Now I Get It, with Dr. Andy

Have you ever felt unloved—even when surrounded by people who care for you? In this episode of Now I Get It , I unpack the paradox of “dying of thirst in an ocean of love.” Just like seawater can’t quench your thirst, love that isn’t recognized or understood can leave us feeling empty, no matter how much is actually there. Through a metaphor-rich exploration, I walk you through four key questions...

When it comes to business, measurement is everything—or at least, that’s what we like to believe. In this episode of Now I Get It , I dive into the hidden traps of relying on metrics as tools for rewards or punishments and how doing so destroys their actual value. I also unpack how numbers get gamed, why this leaves businesses flying blind, and what the latest economic data reveals about our colle...

When people say, “That’s not what I voted for,” it reveals a common misunderstanding about how representative democracy actually functions. In this episode of Now I Get It, I share personal stories—from my early attempts to call my representative, to watching my own business collapse under the weight of trade games—that reveal just how little control voters truly have once the ballots are cast. Ca...

This week on Now I Get It , I dive into the real reason conspiracy theories—like those around Jeffrey Epstein—are taking hold of the public imagination. Spoiler: It’s not just wild speculation. I walk you through how trust in our legal, political, and economic systems has eroded, why this distrust is historically grounded, and how the foundations of American democracy are being tested in real time...

I'm Andrew Winkler, and in this episode of Now I Get It , I dive into one of the most overlooked causes of low literacy: the surprising complexity behind how we learn to read. We explore why simply recognizing words isn't enough—and why relying on context clues or outdated teaching strategies can leave learners guessing. I also explain how our brains process sounds and why phonemic awareness (thou...

I'm Andrew Winkler, and in this episode of Now I Get It , I dive into one of the most overlooked causes of low literacy: the surprising complexity behind how we learn to read. We explore why simply recognizing words isn't enough—and why relying on context clues or outdated teaching strategies can leave learners guessing. I also explain how our brains process sounds and why phonemic awareness (thou...

In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Andrew Winkler explores the psychology behind decision-making and how personality type influences whether we act quickly or hesitate. Drawing from John Cleese’s idea of the “last responsible moment,” Dr. Andy explains how people fall into two camps: those who feel pressure to decide quickly, and those who grow anxious if forced to decide too soon. By breaking...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I break down the real story behind tariffs—who actually pays them, how they affect the prices you see on store shelves, and why politicians might not be telling the full truth. Using real-world examples from manufacturing and retail, I explain the flow of goods and costs from producer to consumer, revealing why a 130% tariff isn’t just a number—it’s a seismic shif...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I explore what I call a "war on reality"—a conflict playing out across education, economics, and politics. Using a personal family story, I trace the long-reaching impact of the GI Bill on class structure and opportunity in America. From there, we dive into comparative advantage, the dangers of global trade dependency, and how geopolitical hotspots like Taiwan rev...

In this episode of Now I Get It , Dr. Andy unpacks the often misunderstood world of tariffs—what they are, how they function, and why they matter far beyond simple price tags. He shares a real-world story about selling bomber jackets for dogs to explain how tariffs work at the ground level and discusses who ultimately bears the cost: the importer, the customer, or even the manufacturer. Through th...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I dive into the powerful role of introverted intuition—what I like to call “the seer”—and how it silently shapes our ability to love, hope, and connect. We’ll explore how this cognitive function helps us interpret symbolism, predict the future, and make meaning out of our experiences—all key ingredients in thriving relationships. Whether it’s the symbolic weight o...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I explore one of the most dynamic and misunderstood cognitive functions: intuition—specifically, its outward-facing form, known as extroverted intuition or “the brainstormer.” We dive into how this function generates creative options, seeks out new possibilities, and thrives on surprise and novelty. I unpack how this cognitive tool fuels innovation, shapes our per...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I dive deep into the world of introverted feeling—our internal compass that helps us navigate relationships, values, and the concept of right and wrong. We explore how this function influences our interactions, the way we express love, and the distinct gestures and movement styles that reveal how deeply we engage with our inner truths. Understanding introverted fe...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I dive deep into the cognitive function of extroverted feeling—also known as "the connector." I explore how this function influences the way we navigate social interactions, express emotions, and build relationships. I break down the different personality types that rely on extroverted feeling as their primary way of perceiving and interacting with the world. Also...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I explore the cognitive function known as the Sequencer and its role in love and relationships. The sequencer helps individuals organize tasks, plan efficiently, and structure their interactions with others. I explain how those who rely on this function express love primarily through acts of service, ensuring that tasks are completed in a timely and thoughtful man...

In this episode, I dive deep into the intricate relationship between cognitive functions and love—focusing specifically on the analyst function. I share how our unique ways of processing the world can lead us to express and perceive love in vastly different manners. By understanding these distinct cognitive wavelengths, I explain how we can bridge the gap between our own expressions of love and wh...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I dive deep into the cognitive function I call the Guardian. I explain how this function goes beyond simple memory recall—it’s a dynamic process that compares our present experiences with past memories to generate vital insights. I share how the Guardian ensures that things go right by noticing deviations from our established routines, whether it’s adjusting a rec...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I dive deep into the concept of the "Scout" cognitive function. The Scout function focuses on sensory awareness, helping us tune into the world around us in exquisite detail. Whether through sight, sound, smell, or touch, this function helps us process what is real and exists in our environment. I explain how the Scout operates in a person's life and how this heig...

In this episode of Now I Get It , I dive into the fascinating topic of complimentary neuroses in relationships. I explain how we tend to be drawn to people whose unresolved patterns and neuroses compliment our own, creating a sense of wholeness. While this dynamic can feel comforting at first, over time, it often leads to conflict and challenges that provide an opportunity for growth and transform...

Today, we dive into the fascinating concept of complimentary neuroses in relationships and explore how our individual developmental stages and attachment styles, shaped by early childhood experiences, influence the partners we are drawn to and the dynamics that ensue. I explain that our attractions and tolerances often align with our own neuroses, creating complementary relationships that are both...

Today, we return to the concept of interaction style to cover a facet to it that I haven't addressed previously, but that turns out to be a bit more significant and well worth focusing on. Welcome to episode nine of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy . I’m talking about the concept of the four interaction styles and the core values that are associated with them. Tune in and listen as I explore h...

In many countries, there is a significant difference in the perception of the culture between males and females. This is just one of the reasons why authoritarian movements have a very strong opposition to any sort of differences in sexuality, sexual identity, and sexual orientation—because many of those ideas fly in the face of a cultural value that says that these are very fundamental difference...

A lot of people are confused when they think about life, how life happens and how it's possible, but if you take a look at that bright yellow thing in the sky, there's a lot of energy coming from it. If you let it soak into your skin, you'll notice that there's real energy there. If you put solar cells on your house, you can see a very significant, measurable amount of energy captured.  Welco...

It's easy to condemn the horrific actions of Nazis, fascists, and various other authoritarian movements. On both the left and the right, there are been groups that are murderous and highly abusive of human rights. Nevertheless, I find myself compelled to argue that we should be compassionate towards those people, even as we obviously condemn the damaging and horrific actions they perform. Welcome...

AI is undoubtedly one of humanity's greatest inventions, transforming industries and simplifying millions of lives. But as we see it evolve at lightning speed, inevitable questions arise: is this technology sustainable? Can we trust it to remain harmless? Let's find out, shall we?   Welcome to episode five of Now I Get It with Dr. Andy . Today, we explore the evolution and development of...