Open Late

Being a wife, sister, friend, lawyer, lover, executive coach, and spiritual shaman in training, Áine has spent decades compartmentalizing the different parts of herself. All of that juggling led her to wake up one day at 40 exhausted, confused and completely out of alignment. Through the process of embracing her deepest pleasure and using sexual alchemy, she has reclaimed herself as the wholly int...

In the last solo, I talked about the dangers of seeking “the one” and making your partner your everything. So how do we avoid falling into that trap? Discover mode, and in this episode I’m going deeper on what that means and how to do it. In this episode of Open Late So what is discovery mode? The importance of setting common and independent goals Creating mystery in long term relationships  Using...

Marialuisa is back for her BIRTHDAY! She and Jess share all kinds of love over champagne and cake as they discuss their journeys through unfulfilling relationships as a result of a lack of self-empowerment to ultimately calling in soulmate love . They get intotrauma bonds, attachment styles, and their new joint project, The Love Code - a retreat centered around learning how to call in your energet...

Your partner is not your superhero. That is a controversial and also very popular statement. There is so much pressure to find “ The One .” We’ve been taught it from a young age, we’ve seen it in movies, lost sleep over thinking about it. But here’s the thing, you can lose yourself after you find the one because you made them your everything. It’s time to think outside of the programming and explo...

In this extra juicy episode, Jessica and Deborah open up about the connection that sex and spirituality has always had and the the depths it can really go. Deborah Kagan is a Speaker, Author, Mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist, supporting you to conquer self-doubt and indecision to step into your full power and live a turned on life. She is the creator of Rock Your Mojo programs, and the author o...

Lauren Urbiztondo is a creative entrepreneur who specializes in photography, life coaching, sound facilitating, and women's retreats. She loves to spread love and compassion through her work. Lauren and Jessica have created a beautiful business together that include retreats and sound meditation journeys. In this episode of OPEN LATE: How to become a throuple Falling in love with your husband’s gi...

- TRIGGER WARNING - *Topics discussed in this episode involve sexual violence and may be sensitive to some listeners* The Goddess herself, Ginger banks is back on Open Late to talk to Jess about her crazy catfish story and how she is working to destigmatize and heal trauma surrounding sex work. In this episode of OPEN LATE: First time being Catfished Diving into TikTok and OnlyFans The consequence...

Jess met Madison Girifalco at Burning Man. She's an immersive installation artist, a puppet fabricator and children's book author. It's her goal to help facilitate space for creative communities and individual independence through the immersive arts and storytelling. This episode goes into how important language is to how we communicate with each other and how we navigate the world. In this episod...

There are so many things to explore when diving into modern day relationships, but how are we supposed to communicate about these things if we don’t know the words to use. This episode will help you understand what all the terminology really means. In this episode of OPEN LATE: When you want to try something new in your relationship Learning the language of desire Introducing the OPEN LATE Diction...

Get ready for this bonus episode, it’s both hysterical and answers some of the most burning questions Jessica and Pasha get about their open marriage. Kurt Maloney did some stand up comedy back at the OPEN LATE Launch party and then moderated a LIVE Q&A. It’s too good not to share. In this episode of OPEN LATE: Kurt’s Stand Up Why Jess started the Podcast Working through jealousy and insecurit...

Steve Cha, one of Jess’ best friends is back on the show today. Some of the audio was lost for the last episode with him, so they got together on IG live to talk more. There was so much amazing feedback on it and they wanted to share it here. This conversation turned to their history as friends and gives a real glimpse at Jess’ life before Pasha. In this episode of OPEN LATE: How sexual repression...

Bianca Taylor is an entrepreneur and coach who specializes in women’s confidence. She has co-founded multiple successful companies and advocates for women to break out of the box and explore their multi-faceted nature. In this episode, Bianca asks Jess questions about what to do when problems come up in a relationship, when is the right time to close, and dealing with toxic energy.  In this episod...

We talk a lot about what it’s like having an open relationship but what if you are single and want to try out this lifestyle? In this episode, Jess’ friend Kurt Maloney opens up about his experience trying things out as someone who is single, diving into the world of poly and ethical non-monogamy.  In this episode of OPEN LATE: Opening to Ayahuasca The ups and downs of using apps to meet people Da...

Julie Comeau is a yoga teacher and meditation practitioner who empowers others to discover themselves through natural living. Daniela Tudoris a DJ, Producer, and CEO/Co-founder of ​​WEconnect Health Management. This conversation dives into the differences in building connection, trust, and romance in an open relationship vs a monogamous relationship. The three also break down the myths and misconc...

In this special episode, Jessica gets put in the hot seat with her husband P. They unpack what it’s like going from insecurities and being unfilled to having a strong, trusting open marriage. P has the chance to ask questions he’s never asked and talk about the reality of choosing non-monogamy, even the not so pretty parts of it. In this episode of OPEN LATE: How non-monogamy can be incredibly hea...

Kelli is a Podcaster, women’s circle facilitator, plant medicine advocate, and total badass. In this raw episode, Kelli and Jessica open up about the unexpected healing through intimacy that can happen when we open ourselves up to the sexual exploration we’ve always desired. In this episode of OPEN LATE: Learning to be open to breaking the rules The intimacy we didn’t know we wanted The connection...

Steve Cha is one of Jessica’s best friends and has absolutely no filter, so get ready for some off the rails questions around open relationships, orgies, and upholding boundaries. In this episode of OPEN LATE: Creating intimacy in threesomes Sex parties and Burning Man Creating boundaries for more freedom Identifying blind spots in relationships Follow Steve: Instagram: @estebanchampion Website: E...

In this beautiful conversation about jealousy, Jessica and Chloe get into what compersion means and how the idea can be used to create a powerfully connected relationship. Putting the ego aside for your partner’s happiness and exploring unconditional love with understanding and support takes away the pressure in relationships and allows for the breathing room for it to flow. In this episode of OPE...

In this episode, Jessica discusses what happened after deciding to continue down the open road. Marialuisa is a life coach specializing in authentic confidence and women’s empowerment. She works with women and non-binary folk to break limiting beliefs around romantic relationships, careers, and lifestyle so that they are ready for the life they deserve. Marialuisa is also the Director of Programs...

In this inaugural episode, Jessica and Ginger go through exactly what went down in the accidental threesome that forever changed this monogamous couple. Ginger is an advocate for sex workers and the sexual empowerment of all people. Through her questioning of all things related to the sexual status quo, she stumbled upon ethical non-monogamy and has spent the past four years educating herself on t...

Welcome to Open Late, a deep dive into all things relationships. Let’s explore the multi-faceted, frequently misunderstood, dynamics of polyamory and what being “open” even means.  Each week you’ll hear all about my personal journey with Opening Up, and uncovering the deep, complicated, and occasionally kinky layers of our hearts as expressed in the ways we love others and ourselves. If you're int...