Note to Self

#105. While Summer is entirely over, we’re reflecting on Summer SO FAR. From learning to let go, to thinking bigger, to setting boundaries with family & friends, Payton is sharing what she’s learned through the last summer in her 20s in this *extremely* transparent episode.  SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self &...

#104. The art of detachment takes practice, and Payton’s trying her best to learn how to just LET GO. In this episode of Note to Self, we’re talking the basics of detachment, letting life surprise you, and how tough it can be to detach from people, plans & outcomes.  SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FO...

#103. Payton sits down with friend, TikTok creator, YouTuber, & Wimbledon style ICON, Morgan Riddle in today’s episode. Morgan shares her always on-the-go travel hacks from packing tips to beating jet-lag. The two also talk long-distance relationships, dating professional athletes and maintaining independence from your partner.  SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION:&nbsp...

#102. In this episode, Payton is discussing the simple ways she elevates her everyday to make life feel luxurious & indulgent. We’re focusing in on small actions & rituals that won’t break the bank, but will make you feel like a million bucks.  SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FOLLOW PAYTON: https:...

#101. In this installment of ASK P, Payton answers listener questions about initial break-up anxiety, living with a partner with a different lifestyle, being stuck at a job you’re too good for, & more. Really, she’s just prescribing everyone a heavy dose of ‘villain era’ activity, as per usual.  SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/colle...

#100. Payton is in the hot-seat in a chaotic, 100th episode Truth-or-Drink special. Bestie and friend-of-the-pod, Emon Abdullah, is taking her job of interrogator extremely seriously in this one, so  buckle up.  SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain  ...

#99. Payton sits down with friend and fellow Texan, Kelli Anne Sewell , to sip some tequila and talk about GOING FOR IT in terms of career. Kelli takes us through the process of quitting her corporate job to pursue becoming a makeup artist and social personality.  SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FOLLOW PA...

#98. We’ve discussed the wholesome-to-feral spectrum we’re living on this summer, and today’s episode is dedicated to the wholesome, weekdays versions of ourselves. Payton is partnering with Nike (yes, NIKE) to bring y’all a full episode about healthy habits (think: mind, body AND soul) she’s cultivating this Summer.  SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION:  https://shop....

#97. First off, the LUCKY GIRL MERCH is LIVE, and just in time for summer. In the next installment of the NTS Summer Series, Payton is sitting down with Brooke Miccio & Danielle Carolan, the ladies behind Gals on the Go podcast, to discuss summertime favorites from skincare, to books, to apps and more. We’re getting DETAILED in this episode.    SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLE...

#96. Payton is joined by friend-of-the-pod, Kimberly Landa, for a discussion on crafting your *perfect* day spent solo. Learning to enjoy alone time, regardless of your relationship status, is such an important part of falling in love with yourself! We’re talking in detail about creating the most amazing solo day of all time in today’s episode.    SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTIO...

#95. We’re continuing the NTS Summer Series with today’s episode as we discuss the state of the union for our hot girl summer. We’re talking whats IN & whats OUT in order to have your best summer ever.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:   https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain   https://www.tiktok.com/@payton...

#94. Hot girls, listen UP! We are kicking off the Summer series with an episode on prepping for the best summer of all time. From building a summer wardrobe, to day trips with the girls, to absolute *reckless* flirting, we’re getting in the mindset for hot girl summer.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self     FOLLOW PAYTON: htt...

#93. In this installment of Ask P, Payton answer listener questions about witnessing friends in bad relationships, realizing you're outgrowing your friends, and how to decide when it's time for a life pivot.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self     FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@pa...

#92. Model Madi Teeuws joins Payton on NTS today to talk some silly goofy times before getting into Madi’s experience with a stalker. If you’re not into life updates or Stagecoach reminiscing, skip the first 15 minutes or so. Post-update, we’re talking about the process Madi went through due to her stalker, from the court-room to her mental state.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECT...

#91. Payton recaps her recent trip to Austin, TX for Dear Media IRL— spoiler alert: she’s in the midst of a week-long hangover. In today’s episode, we’re talking about the ups & downs of growing up in a military family, and what it taught (& continues to teach) Payton about life in general.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-...

#90. Sam Abrahart, mental health advocate and Founder & CEO of The Mayfair Group, shares how she has learned to face her fear, how she’s healed to become a better leader, and how she prioritizes impact over income in her business.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain   htt...

#89. We are talking venture capital, angel investing, & the future of female-founded startups with Startup Queen, Maggie Sellers. Think of this as your beginner’s guide to all things VC and angel investing.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self     FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/...

#88. In this installment of Ask P, Payton is answering listener questions about trusting new friends, healing through a breakup, building a following on social media, and her birth control experience.    SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self     FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain   https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsart...

#87. We’re talking all about maintaining your own independence in a long-term relationship with Pia Mance. Pia married her high-school sweetheart a few years ago, and is sharing all the tips for how to keep your relationship thriving through space, living your own fulfilled life while married, and building your own community through it all.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  h...

#86. The internet’s agent, Robyn DelMonte (AKA: GIRLBOSSTOWN), is on Note to Self today talking the importance of building a digital resumé, how to brand yourself on social media, PR moves for your breakup, and MUCH more.    SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self     FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www...

#85. From strength training to giving up true crime - we're talking about all of the things I'm doing to feel, look and live better.   SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:    https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain   https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → As...

#84. We are discussing shadow work, how to identify limiting beliefs, and how to push past our mental narrative to align with your most abundant, aligned self with Anna Grace Newell. Anna Grace takes Payton through a live intuitive reading, and the two share an example of what shadow work looks like IRL.    SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collection...

#83. Payton sits down with tiktok creator Becca Moore to discuss Los Angeles life, dating older men & things that are ABSOLUTELY NOT for the boys.    SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self     FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh   SU...

#82. Payton sits down with her EX-Best Friend, Kirsten Ritchie (AKA High End Hippie) to discuss the ins-&-outs of friendship in your 20s, friendship breakups, and to clear the air on what REALLY went down between the two.    SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self   FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www....

#81. In this month’s episode of Ask P, we’re talking about loneliness, making friends, focussing on YOU, & dealing with the anxiety that comes with society’s timeline.    SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION:  https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self     FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c...