and happiness. Don't be SKEERED - O'talkin'...

Send us Fan Mail I've been meaning to put out a podcast on PROCRASTINATING for a while, but I never got to it...PROCRASTINATION is a fact of life, but it doesn't have to be. Join Dave for a discussion on what, where, and why we PROCRASTINATE. Dave will give some overall tactics for improving time management and reducing or eliminating PROCRASTINATION, along with some "quick hits&quo...

Send us Fan Mail If I could only find the time...Have you ever said that? Join Dave for some tactics to get more done every day and how to do it at a high quality! Reducing procrastination, poor planning, and distractions are a big help, but the key is understanding your tendencies, scheduling your day, and having the discipline to follow through with your intentions. Turn that TO-DO list into a D...

Send us Fan Mail Who doesn't love CHANGE?  ALMOST EVERYBODY!!! Join Dave to hear about CHANGE - why we need it, why it is inevitable, and how we can navigate the turbulent tides of CHANGE. Whether HOME, WORK, or PLAY, change is either here, on the way, or already passed you by.  It doesn't matter your age, your sex, or your sexual orientation - we all have some kind of CHANGE coming!!! D...

Send us Fan Mail What do you believe? Join Dave to understand his 10 foundational beliefs...no doubts, no exceptions, no compromise... No attempts to convert or influence anyone, just a sound foundation that builds confidence, momentum, and a trajectory of success.  Learn the importance of knowing what you believe and how you it can be used to dealing with daily challenges.   Some things in life a...

Send us Fan Mail You are a leader, whether you like or know it or not! Join Dave as he digs in on your role as a leader in your group, your family, your community, and in just about every scenario you find yourself on a daily basis.   Local Leadership - it's a thing, you are doing it, and people are counting on you. Now, bring me my BROWN pants and let's get started... Email David@Otalks...

Send us Fan Mail Are you a GIVER or a TAKER? Join Dave to dig in to the GIVER mentality and dealing with those who posses a TAKER mentality.  It can be a rough road for the GIVER... Learn to become self-aware, self-compassionate, and then be more assertive with setting the boundaries that will reset the relationships in your life that are robbing you of the joy that a GIVER deserves. ...a serious...

Send us Fan Mail What are some things that you DREAD? Little things, big things - we all have events, people, plans or deadlines that we DREAD and it is a totally natural part of life. Join Dave for some insight into how to identify DREAD in our lives, where it comes from, and how to reduce it's impact on your life.  If we can't eliminate it, how can we learn more productive ways to deal...

Send us Fan Mail NO it's not about gun control or being offended... Dave digs into how to put TRIGGERS in your life to manage your reactions to words, actions, and conflict in your every day life.  Learn to control your responses and emotions during the "heat of the moment" by already knowing what to say. TRIGGERS are great and can help you  with : Productivity Objections Thought pr...

Send us Fan Mail Do you think the ability to Multi-Task makes your more productive? Well, tune in and learn how MULTI-TASKING is Killing Your Productivity. Doing a lot at Home, Work, and Play doesn't mean you are doing it well.  You deserve to put out a better product and those consuming it deserve better, too... Learn how FOCUS can help you accomplish more with higher quality and quantity.  ...

Send us Fan Mail SIMPLE does not necessarily mean easy, but SIMPLE is mo better... Join Dave to dig in to how simplifying your life will make you more productive, more content, more confident, and feel like you have a better "hold" on things. Whether in your physical surroundings, your digital presence, or your daily schedule, simplifying your life will put you in a better place. Email D...

Send us Fan Mail Victoria O'Conner hijacks the show and blindsides Dave with difficult, heartwarming, and often unfair questions to ask a man live... Join for a more intimate time that lends insight into relationships, honestly, and the value of sharing true feelings with someone you love.   Take time to think of those in your life who you would like to share some of Victoria's "sab...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered why bad things happen to good people?  Especially when you are the GOOD people!!! Join Dave for this very personal episode where he talks about some unfortunate things that happened to him that made him wonder the same thing, and then good came from it.  Following the belief that good things happen to GOOD people, eventually... Dave documents five stories th...

Send us Fan Mail Drama, drama, drama...it's everywhere!!! From social media to reality TV, drama is celebrated more now than ever before.   Join Dave to understand how drama can be a distraction and take you away from the important events, people, and productivity you deserve.  Learn how to spot it early and nip it in the bud... Plus, it's exhausting!!! Email David@Otalks.com or OWD@Otal...

Send us Fan Mail Your MIND is a powerful tool, a superpower that is ready to be used for mass production.  However, if you don't put it to use, it will work on something else and that can lead to a dark or troublesome place full of regret, resentment, and negative thoughts. Join Dave to learn how to focus on productive uses for your mind at Home, Work, and Play.  You'll love a more produ...

Send us Fan Mail Why are so many women obsessed with crime dramas? I'm not paranoid, but I think they are plotting against me. Join in the conversation and analysis of their obsession with crime, serial killers, and forensics to see if you are a target... Email David@Otalks.com or OWD@Otalks.com for comments, questions, or ideas for content on an upcoming O'talkin' with Dave podcast...

Send us Fan Mail Dave talks about the iGens and analyzes the similarities of the YUTES of today vs.  past generations. He covers everything from cell phones, social media, and the pressures of growing up in the 21st century to hot topics like bullying, pornography, and music.  Hear how parenting has changed and the behaviors of YUTES remains similar. Listen in for a little Southern humor, real-lif...

Send us Fan Mail We all have difficult people in our lives and learning to "deal" with them is a necessary skill.   Let's dig in on why they are difficult, tactics for dealing with them, and keeping from becoming one yourself.  You will have challenges at Home, Work, and Socially and you need to be armed with the ability to cope.  Coworkers, social groups and family gives you a lot...

Send us Fan Mail When is the last time you really laughed? I mean a good one, not just a chuckle.  I'm talking about a side splitting, snot bubbling, wet your pants, skid mark inducing, belly laugh, couldn't catch your breath, thought you were gonna die and begging it to stop laugh.  Laughter is everywhere, it's good for you, and it is free. Having people in your life that enjoy lau...

Send us Fan Mail Are you ALIVE or just living? Listen for ways to: Increase your awareness of the "sparks" in your life Gain confidence in your decision making Know what you believe and how that can guide you Decide when NOT to participate Thriving is a choice and by choosing to be happy, you can live a fuller life and have a positive impact on those around you - every day... Email David...

Send us Fan Mail What factors from your past are impacting your present?  Is there something on your mind that is brining you down and making you less productive at work, with friends, or in relationships? Inspecting the HOES will help you: Recognize ANGST and the role it plays in your life Learn how to Forget Regret and Begin to Win Accept the need for Conflict and Resolution Embrace your weeds a...

Send us Fan Mail "Don't Give Away Your POWER" is a process driven guide designed to build awareness of your existing POWER, backed by simple ways to "boost it" and increase your personal momentum.  Unfortunately, many people just give their POWER away. Power Boosters and Drainers all have these things in common: They are easy to understand They require no special skill, ta...