Not Alone Today Podcast (Chronological Bible Reading Plan)

In this episode, Joseph and Anu respond to Kunle's question about sensing a call into pastoral ministry. Kunle asks:   "I am at a point in my life where I strongly feel that I have a calling into pastoral ministry. I have also gotten confirmations from friends and pastors about this. So, if I may ask, what is pastoral ministry all about? I feel so unqualified in this regard. Besides, when you...

In this episode, Joseph and Anu respond to Kemi's question about using jewelleries as a Christian lady. She asks: "I've been raised in a conservative home since birth such that I don't have earring holes not to talk of using earrings. But right from my childhood, I've always desired to use jewellery but everyone around me believes that it's a pathway to eternity in hell. Now I know better. But whi...

In this episode, Joseph and Anu respond to the questions of Tunde. He asks: "What are the tool kits you engaged with and the persons you followed critically for your growth and development?" Some of the factors discussed in the episode include Salvation, Service, Relationships, Giving, Prayer, Training and Resources, Failures, Exposure, Curiosity and the superintending role of the Holy Spirit.

In this episode, Joseph and Anu respond to the questions of John and Chioma. John asks: "How should intending couples talk about sex before marriage while also trying to be cautious about their minds and not get carried away? Why should this be discussed before marriage and not till after the wedding? What should be the issues to be discussed when having such a discussion?" Chioma, on the other ha...

In this episode, Joseph and Anu respond to Debbie's question about a friend who left his church. She wants to know how best to respond in a scenario where for one reason or the other, you no longer (or never did) like your local assembly. We also offered a brief comment on the recent scandal around late Ravi Zacharias.  SCRIPTURAL VERSES REFERENCED Psalm 68:6 AMPC " God places the solitary in...

In this episode, Joseph and Anu respond to Chichi's question (directed to Anu). She wants to know her thoughts on marrying a pastor as she's currently in a relationship with a brother who is into "full time ministry" (in her own words).  SCRIPTURAL VERSE REFERENCED 1 Timothy 4:16 KJV " Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine ; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thy...

In this episode, we add a sequel to our conversation from the previous episode about handling sexual attraction during courtship. Specifically, based on listeners' feedback, we consider what this would look like for those who are already very sexually active. RESOURCES MENTIONED The Act of Marriage: The Beauty of Sexual Love by Tim and Beverly LaHaye The Meaning of Sex by Walter Trobisch OTHER RES...

In this episode, we respond to Kate's questions. She asks: 1. How do you handle being sexually attracted to your hopeful future partner? 2. How do you handle being sexually attracted to someone else while you are in a relationship with your hopeful future partner? This episode is our response to her question. MORE RESOURCES Joseph and Anu have many other resources which you can find via the links...

In this episode, we respond to TK's question. On one hand, he wanted to know how to process not liking the person God is leading him to marry, and on the other hand, he wanted us to speak into the subject of age difference between a guy and a lady in a marital relationship. SCRIPTURES REFERENCED "Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.” (Psalm 37:4 NKJV)...

In this episode, we (Joseph and Anu) discuss the sensitive subject of BREAKUPS. We touched on how to manage it and how to do it right (when it becomes necessary to do it). Some of the points discussed include the following: In the aftermath of a breakup, don't minimise your pain, hurt, or grief. Give expression to it. Maximise the learning opportunity that your break up affords you. Take time to h...

In this episode, as we begin a new year (2021), we pause to reflect on the lessons 2020 and the global COVID-19 pandemic taught us. A snapshot of these lessons include the following among others: Growth is ALWAYS happening, whether or not we notice it. God likes to dwell in the GRADUAL. Serving God can be fun. Time Management - "Saying Yes" versus "Saying No" The profound powers of technology dema...

In this episode, we respond to Theresa's question. She asks: "I've been trying to get my partner to have a mentor since our relationship began two years ago but he's yet to do so. I believe that having a mentor will lessen our fights and help him identify and work on some areas of his life. He says that he looks up to some great men of God but I'd rather he has mentors whom he has direct access to...

In this episode, we respond to the complementary questions of Lydia and Peter. Their questions (asked independently for different relationships) seem to be about the same issue: How to correct one's partner in a relationship.  Lydia asks: "Most times when I try to tell my fiance that what he did is wrong or painful, he always ends up getting angry and ignoring my calls (and much more) just be...

In this episode, we respond to Bibi's question on the differences between DATING and COURTSHIP. She asks: "I have a question to ask about Christian relationships. I read a statement that says 'Christians don't date; they court.' I'll like to know the difference between both. It will be helpful if could shed more light on the pattern a godly relationship should follow. Thanks." In the episode, we:...

In today's episode, we respond to Felix's question. He asks: "I was addicted to masturbation but I'm on a journey of recovery. Prior to this, I had other girls that I use to satisfy my sexual urges with and I also masturbate to satisfy my urge. Whereas, I'm also in a relationship and practising no-sex-before-marriage with my partner. Now that I'm getting better and on a journey to recovery, my que...

In this episode, we respond to two similar questions. The first from Tracy and the second for John. Tracy says "I've just seen a result today. The lecturer for the course was very strict. In all the three sets of continuous assessments he gave us (which amounted to 30% of the marks obtainable), I tried all I could and I ended up with 14 out of 30. I prayed earnestly, believing in God for a better...

A listener, Susan, asks Anu: "When you were courting Joseph and your marriage was drawing closer, did you have any fears? If you did, how did you overcome them?" This episode is our response to her question. Relevant Resource: Joseph and Anu's book titled "Marriage in View" available on Amazon . You can check out other free resources from Joseph and Anu here: https://linktr.ee/josephola

A listener, Lynda, asks: "Many people come out boldly and say 'God told me this' or 'God told me that' but I can't boldly say the same. I know that the Bible says 'as many as are led by the Spirit are the sons and daughters of God.' I have tried to get messages on this subject but most of the messages I've found have no practical steps. Perhaps you may have some recommendations on messages and boo...

We've all gone through one challenge or the other and felt, while in the middle of it, that the challenge was specific to us. This podcast exists to bust that myth. You are not alone in your struggles. In this introduction to the NOT ALONE TODAY Podcast , Joseph and Anu introduce what the podcast is about and said a few words about themselves. The podcast is built around three elements: Conversati...