Open Late

This week on Open Late, Jess sits with Andre and Susannah to get their take on being in an open relationship. They share their experiences, what they've learned, and the challenges they've faced while having an open relationship. If you're looking for a fun way to learn how real people handle this kind of situation—and if you want some solid advice for getting started on your own journey—this one'...

In this episode of Open Late, Jess talks about ‘ relationship goals ’ for 2023. She shares some of the challenges she's faced in relationships over the past few years, and how she's learned to be more devoted to herself. She also discusses setting goals for 2023, including the desire to get the most out of her life, love life, relationships and career. In this episode of Open Late • Relationship g...

In this episode, Jess reflects on 2022. She talks about the ways she helped herself learn to listen to her own needs, and the ways she has held herself accountable for focusing on her own pleasure this year. She also shares her biggest takeaway from 2022: that having a committed relationship with yourself is just as important as having one with others. In this episode of Open Late • Personal 2022...

This week on Open Late, Jess sits down with Anne Hodder-Shipp and talks about what it means when someone says that there are only five love languages in the entire world and the others don’t count (and how wrong they are). They also talk about how this idea of limiting people into these categories is harmful and damaging for everyone involved (including ourselves).   In this episode of Open Late •...

In this episode, Jess sits down with us one on one to talk about coming out and what it means for you as an individual trying to navigate those waters. She also talks about what other people might think when they hear news like this—and how they might react. As you grow and as you get more secure in this relationship, it will matter less what people think about you. Just because you come out doesn...

In this episode, Jess talks about the importance of setting the stage when you're coming out to your friends and family. This can be a really scary thing, but it's also an important part of being true to yourself. In this episode of Open Late • How I came out • How to deal with rejection from family and friends • Being intentional Connect with Jessica: • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlat...

This week on Open Late, Jess sits down with host of Polycurious podcast Fernanda to talk all things from burning man, having a monogamous partner, and deciding if being open to your family and friends is right for you. Fernanda also shares her insight on NRE and clear intentions when dating with no intent to DTR. In this episode of Open Late • Finding community through Burning Man • Having a monog...

This week on Open Late, Jess sits down with LMFT Danielle Golan to get her perspective on how to structure an open relationship from the start. Danielle starts off by challenging the initial reasons that makes people want to try out this relationship style. Tune in and ask yourself: what needs do I have that can and can't be met by my partner? In this episode of Open Late • Common themes that aris...

Leanne Yau, aka Poly Philia, joins us today to talk about her polyamorous journey. It began when she was 17 and heading off to college, and has now turned into a career and passion in the form of bite size education. Leanne and Jess challenge the mono-normative challenges that are creeping into the open relationship space and remind us its OK to want to be a unicorn that JUST wants to have sex! In...

LMFT Dr. Cat Meyer joins us today to educate us on the benefits of Ketamine therapy. She gives us the history on ketamine, the many uses, the legality, and the negative counterparts. Dr. Cat Meyer also explains the importance of vetting and carefully choosing your psychedelic facilitator. In this episode of Open Late • What is ketamine therapy • Couples therapy using ketamine • Integrating what yo...

Today Jess sits down with us one on one for a bonus episode! On the last episode we discussed how to open your relationship, on this episode we will dive a little deeper on topics that will come up on this journey. Whether it's accepting you and your partner have different style preferences, or checking in to make sure this journey is still fueling your fire, Jess gives us the scoop on how to navi...

Today Jess sits down with us one on one to talk about where to begin your non-monogamous journey! Whether you are starting coupled or un-coupled, this episode is full of tips and advice on things you can to do to put you and your relationship out in the open in a safe, fun, and explorative way. In this episode of Open Late • Building your connection • Start slow and steady • Get on to an app like...

Comedian, writer, and sex worker, Billy Procida, joins us today to talk about his experience as a “Manwhore.” We are learning all about the evolution of Billy’s sexual confidence and all of the different ways it has and continues to impact his life, career, and relationships.  In this episode of Open Late • Finding the confidence to explore sexually • Craigslist adventures • Transition from webcam...

Today Jess is joined by entertainer, author, and podcast host, Jessica Levity Daylover! Jessica has much to share about her experience with polyamorous parenting, holding space for your partner while they are in NRE, and her principles such as "whole ass person." This episode is jammed packed with education, entertainment, and practices you can implement into your life and relationship right away....

Today Jess has a bonus episode for us where we learn what to do when "the talk" goes wrong. Not everyone will be super receptive or excited about the idea of opening up their relationship, but there are things we can do to show up for them during this time while still getting our needs and wants across. Get ready for more homework! In this episode of Open Late • Two different responded your partne...

Today Jess sits down with us to discuss how to start the conversation of non-monogamy with your partner. If you don’t know where to begin or have been feeling lost, you are sure to be found after this episode. Jess shares with us a list of topics to ease into the conversation, questions to do an internal audit on yourself and relationship, and ways to explore yourselves while being committed to yo...

Today Jess is sitting down with Irene Morning, Mind-Body Therapist, to discuss common themes of trauma in relationships and different ways it can show up emotionally and physically. As someone who is non-monogamous herself, she is wonderful guide in helping others identify their different emotions which can happen in any relationship, but tend to bubble up much quicker when in a non-monogamous rel...

As a special treat for the one year anniversary of Open Late, our fabulous host Jessica sits down with us one on one for a solo episode. We’re celebrating by talking about how Open Late came to fruition, advice and personal experience on opening up to loved ones, and all of the ways the pod has contributed to Jessica’s personal growth! In this episode of Open Late • Jess shares her “why” for start...

Dr. Marie Thouin joins Jessica today to discuss her research and expertise on the topic of compersion. These two talk about the origins of everything from patriarchy to the word compersion. Dr. Marie goes into how to know if you are someone who experiences compersion, and ways to integrate it into your open relationship. She also gives insight into the process of her dissertation and what forms of...

Today we dive deep into the relationship evolution of Soul Sisters, Aimee and Ellie, meeting in New York and eventually becoming business partners. These babes share how they went from trauma bonding over men to unlearning and relearning how to be intimate with themselves and others to allow a deep and meaningful relationship. We learn all about their journeys of self discovery and taking their ma...

With passion for love, relationships, and sexuality, Elizabeth Cunningham began her journey as a coach to help people discover where their mindset is limiting their potential in love and in life.  In this episode of Open Late • How non-monogamy is an umbrella term • Normal conversations about what turn-ons actually are • How politics and religion are huge a huge influence on relationships •   How...

Dr. Tara is a highly accomplished academic, researcher and coach. She has been a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton since she was just 33 years old.   In this episode of Open Late • How plant medicine helped Dr. Tara see the relationship between marriage social science, and spirituality • Cultural differences in how women’s sexuality a...

Dana and the Wolf are a pop duo who have found success on TikTok. While being committed to one another, the two decided to open up their relationship. They began documenting their adventures on TikTok, and their popularity quickly skyrocketed. Sharing their openness and their experiences with dating other people has created a sense of community for their relationship and other non-monogamous relat...

Roxy Ruse discusses the effects of religion on sex and relationships. Being pregnant and exploring her sexuality independently and in her relationship with her partner. In this episode of Open Late • How Roxy realized she was interested in women by allowing herself to be curious • How growing up religious framed Roxys’ outlook on sex, sexuality, and relationships • Roxy’s experience going out and...

Kenya K. Stevens is a relationships expert, love coach, best-selling author, wife, and mother of three. Kenya attended Howard University in Washington D.C. where she graduated in 1997 with a degree in Education/ Child Psychology. Not only did she scoop up a degree, but she also met and married a fellow Howard student Carl Stevens. They now live in the mountains of North Carolina raising three chil...