New Life Live

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses the Toxic Family Test and how it can reveal patterns in your family of origin. I feel God is calling me to go back to my dysfunctional family in the Midwest after moving to Virginia to become a life coach; how do I know what to do? I mistrust people and fear they want to hurt me; when Saul was given over to a spirit of fear, can that happen today? Our...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui explains how self-fulfilling prophecies, such as parents calling their children lazy, trap us in negative emotions. How do I talk to my teen kids that live with their dad now? They are only hearing bad things about my past. My ex-husband is transitioning to a woman, and his parents are blaming me; what is my role in this? What do I do if my six older sibling...

Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses Romans 12:2, and the steps to transform your mind are to read God’s Word daily, identify your struggles, and do one thing today. My husband had an affair, and he rolls his eyes when I want us to try what our marriage counselor suggested. I went through the Comfort Circle with my sister, and God showed up! I was injured and had to take opioids for a year...

Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses Proverbs 16:2 and how God cares about our motives. I’ve been unemployed, just had surgery, and am facing homelessness; where do I go from here? Why is it so hard to leave my narcissistic husband who says he’s leaving our house and retirement to his kids? Should I continue to give my adult son gifts for Christmas if he is paranoid and says Christians are...

Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses the signs of depression and how to treat it. My son and his wife got upset over our vaccine disagreements, straining our family relationship and cutting us off from our grandkids. I struggle with depression, use marijuana, and have had suicidal thoughts; how can I find happiness beyond material things? My adult daughter is married to a man of another cul...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares the art of gift giving, focusing on thoughtful gifts over expensive. How do I move forward with my adult daughter, who is very manipulative and disrespectful to me? She was sexually abused as a child. After my wife discovered my porn use 5 years ago and I stopped, I feel like I don’t have any emotions. Should I confront my adult daughter who makes quest...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill discusses how generosity builds resiliency and blesses us in return. My girlfriend has been diagnosed with covert narcissism; if a person has a psychological limitation, where do they stand in relationship with Christ? How can I do an intervention if my daughter has children and is using drugs, asks for money, and will be homeless? My daughter is a Christian b...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice shares the story about Dr. Charles Mulli from Kenya, who was abandoned at a young age and later called by God to take in thousands of street children. Is it a good idea to take away my 14yo son’s pet as a consequence? He spends more time with his pet than with his responsibilities. Should I go to babysit my four grandkids at Christmas if my daughter ble...

Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses how, instead of making our hearts small like Scrooge and the Grinch, we should look for ways to expand our hearts on Giving Tuesday. How can I reach my adult crack-addicted son? I kicked him out because he smoked crack in my home. What should I do if I want to address something that bothers me, and the other person makes the conversation about something...

Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses his first-ever book, Understanding Your Attachment Style , that comes out December 2. My son and his wife have been lying and gaslighting me for 5 years; at what point do I walk away? I’m in a toxic relationship and work as a nurse in a toxic environment; how do I find my calling? My adult daughter texted that she remembered some inappropriate touc...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses the 27 percent of Americans who are estranged from a family member. If you’re estranged, there’s hope. How do we find safe people? With the holidays coming up, we are protecting our three young children from my difficult in-laws. How do we communicate to the kids why they won’t see them?

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill shares some Thanksgiving trivia questions. How do I deal with feeling like I’ve failed as a mom if our Christmas is going to look different this year because of the government shutdown? My 21-year-old son died from getting hit by a car 8 years ago; how do I get past it? Why would God take everyone from me? Within four years my son passed away, my other son wen...

Caller Questions & More: Becky asks the question: Do you want to change your brain or your mind? Gratitude will do that! I’ve seen a psychiatrist for 25 years, and he left the area; is it okay to give him a call to let him know I’m doing well? Is it me, or are my daughter and son-in-law the ones causing problems to keep me away from my granddaughter? How do I establish healthy boun...

Caller Questions & More: JJ just completed his 18th half-marathon and having sore muscles days later reminds him of how there is often a delay to the consequences of our actions. What do I do if I’ve been living with a woman who’s a friend, and it’s costing me a fortune? What is your professional opinion about my 72-year-old aunt who says God told her she is going to marry a certai...

Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses coping with grief and three things you can do when you or someone you know is struggling with loss. How do I set boundaries with friends who monopolize by time? I’ve been married for 13 difficult years; how do I get unstuck from an emotionally and verbally destructive marriage? My daughter with borderline disorder recently deeply offended my wife;...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice offers encouragement for parents who have been canceled by their adult kids. How can I be there for my sister without feeling drained because of her wrong decisions? I have had trust issues since my girlfriend betrayed me, and I became a caregiver for my mom and brother. What can I do to build connections with others at 50yrs old? My son-in-law is cutting me...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui gives tips on how to have a difficult conversation with honesty and kindness. I’m a substitute teacher and a Muslim student mentioned a passage in Luke 4:24 where Jesus says He is a prophet; what is my response? My friend’s adult daughter says she’s trans and wants to have top surgery; how do I support my friend who is devastated? How do I grieve being estra...

Caller Questions & More: The hosts share that God gives us a standing ovation every morning! Don’t think God is mad at you and you are in a deep sinkhole far away from Him. How can I facilitate my recovery and return to who I was before my traumatic brain injury? I needed to hear your advice about taking time to breathe before I react in anger to my sons. I’m a senior in high schoo...

Caller Questions & More: Chris warns us to not let fear get the final say rather than taking another courageous step forward. My sister is giving a kidney to a stranger, but I asked her to save it for me in case I need it after having a double lung transplant. Is it wrong? How do I seek God for intimacy when I don’t get it from my unfaithful husband? I bite my nail cuticles when I’m bore...

Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses relational repair and the five A’s of a good apology. My adult daughter is addicted to drugs and homeless; how do I cope daily and not be so sad while raising her son? I feel like Job because I’ve had illnesses, lost possessions in a fire, and now my house has bugs; how do I get off of this hamster wheel? Can you elaborate on the Comfort Circle, an...

Caller Questions & More: Marc discusses what resistance looks like in each attachment style; are you justifying your reaction from a place of insecurity? My girlfriend, the mother of my child, says she’s at a higher place with the Lord than I am and wants to cut me out of her life. I’m 76yo and the man I’m dating doesn’t want to wait until marriage for sex; should I end the relatio...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui explains how loneliness is at an all-time high; we need to get off our screens and get into community for healthy social engagement. I am dealing with guilt over how I treated my late husband; can you recommend any books or a counselor? Do I tell my adult daughter I’m going away for Thanksgiving? She made excuses not to not come over for Thanksgiving and the...

Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jim discusses how an interview with Joni Eareckson Tada helped him realize that it’s possible to give thanks in all things. Do you have any faith-based materials for me and my brother as we start a homeless ministry? I’ve been going through storms for 2 years, and Bible verses don’t seem to help. My marriage ended in divorce; why do I still fall for alc...

Caller Questions & More: Chris discusses Veterans Day and how good intentions are thwarted when we don’t have follow through. How do I pray for my daughter who is transgender? I feel like I’ve never had a good day parenting. My father was in WWII, would rage on me, and forced me to go to church and be a caregiver for my mom when I was little. My grandson is transitioning to a woman; how do I e...

Caller Questions & More: Becky discusses how Joshua in the Bible teaches us to surrender and know that God is with us wherever we go. Surrender is the biggest miracle! I said no to a man who just got out of jail and wants me to move near him; am I going to live with regret? Is it normal for my counselor to ask me to get a psych evaluation at the ER to see if medication will help me after givin...