Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & More

Dave Moravec had been married for 33 years when he decided to divorce. His children were adults at that time, but they each had very distinct opinions about - and reactions to - his divorce from their mother. Dave describes how he came to his decision through therapy, separation, and intense introspection. He also explains the challenges he faced in navigating a divorce with adult children - two o...

What if you had everything you ever wanted in life and found out it wasn't enough? Jeanell Greene was a high-achieving corporate sales rep with a 6 figure income and a 20-year career.  Yet in her heart, she knew she was being called to do more. Ultimately, she decided to confront her darkest fears, leave her corporate career, and open herself up to pursuing a more fulfilling career - even tho...

Beverly Price is one of those rare humans who has navigated not one, not two, but multiple divorces in her life. Through that process and all of the pain it caused her and those she loved,  she recognized that the key to having the relationship she dreamed of lay within her. After her last divorce, Beverly embarked on a journey of radical self-awareness. She came "face-to-face" with hers...

For decades Dana Diaz lived in the grips of an abusive relationship. Like many others in similar situations, Dana stayed for two reasons.  First, she worried about what would happen to her son if she left. Second, she stayed because she didn’t feel like she deserved better. But when she found herself in a doctor's office because she only weighed 90 pounds and her organs were shutting down, Da...

Mark Bradford wears many hats. He's an author, pilot, speaker, coach, and web developer. Above all, he's a master of life's game of time, energy, and resources. In a revelation born out of the dark depths of his divorce, Mark discovered that life isn't just about clocking hours. It's about mastering the complex interplay of emotional energy, mental stamina, and physical re...

Are your finances a cluttered mess? You're not alone!  Nancy Doyle, an experienced financial professional and author,  shares her knowledge and expertise to help you organize and understand your finances so you can regain control of your financial life. Nancy talks about how to get your financial house in order, create an "ICE" file, and take inventory of all your financial document...

Imagine discovering how you could heal the trauma from your past and create a healthier, happier relationship with yourself and others. That's what we explore in this podcast episode with trauma-informed yoga therapist and relationship coach, Bethany Dotson. Bethany brings over a decade of experience helping midlife career women recover from anxiety, PTSD, and more. She helps her clients rebu...

Can you imagine going through a divorce and having to feel your parents' anger and watch their tears, but NOT be able to tell anyone how YOU really felt or what YOU really wanted? That's exactly what Despina Mavridou experienced as a child going through her parents' divorce.  She was constantly caught in the crossfire of her parents' fights. "Tell your father this." &...

Are you and your spouse struggling to keep your marriage together after one of you cheated? Do you wonder if it’s even possible for a marriage to survive an affair? If so, you’re not alone. Dr. Juan Santos has spent a decade helping couples process their emotions and harness the skills they need to repair their marriage after one of them has had an affair.  In this podcast episode, Dr. Santos shar...

Domestic violence doesn't happen the way most people assume it does. Relationships don't start out being abusive. They start out with one person showering the other with love and affection.  It's not until later - sometimes years later  - that the relationship takes an abusive turn. What's more, domestic violence doesn't only happen among the poor and uneducated. Women fro...

Buying and selling real estate can be nerve-wracking - especially when you're facing a life cycle event like retirement, divorce, or having a child.  What's more, even when we think we know what we want, we often discover (after months of going down the wrong path) that what we really want is totally different than what we thought we wanted. Leslie Glazier has been using her background i...

After her kids were born, Linda Kooper left her career as a corporate software developer to focus on raising her kids. But as her kids got older she realized two things. 1. Her kids didn't need her as much so it was time for her to get back into the workforce; and 2. She wanted a divorce. Her journey through two simultaneous major life transitions wasn't an easy one. Her divorce became c...

How do you leave an abusive marriage when you have no job, no credit score, and no safety net? That's exactly what Kari Petruch did.  After living with a spouse who was verbally, emotionally, and financially abusive for 28 years, Kari Petruch had enough. For years as her kids were growing up she quietly saved some cash.  Once her youngest turned 18, she moved out of the house and filed for di...

Statistics show that second marriages fail even more often than first marriages do. Yet some second marriages thrive, in spite of the odds. If you're already divorced, and you want to remarry, how can you make your second marriage work?  World-renowned therapist and coach Terry Gaspard knows divorce inside and out. A child of divorced parents, Terry herself is divorced (... and now happily re...

Have you ever gone to your corporate job and thought, "There's got to be more than this?" If so, you're not alone. When Dawn Hershik was downsized after a 30-year corporate career, she opted for an unusual fresh start by going into business with her husband, Elliott. Together, they launched a Supporting Strategies franchise, which has grown to a company with over 30 employees i...

What if you had the power to navigate change, recognize and seize opportunities, and find unexpected joy in the midst of chaos? Susan Guthrie, a nationally recognized family law attorney, mediator, and mediation trainer has done all of that and more.  Susan went from being a litigator and a partner in a leading Connecticut law firm, to launching her own practice, to embracing mediation over litiga...

Ever wondered if your spouse might be hiding assets in your divorce? For over 25 years, forensic accountant and Fraud Coach Tracy Coenan has been working in corporate America and high net-worth divorces to help her clients discover financial misbehavior. In this episode, she identifies the most common red flags anyone can use to spot potential financial fraud.  She also breaks down the steps you c...

CPA Sylwia Nazar is a perfect example of the American Dream in action. She came to the United States from Poland when she was 19 years old. Since then, she has risen to partnership in a major accounting firm and is committed to helping other women climb the ladder of success as well. In this episode of Off the Fence , Sylwia demystifies the complex world of divorce and taxes. She explains the esse...

How can small businesses cope when their employees are distracted by divorce? In this episode, certified HR professional Traci Austin shares her insights about how understanding the unique needs of each employee contributes to business success. Traci explores how the seasons of life (marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, or dealing with an aging parent) can affect an employee's performance...

Do you ever feel like connecting with your kids is an uphill battle? Today's episode features an enlightening conversation with Rita Morris, a parent coach and psychotherapist, who sheds light on how we can strengthen our relationships with our children by meeting them where they're at and teaching them decision-making skills from a young age. Rita discusses how to navigate differing par...

Are you prepared to navigate the complexities of Gray Divorce and uncover the potential for personal growth that comes with it? Join this conversation with Andrew Hatherley, founder and CEO of Wiser Divorce Solutions, Transcend Retirement, and host of the Gray Divorce podcast.  Andrew dives deeply into the concept of post-traumatic growth and how it can help those going through a divorce develop r...

When Kathryn Hoffman had to sell her home in her divorce in late 2009 she quickly discovered that her realtor didn’t have the divorce expertise required to answer her questions or help her make the best decisions.  Fast forward to today and as a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert Kathryn now helps her divorcing clients get the information and support they need to sell their homes for the best pr...

Taking control of your finances doesn't have to be complicated or difficult. But if you want to be financially secure, it's necessary. That's true no matter who you are or what the state of your finances may be. It's especially true when you're navigating a challenging lifecycle event, like divorce or the death of a spouse. Cris Kalivas has been guiding her clients at ever...

Show Notes Relationship success starts with choosing the right person to be your spouse or partner, and then making sure that you and your spouse/partner are on the same page about the issues that matter. That includes talking about your values, how you feel about children, and your visions and ideas about money. Theresa Kulat is a lawyer, mediator, Collaborative Divorce Professional, and energy w...

About Maria As a Dating and Love Coach, Maria Spears empowers her clients to confidently navigate the dating world and find the love of their life, without wasting time or settling for being single.  They create the best relationship of their lives and an extraordinary life with a partner who loves and cherishes them.    Where to Connect with Maria You can find Maria on Facebook at Maria Spears, D...