Alissa Boyer

Not Too Sensitive - Empowering Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) To Own Their Sensitivity

Have you been told you're "too sensitive" or "too emotional"? Do you often feel drained by other people? Are you moved to tears easily? If so... you just may be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP). Join host and HSP Mentor, Alissa Boyer, as she breaks the stigma of sensitivity and teaches you how to embrace your sensitivity as a gift. Here, you'll always be welcomed exactly as you are. New episodes every Tuesday!

Author

Alissa Boyer

Category

Education

Podcast website

www.sensitiveandsoulful.com

Latest episode

Jul 7, 2026

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Episodes

151. You Are Not Responsible for Other People’s Perception of You (A Must-Listen for Recovering People-Pleasers!) 23.07.2024

In this episode, we're discussing the importance of not letting others' perceptions determine your self-worth. Highlighting real-life examples and personal experiences, I explore why people might form negative opinions, including past traumas and differing social preferences. She emphasizes the value of authenticity, emotional intelligence, and the need for highly sensitive people to manage trigge...

150. What To Do When Other People Don't Have Your Heart Or Care As Much As You Do 16.07.2024

In today's episode, we talk about how highly sensitive people (HSPs) can navigate life with empowerment and confidence despite feeling frustrated when others don't share their level of empathy and care. We also talk about the need for HSPs to build self-worth and self-confidence to become leaders and positively impact the world. Hit play to hear about the importance of self-acceptance and viewing...

149. Who Are You BEING When Life Feel Hard? (Your happiness, peace, & personal growth depends on THIS) 09.07.2024

Today's episode is all about who you're actually BEING when life feels hard. We talk about the importance of personal growth through the challenges we face, of course sharing my personal take and client stories that highlight the significance of stepping out of default responses and learning to navigate life with empowerment and self-trust. Hit play for a much-needed reminder that life's challenge...

148. 5 Ways To Support Yourself When You Feel Like You're Not Good Enough 02.07.2024

In today's episode, we talk about five actionable steps for highly sensitive people to improve self-worth and confidence when feeling "not good enough" or being overly self-critical. We cover positive self-focus, inner child compassion, the importance of supportive social connections, physical movement, and the powerful practice of EFT tapping (SUCH a huge game changer!). As always this episode pr...

147. Our Addiction To External Validation & How To Change It 25.06.2024

In today's episode, we're talking about the pervasive issue of external validation and how it impacts our lives. I share my personal experience with the addiction to external validation, fueled by social media and past insecurities (are you ready to let that go, too?!) Learn how to identify and address these triggers, understand the importance of self-validation, and find opportunities for growth...

146. You Matter (How To Make Yourself A Priority As A Highly Sensitive Person) with Matt Landsiedel 18.06.2024

Does it feel HARD for you to slow down? Maybe you're worried about "falling behind", disappointing others, or not living up to your potential. In this Sensitive & Empowered conversation, Matt and I get vulnerable and share our experiences with struggling to prioritize ourselves, what we're doing to change that, and practical things you can do as an HSP or empath to show yourself that YOU matte...

145. Choosing Discomfort & How My Recovering People-Pleaser Client Had A Tough Conversation With Confidence 11.06.2024

In today's episode, we explore the profound impact of people pleasing, challenging the notion that it is purely selfless (trust me - you'll gasp just like I did!). We talk about how people pleasing often stems from avoiding personal discomfort, the importance of expanding our tolerance for discomfort, and choosing to speak up for ourselves- even when it feels challenging. Hit play for practical ad...

144. Am I Overreacting? How to Stop Second-Guessing & Start TRUSTING Yourself 04.06.2024

In today's episode, we're talking about the importance of self-trust for highly sensitive people (HSPs). I'm sharing insights into why HSPs often struggle with self-confidence and self-reliance, tracing it back to childhood experiences and societal misunderstandings, the need for self-awareness, and of course practical steps to actually build self-trust, starting with small daily actions. As alway...

143. [Relationship Series Part 6] Do You Get Defensive & Triggered Easily? This One’s For You! 28.05.2024

In this final episode of the six-part relationships series, we talk about the concept of emotional triggers and implications for highly sensitive people (HSPs) in relationships and how triggers can expose unmet needs or past wounds and of course, examples to illustrate how individuals can take ownership of their reactions and emotions. I give tools and practices to transform from feeling anxious a...

142. [Relationship Series Part 5] How To Stop Feeling So Anxious In Your Relationships 21.05.2024

In today's episode, we dive into the topic of inner healing and personal development within relationships, specifically focusing on the anxious overthinker archetype. I talk about my journey of transforming my relationship through self-work and how it positively influenced my husband to also engage in personal development. I also touch on the underlying causes of relationship anxiety such as anxio...

141. [Relationship Series Part 4] Feeling Misunderstood, Different, & Not Accepted As An HSP 14.05.2024

In today's episode, we focus on the 'misunderstood empath' archetype. We dive into the struggles faced by highly sensitive people, particularly in relationships, focusing on feelings of being misunderstood, avoiding situations due to overwhelming energy, and seeking acceptance. Of course, this episode also offers insights, tools, and encouragement to embrace your sensitivity, set boundaries, and f...

140. [Relationships Series Part 3] The Overfunctioning Empath (How To Stop Feeling Overly Responsible for Everyone Else) w/ Matt Landsiedel 07.05.2024

We are diving into Part THREE of the 6-Part Relationships Series where we’re diving into each of the HSP Relationship Archetypes in preparation for my brand new relationships course for HSPs, Confident & Content Relationships! In this episode, Matt and I talk about the "Overfunctioning Empath" aka the person who often finds themself feeling overly responsible for everyone else -- their energy,...

139. [Relationships Series Part 2] Why HSPs Find Themselves In Toxic Relationships 30.04.2024

In this episode, part 2 of a 6 part relationship series, we dive into the "insecure self-doubter" relationship archetype, particularly focusing on how low self-worth and insecurity can lead to an unhealthy relationship. I also share my personal experience to illustrate exactly how a lack of self-worth caused me to tolerate poor treatment in relationships. This is one you truly don't want to miss!...

138. [Relationship Series Part 1] HSPs And The Trap of Always Being The "Good Girl" 23.04.2024

In today's episode, part 1 of a 6 part relationship series, we dive into the 'good girl' persona and its challenges for highly sensitive people (HSP's). I discuss the struggle with setting boundaries and expressing needs due to fear and uncertainty. We focus on the people-pleasing good girl archetype, exploring why it forms, how it affects us, and how to slowly step out of this role by accepting d...

137. Are You Using Overwhelm As An Excuse To Avoid Something Hard? 16.04.2024

In today's episode, we talk about the common tendency among highly sensitive persons (HSPs) to choose overwhelm as an excuse to avoid uncomfortable situations and feelings. We, as HSPs, can become easily overwhelmed due to our sensitive nervous systems and today's episode is all about how we can better manage our sensitivity, overcome procrastination, and still achieve our goals. Recommended compl...

136. Stop Letting Other People Dictate How YOU Feel 09.04.2024

In this episode, we're talking about a common blind spot among HSPs: letting other people's actions, moods, and energies overly influence your emotional state. Recognizing this disempowerment, advocating for the practice of cutting energetic cords, and encouraging you to take ownership of your feelings and triggers is exactly what you'll get in this episode. 🌸 🌸 🌸 Grab my FREE cord-cutting medi...

135. A Subtle Shift That Will Make You Seem Way More Confident 02.04.2024

In today's episode, I share a mindset shift that promotes self-confidence and reduces the urge to overexplain or justify your actions. As a highly-sensitive person, enhancing your self-esteem and how it can transform interactions in both personal and professional settings is right around the corner for you! I encourage you to adopt this mindset of owning your choices confidently without feeling th...

134. 2 Tips For Improving Your Relationship With A Non-HSP 26.03.2024

In today's episode, we talk about the challenges that highly sensitive people face in relationships, especially when partners are not as sensitive. We talk about feeling misunderstood and how to communicate needs effectively to improve relationships. In this episode, you'll learn: -What you personally can take ownership of TODAY to start making changes and noticing a difference -How to navigate re...

133. Why Nervous System Regulation Isn't Solving All Your Problems 19.03.2024

Today's episode is all about the common struggles of highly sensitive people and why simply focusing on calming techniques and nervous system regulation may not fully address the root causes of overwhelm and overthinking. Through personal experiences and client examples, I explain the importance of understanding the deeper reasons behind our struggles and how these are often interconnected with se...

132. The Power of Leaning Into Discomfort w/Matt Landsiedel [Sensitive & Empowered Series] 12.03.2024

In this episode, Matt and I talk about the challenges HSPs can have leaning into discomfort, and what to do about it. We each share personal stories about leaning into what makes us uncomfortable and how we've managed to come out the other side feeling more empowered. Come and learn new ways to face fears and lean into the discomfort that life can throw at you. On the other side of learning to be...

131. Life Is Challenging You For A Reason (Empowering Mindset Shift!) 05.03.2024

In today's episode, I dive deep into a mindset shift that has been a game changer for me and my clients! I discuss how challenging life circumstances are opportunities for growth and expansion, rather than obstacles meant to make our lives harder. We are given the exact circumstances we need to practice becoming the person we desire to be and the importance of embracing discomfort as a path to sel...

130. What to Do When People Feel Like They're Walking on Eggshells Around You 27.02.2024

If you've ever had the feeling that people may not be telling you everything because they're afraid of how you might react, you're not alone. I had two different people ask me this similar question and knew I had to make a podcast episode on it because it definitely rings true! In this episode, you'll learn: About recognizing when you may be reacting too quickly How to move through and regulate yo...

129. The Surprising Thing That's Making You Seem LESS Confident 20.02.2024

The way we carry ourselves impacts how we interact with the world and build relationships with others. And this one simple tweak could have a huge impact on your confidence. You belong in all the rooms you walk into and I want you to act like it! Because you are a light and you belong. In this episode, you'll learn: Some tips to boost your confidence That you can always be a light and a leader in...

128. Experimental Energy - My Secret to Having More Fun [Bonus Episode] 16.02.2024

Life doesn't have to be so gosh dang hard all the time. What if we started treating the scary things in our lives as expirements?? What if that work event we're afraid to go socialize at, we just treat as an experiment? What about the business you want to start? What if you just try! In this episode, you'll learn: Why life is so much more fun when you shift your mindset. How experiment...

127. Why I Believe HSPs are Here to Make a Big Impact 13.02.2024

As an HSP, you have two options: "I hate my sensitivity. How can I hide it so no one finds out?" OR "How can I use my sensitivity as a super power?" Spoiler: the people who view it as a strength are the ones who will change the world! You get to decide that as an HSP, you have special gifts and talents that no one else has. You get to bring balance to a world that needs it. In this episode, you'll...

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