Note to Self

#169. We’re talking mental AND physical health in this season’s installment of ‘healthy habits.’ I’m not looking to dedicate all of my time to wellness, and in typical NTS fashion, my healthy habits are pretty low-lift ways to incorporate wellness into my every day. So, welcome to my REALISTIC take on a healthy-girl lifestyle.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    h...

#168. A little trigger warning for today’s episode — we are discussing the topic of miscarriage. specifically, my recent experience with an incomplete miscarriage (VERY early, too). this isn’t your normal NTS ep, but I felt the urge to finally share what I’ve been dealing with for the last month and a half. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@pay...

#167. The girls from The Confident Collective are on Note to Self to discuss feeling SEXY. Feeling sexy in your own skin can be complicated for many of us (I know it has been a journey for me, thus far), we’re talking about a few things that make us feel sexy pretty much immediately. This episode is inspired by a series on TikTok by Greta Louise Tomé.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/pay...

Episode Description:  #166. In this month’s installment of ASK P, we are discussing a few issues plaguing our early 20-something listeners. From rushing to the alter, to long-distance with no end in sight, Payton’s doing her best to give the girlies some advice.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.c...

#165. Halley & Jaz, the hosts of Delusional Diaries podcast, are on Note to Self to discuss living online in your twenties. We’re talking about making friends in a big city, getting back with your ex, owning your personality, boundaries on the internet, and JUSTICE for the monotone girlies.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsart...

#164. Surprise! To celebrate a new era of Note to Self, we’re discussing exactly how to reinvent yourself to step into a new era of YOU. Thank you guys  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain   https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain   SUBMIT...

#163. We are talking all things getting dressed with the founder of Aureum, Cass DiMicco. In honor of fashion month, we sat down with the influencer-turned-entrepreneur to discuss building a capsule wardrobe, the art of accessorizing, building a business, & working with your partner.  Get 20% off when you shop at https://aureumcollective.com when you use code NOTE20 FOLLOW CASS ON IG: @ca...

#162. A short & sweet supplement to New York Fashion Week — we are getting granular about where the cool girls shop. I’m sharing where my coolest friends are shopping, from affordable, everyday staples to dresses for special life moments.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh http...

#161. As a chronic over-thinker, I’m attempting to embrace the beautiful art of under-analyzing. In today’s episode, we are talking about intercepting ruminating thoughts, focusing on the facts, and learning to live outside of our heads. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon....

#160. This month’s ASK P covers some ground, from romantic relationships to friendships. We’re making a case for loneliness, learning to communicate, discussing the phases of romantic relationships, and more. As always, I’m doing my best to offer guidance, but really its just an excuse to be NOSEY. Thanks for your submissions always and don’t forget to leave your own ASK P at the submission link b...

#159. We’re checking in on Summer 2024 with a few lessons learned, some of my summertime favorites & a bucket list for the rest of summer 2024. We’re making the most of the time we have left! Remember to check in with yourself, too.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://am...

#158. Sometimes I like to verge on the side of witch-y, and today we’re diving into a more spiritual realm with everyday rituals to keep us present. I use the word “ritual,” vs “routine,” because a ritual evokes a certain intention or meaning, rather than simply being a series of actions. We’re talking daily rituals for morning and evening, and more specific rituals for special moments like birthd...

#157. I’m a self-diagnosed doom-scroller, just like anyone else, and I’ve been looking for a cure to this illness. Really, it’s an imbalance in dopamine that’s ruining my life, so in today’s episode, we’re talking about little ways to replace your doom-scrolling with something more dopamine-efficient. Enter: DOPAMINE MENU. We’re discussing my own dopamine menu and how to create your own.  FOL...

#156. In this month’s installment of ASK P, we are discussing breakups, long-time-coming and sudden, letting go of friendships, the fear of making a big move, and relinquishing control on occasion.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain   http...

#155. My infamous trainer, Chelsey Rose Health, is on Note to Self to talk strength training, her approach to diet exercise, and how she got me in the absolute* best* shape of my *entire life.*  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain   https://...

#154. Maggie Sellers is a Los Angeles based angel investor and syndicate lead, and the founder of the digital media company Hot Smart Rich. Hot Smart Rich empowers startup founders, investors, creators, operators and other aspiring knowledge workers with real business insights by cutting out the boys club bullshit and getting real about what it takes for women to dominate in a man’s world. Today w...

#153. Note to Self is wholly rooted in guilt-free self-love and self-indulgence. Practicing the art of self love can look different for everyone, but today we’re getting specific about using our love languages to reconnect with ourselves. Whether you’re a quality time, acts of service, physical touch, gift-giving, or words-of-affirmation girly, this episode contains a few ideas to inspire you to l...

#152. I’m learning how to prioritize relaxation, reducing cortisol (& its effects on my body) and detoxing from a dopamine-fueled life this summer. Today I’m sharing 5 ways I’m making that happen.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain   h...

#151. Summer is basically upon us, so I’m getting my sh*t together, kinda last minute, to have the best summer of my entire life. FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain   https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain   SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Ad...

#150. In this installment of ASK P, I’m answering listener questions about disrespectful family dynamics, big life decisions, cheating, breakups & more.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain   https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain   SU...

#149. In this week’s BONUS EP, we’re getting into the nitty gritty of every hot girl’s favorite: the morning walk. We’re talking about what I’m doing to get the absolute most out of my daily walk, so I can heighten that post-walk euphoria. This episode is in partnership with Nike!  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   htt...

#148. Today’s episode is a little darker than normal, but I need to discuss a topic that’s weighing heavily on me as of late: what to do when you’re at a mental health ‘rock bottom.’ Whether it’s you or someone else you know, having mental health lulls happens, especially in the world we live in today. Life can get overwhelming, so let’s talk about my plan to pull myself out of a mental low-point....

#147. My much-anticipated episode with one of my best friend’s since college, Laurel Carrell Marsh is FINALLY here. In this ep, Laurel, one of the coolest, most confident people I’ve ever met is, teaching us how to practice confidence in dating, work, & everyday life. We talk about unapologetically going after what you want, and what that actually looks like IRL. We love Lallie!  FOLLOW P...

#146. Have you ever met someone who is just f*cking COOL? Just effortlessly themselves? When I think of the coolest people I know (namely, my friends), I realize they have a few personality traits in common. In this episode, I’m detailing specific traits that the coolest people I know possess, so you and I can join their ranks.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain   ...

#145. Tenured professor and Sex & Relationship Expert, Dr. Tara is on NTS to answer listener questions about sex, ranging from sweet to raunchy. This is an extra spicy episode y’all are going to love.  FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain    https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain   https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh https://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain &nbs...