NGL People

Ever wondered what really goes on in a guy's head? Or do you want to ask guys a few touchy questions but afraid of how they’ll react? Aaron and Meng Seng have spent 10 years in an all-guys school and they're here to answer your burning questions about guys. You're welcome! ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ngl.people   Telegram -...

TW (Trigger Warning) // Anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicide Journeying with our loved ones in their mental health struggles can be frustrating and frightening. “What if they reject my help?” “What if I make things worse?” “What if I spiral too?” We want to help, but don’t know how. And sometimes, the overwhelming responsibility we feel can lead to burnout. Natasha, Buan Hua and Jolee share the...

TW (Trigger Warning) // Anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicide Journeying with our loved ones in their mental health struggles can be frustrating and frightening. “What if they reject my help?” “What if I make things worse?” “What if I spiral too?” We want to help, but don’t know how. And sometimes, the overwhelming responsibility we feel can lead to burnout. Natasha, Buan Hua and Jolee share the...

Adulting in our 20s and 30s can be... intense. There’s so many things to figure out, it’s easy to feel lost and overwhelmed. That’s why we started NGL People - to create a safe space for real and unfiltered conversations about things that matter. Be it family, relationships, career, or mental wellness, we're here to figure out life together. So if that’s your cup of tea, join us for new episodes e...

TW (Trigger Warning) // Anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicide Would you talk about your mental health with a loved one or medical professional? Most people, particularly guys, would not. 40% of men won't talk about their mental health. (Priory Group) Nearly 1 in 10 men experience some form of depression or anxiety, but less than half seek treatment. (ADAA) In light of World Mental Health Day, Zh...

TW (Trigger Warning) // Anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicide Would you talk about your mental health with a loved one or medical professional? Most people, particularly guys, would not. 40% of men won't talk about their mental health. (Priory Group) Nearly 1 in 10 men experience some form of depression or anxiety, but less than half seek treatment. (ADAA) In light of World Mental Health Day, Zh...

Welcome back to Part 2 on our episode on dealing with work stress! In this episode, Zelanie, Glenn and Elyse share about what they hold on to during the peak of their stressful work situations. Watch Part 1: https://youtu.be/p-PZA0DprZo   ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ngl.people   Telegram - https://www.tinyurl.com/nglpeopletel...

While work takes up a third of our lives, the mental, physical and emotional load that comes with it is a whole lot more. How can we deal with long hours, difficult bosses/clients, and insane workload? In Part 1, Zelanie, Glenn and Elyse share how they survived their craziest work situations and tips on setting boundaries at work. Part 2 drops 31 Aug! ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.insta...

We love answering your questions so we decided to do more! 1) I'm 33 and still single. Am I hopeless? 2) Can I cohabit with my partner? 3) I don't have control over my life. What can I do? ► Ask us anything! https://ngl.link/ngl.people1   ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ngl.people   Telegram - https://www.tinyurl.com/nglpeopletel...

We love answering your questions so we decided to do more! Part 1 of 2: 1) How can I stop comparing my life with others? 2) My friend passed away and I can't look at her photos anymore 3) How to help my friend who's desperate to get attached? ► Ask us anything! https://ngl.link/ngl.people1  ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ngl.peopl...

Natasha and Zelanie sit down to answer more questions submitted by our viewers! Part 2 of 2: 1) How do I talk about my feelings with my parents? 2) How to help my friend who's desperate to get attached? 3) I'm not happy with my job. How? ► Ask us anything! https://ngl.link/ngl.people1  ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ngl.people Tel...

Natasha and Zelanie sit down to answer questions submitted by our viewers! Part 1: 1) How do I deal with my partner's anger issues? 2) How do I know whether people will stay or walk out of my life? 3) Is relationship with others really important when they don't show up for me?  Part 2 drops 2 weeks later. Stay tuned! ► Ask us anything! https://ngl.link/ngl.people1 ► Join the convo Instagram - http...

How's your relationship with your Dad? Not everyone is close with their dads. Some of us just co-exist with them. Some of us are scared of their explosive temper. Some of us have never met our dad. If you've experienced waves of disappointment, rage, and grief at the loss of what you never had with your father, you're not alone. Samantha and Weiyeat share stories growing up with their imperfect da...

This is for anyone who's spent the last few years watching friends fall in love, get married, and even have babies, but never had that full invested, committed relationship experience for themselves. Is there something wrong with me? Am I being too picky? Is it just not my time? If you've ever had these thoughts, you're not alone! Jonk and Isaac share their struggles and joys of being single in th...

From the time they gave birth, to when they raised us as infants and struggled with us in our teenage years, till they see us as adults, mothers are commonly celebrated as the ones who nurture us unconditionally and tirelessly. But what if your mum doesn't fit any of these descriptions? What if our mum isn't selfless, present, supportive, or nurturing?  In this Mother's Day special, Joanne, Merric...

MBTI, Enneagram, 'which Disney princess are you' - personality tests are really popular. They not only shed some insights and snapshots of what we're like and why, but they're also fun and a great conversation starter. But how accurate are these tests? Are they a poor excuse for bad behaviour? Would they trap us in our own judgement? Natasha, Bryan, and Faith discuss their take on personality test...

In today's hustle-culture era - juggling multiple life responsibilities, trying to score a promotion at work, and maintaining existing friendships - are we just too tired to make new friends? Can we really find new meaningful connections as we get older? Natasha, Alvin, and Haoyar share how their views and experiences of friendships evolve as they transit from being students to working adults. ► J...

What do you do when someone you love has died? Losing someone important to you is one of the hardest things to experience in life. With it comes grief - a complex emotion that can engulf and overwhelm us, or sneak up on us when we least expect it. Natasha, Daryl, and Joyce share their journeys of unexpectedly losing a loved one to death. Hear how they grapple with grief and find the light to live...

Opinions vary in this great debate. Some would say it's absolutely possible. But too often we see friendship dynamics become complicated and romantic relationships tested because of ‘friends’. Why is it so difficult for guys and girls to be 'just friends'? Can opposite-gender friendships be truly platonic? Natasha, Wei Xuan, and Zelanie bare all in their stories of connection and confusion with op...

Work-life balance, fair pay, mentorship, value alignment. Today's youngest workers want it all; and are willing to walk away if they don't get it. Shunyi, a millennial who manages a team of Gen Zs, and Wesley, a university grad fresh in the workforce, share their views on whether Gen Z workers are truly entitled. ► Join the convo Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ngl.people/ TikTok - https://w...

Guys always say they don't "get" the female sex, especially after getting into a relationship with them. And it's not just about them saying one thing but meaning something else.  "What do I say when she tells me she had a bad day?" "Why does she get upset when I try to help her solve her problems?" In this Valentine's Day Special, Daryl (who just got attached), and Brian (Natasha's husband) share...

Beyond new outfits, feasting, and red packets, Chinese New Year (CNY) is where our family dynamics come to light. If we're close to family, we'll look forward to the extended bonding time. If we aren't, we're probably bracing ourselves for awkward or even tense situations. If my family isn't close and have nothing to say to each other, what's the point of gathering during CNY? Natasha and Eileen s...

Christmas is generally seen as a time of joy and love. But for some people, it's a time of loneliness. Some wish they could be with family, but can’t. Some long for closer connections with friends. Some wish they had a special someone. Some are pressured by the need to be highly sociable and having to go for multiple gatherings. Natasha and guest speaker, Zheng Kai, share how they grapple with fee...

TW (Trigger Warning) // Weight, body types and shapes, and eating disorders Would you change anything about your body? In this era of influencer content, filters, and opinions from 'concerned' family members, it's easy to be a little insecure about how we look and what we weigh. Natasha, and our guests Cheryl and Ritchell, share their experiences with body image and beauty standards growing up, an...

Romantic breakups are painful. But friendship breakups can hurt just as bad. No matter how many years or things you've gone through together, sometimes even the best of friendships can come to an end. What do you do when you drift or fall out with a good friend? In this episode, Dennis and Natasha bare their pain, grief, and reflections from navigating the loss of a close friend. ► Join the convo...