Order of Man

Join Ryan Michler as he explores the distinction between masculinity and manliness, a conversation that goes beyond mere semantics. Drawing insights from our social media followers, he discusses how masculinity often encompasses inherent traits like dominance and competitiveness, while manliness is about applying these traits through cultural, moral, and ethical lenses. By sharing various perspect...

This is our first-ever Order of Man Live Q and A! Let us know if you have any questions. This episode examines how faith and personal values help navigate adversity, highlighting the role of community support and leadership during crises. It explores the importance of aligning actions with principles, drawing on stoicism and religious teachings, and emphasizes the need for honorable individuals to...

Men, we all have scars. Some are visible. Some are not. Some are physical. And, some are mental and emotional. Regardless of the scars you carry around, the stories behind them have the ability to shape you, for better or worse. My guest today, 101st Airborne Division Combat Veteran, J.R. Martinez, has easily-seen external scars. But rather than use those scars as an excuse to self-destruct, Marti...

Unlock the secret to powerful leadership by harnessing the strength of emotional intelligence. Society may often cast aside traditional masculine traits, but we're here to reclaim them by understanding what it truly means to embody stability and reliability. This episode highlights the critical role emotional intelligence plays in being a grounding presence for our loved ones and colleagues. We ex...

Have you ever felt frustrated by digital communication platforms? In this episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore a structured path to personal growth that cuts through tech barriers. They emphasize self-reliance, positive messaging, and building supportive networks.  Drawing on Chris Williamson's podcast with Dr. Laith Al-Shawaf, they explore how emotions like fear and love guide us. They...

This one is going to be a different one for you guys today. For the third time in the history of Order of Man in nearly a decade, we have a woman joining us on the podcast. Kelsi Sheren is a good friend of mine, and she is not afraid to pull punches. We've had some very public disagreements about the concept of "Vulnerability," and "Feminism." And, I thought, if we're going to take this movement t...

What if mastering your emotions could make you not just a better man, but a stronger leader too? This week on Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unveils the seven signs of masculine maturity, essential for any man aiming to elevate his personal growth and leadership skills. Starting with an inspiring reading of Rudyard Kipling's timeless poem "If," Ryan sets a powerful tone for the first topic: emot...

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the serious implications of an East Coast maritime strike. They delve into the importance of vigilance in adapting to technological disruptions and the necessity of presence in fostering strong relationships.  Drawing parallels between martial arts and life, Ryan emphasizes consistency in personal growth, whether navigating...

Testosterone (T) is a hormone all men are familiar with at this point. It's become a very hot topic and , whether or not to increase testosterone natural ly or with Testosterone Replace Therapy (TRT) , has become an increasingly debated question . Testosterone is recognized as the hormone to improve energy, muscle mass, overall health and vitality, and personal performance.     My guest today, Sim...

Transform your habits and reclaim control over your life! In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler offers a powerful roadmap to identify and overhaul negative behaviors by drawing on the wisdom of "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg and "Atomic Habits" by James Clear. He dissects the three-step formula for understanding habits, focusing on cues, behaviors, and rewards. By recognizing th...

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp break down the $35 trillion U.S. national debt, explaining its impact and how each American owes $135,000. They hold political leaders accountable and call for sustainable spending. They also discuss the need for disruption to achieve personal growth, offering tips for early recognition and setting boundaries in relationships. In leadership, they h...

So many of us are so easily distracted and sedated by our temptation of choice and the next bright, shiny object. But my guest today makes the case for why building a personal and professional plan that will last centuries leads him to make more virtuous decisions and, not only serves him but generations to come. His name is Pete Roberts and he is the founder of Origin USA, a 100% made in America...

Unlock the secrets to becoming the man you aspire to be with actionable insights from our latest episode. Ryan Michler delves into the importance of having a clear vision and ask the critical question, "Who do I need to become?" Discover the necessity of specificity in your goals and learn that success is built on deliberate, consistent actions rather than mere luck. Ryan discusses the concept of...

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen as they explore a myriad of topics ranging from cultural issues to personal growth. This Ask Me Anything episode kicks off with an intriguing look at tribalism and the polarization of social viewpoints, inspired by Matt Walsh's documentary premiere in Nashville. They tackle controversial subjects like transgenderism and racism, emphasizing the need for diverse p...

Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen as they explore a myriad of topics ranging from cultural issues to personal growth. This Ask Me Anything episode kicks off with an intriguing look at tribalism and the polarization of social viewpoints, inspired by Matt Walsh's documentary premiere in Nashville. They tackle controversial subjects like transgenderism and racism, emphasizing the need for diverse p...

Over 10 years, one of the most common messages I get is a strong desire for men to find their calling, so to speak. Studies often suggest that upwards of 70% of men are dissatisfied in their work and general fulfillment in life. But it's a challenge to find something you're interested in and turn it into a profitable and lucrative career that brings both a sense of purpose and financial prosperity...

Do you ever wonder why comparing yourself to others can sometimes leave you feeling deflated and stuck? In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unravels the comparison trap and its profound impact on personal development and self-confidence. He tackles the issue head-on by exploring how negative comparisons create feelings of inadequacy and impede progress.  Listen in as Ryan shares th...

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler addresses masculinity and its role in society and its significance from politics to personal growth. Ryan emphasizes the virtues of strength, courage, and fortitude, balanced with empathy and grace. Learn how to graciously accept compliments, reflect on personal concerns, and approach challenges with a solution-oriented mindset. From the importance...

Empathy. It's likely a word that conjures up unnecessary softness or, even weakness. But there's nothing weak about being empathetic and it certainly does mean you need to allow others to wallow in their own self-pity or walk all over you. In fact, when utilized correctly, empathy can be a powerful tool for realizing your full potential and influencing others positively along their own path. My gu...

Feeling down doesn't always mean you're clinically depressed, but how do you distinguish between the two? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan tackles the rising issue of depression among men, shedding light on the feelings of sadness, loneliness, and inadequacy many experience due to life challenges such as divorce, addiction, loss, and medical complications. He unpacks eight practical strateg...

Tune in to this week's Ask Me Anything as Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle the nuances of preparing for parenthood and balancing personal health with professional success. They share practical tips on maintaining focus and building a strong family foundation, together with insights on teaching essential skills to children. The conversation also ventures into the realm of handling sexual tempt...

Whenever I (or one of my guests) introduces the concept of male initiation, it's met with skepticism, at best, and a level of immense disdain and vitriol, at worst. But why is it that men struggle so much with the concept of initiation, that is to say that a man must learn from other men what it means to be a man and be held accountable to maintain his moral duty to protect, provide, and preside?...

Can you spot the difference between being nice and being kind? Many people mistakenly view niceness as a surefire way to a woman's heart, but in this week's Friday Field Notes latest episode Ryan Michler reveals why this approach often leads to manipulation rather than attraction.  Ryan shares practical tips on clearly stating your intentions, understanding what women truly seek in a partner, and...

In this no-holds-barred "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan and Duane dissect the controversy surrounding the Olympics, emphasizing the importance of meritocracy and performance. The conversation then shifts to the political landscape, urging men to step up and actively engage in their communities. They offer practical advice on building a strong work ethic and finding purpose, reminding listeners tha...

What does it take to be a tough, rugged, bastard? And, is it something a man should strive to become? My guest today is a retired marine and after spending 20 years in special operations in the Marine Corps, has gone on to lead training for all Marine Raiders (after being disbanded after WWII) and developing many of the systems and leadership protocols for some of the most elite fighting members o...